How do you deal with this void of loss that won't really get better?

[Anonymous]

I can't come to terms with never being able to see or speak to my grandmother again the rest of my life. I still cry most days 17 months later. :(

[SteveSmith1985]

I'm sorry for your loss.

This hit me right in the feelings man. It's really sweet that you love your grandmother so much.

It does sound like you have indeed been grieving longer, and harder than is "normal."

I don't think the void will ever completely close. You'll always miss her.

You know full well, that your grandmother would not want you to be mourning her to the point that it has a negative impact on your life beyond what's a part of grieving a loved one. She wouldn't want you to cry most days 17 months later. She would want you to try and be happy, and live the fullest life you can.

I think you really could use some "grief counselling." There are people you can talk to who are specifically trained to help people cope with death and loss. You're suffering in a way that may not be healthy. It's certainly not usual. I think looking into grief counselling might be a big help. You should look into it.

🙂

[Anonymous]

Professional help