Why are my parents so strict and always think BOYS are BAD and how do I get them to realize I'm responsible?

[Anonymous]

Like they think boys are so so bad and all they do is f*** you and leave like when my dad was young that's what he use to do f*** girls and now he has f***ing rules! I asked my mom if I can go outside since its summer she said know I have to go with my big sister and my lame ass big sister didn't wanna go f*** that and my grandma was going to tag along f*** that too I'm just so mad right now I don't get that they always think boys boys boys like they need to shut the f*** up!They won't let me do anything and I don't know why they don't trust me because I don't even hang out with boys like that I'm starting to think I should start breaking rules because all I do is get good grades and listen to their crap I think I'm going to start sneaking out!

[BlueSJ]

It's because your father had the experience before and he knows what he was thinking of when he was young. So he thought all guys might be like this. Anyway, they are your parents, older than you, wiser than you, and have more experience and learnt a lot more than you from life. Sure, they will allow you to do what ever if they think the path is safe.

Please grow up, breaking the rules isn't the solution. Since your family is strict, this will complicate the problem. Your high grades are for you not for them, when you get high marks you will benefit yourself in future you will not really benefit them.

Believe it girl, no one knows your benefit and really loves you more than your parents. Don't let anyone deceives you. You maybe don't know that because you're still young, but no matter how strict and cruel they are with you, all they want is a perfect girl, they don't want you to regret anything. Please understand them.

[Anonymous]

Don't do that, I did that. You might learn a few new things but that's not the path you want to go down unless you want to be royally screwed up.

I guess it's good that you don't hang out with guys but even if you feel like your parents aren't being sensible, sometimes at a certain age it's best to just go along with what they say. There are some situations that you seriously don't know how to handle because of how naive you might be at a certain age even if you don't realize this at all. Even then, without good reason, because I can't be bothered to come up with one, in this case, just do as they say.

Tbh if they think guys are so bad, they should realize that girls are just as bad. If they let you hang with them (influence) they've got another thing comin'.

My advice is to try to not... dislike their rules.

[sfauo]

That you considering to break the rules shows exactly why they are in place. You are still young and mature, you why strict parents make rules? Because they care about you. Your responsibility now, as I assume you're under 18, is to focus on school & to learn how to be mature instead of going on a website cussing like you're so big.

I would hate to hear my sister say the filth you're saying, so please stop & reconsider your priorities.

[sfauo]

that you're*, you know why*

[aMuse]

lol. You're an adult and you're finally getting that idea. =P

[iXenomorph]

Ask your mom if dad was wearing a condom when he got her pregnant with you.

[Asker]

they werent because they already got married because he cleaned up

[BadGrim]

your over 18 then f*** what they say your an adult.

[Anonymous]

I think their worries are justified. You sound like you will hop on many boys if you haven't already.

[Anonymous]

How old are you?