To answer your question I don't know but according to my own code aka not Guy Code as you put it she haves to choose which guy me or him if it was according to me and to my own code meaning she have to speak up and say who she loves/likes and if she choose him I'll stand aside and move on never do boyfriend stuff for her like I use to and let her be with him and let him do all of the things I do for her and she's on her own she have to deal with him
And yes I created my own code and honor I live by and uphold and yes I still live by my own code I created for myself and when I said she's on her own she have to deal with him what I mean by it is kinda hard to explain and I didn't nice things for her so I can jump in her pants I did it if I like/or if I love her so now she'll get nice things from her boyfriend/or husband if she choose to marry him from now on and I will never do those nice things again like I use to and I'll move on and find someone else who'll appreciates it if I haven't giving up on women,dating,relationships and marriages yet.
I can go on and on and maybe give examples of my points don't know so I leave it here for now and for own code and honor I can't explain it so it's kinda difficult to explain it take care and good luck you'll gonna need it
Yes, there is Guy Code.
And it follows the motto of the British SAS (their elite special forces): Who Dares, Wins.
Meaning, the guy who makes the first move or public declaration gets first shot, and only once the relationship ends, or he gets publically shot down, does the next guy get a shot.
So, if you want to clear the way for your crush, you need to let this other guy know, in a nice way, that you aren't interested in him and already have your eye on someone else. Make sure to mention that to a few other people at work, again, in a nice way.
"Sam told everyone he likes me. That's sweet of him, and flattering, but I told him I'm already interested in someone. P.S., that someone is Dan. I'm hoping HE asks me out."
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Sometimes if one guy has established he likes a girl before another does, it isn't really calling "dibs" but the one who was silent will back off. A lot of factors go into it like who knew her first, how good of a friendship they have, how much into the girl they each are, etc. It's possible out of respect he's not making any moves. Have you heard he might like you but is holding off because of his friend, or are you making that assumption because you know his friend likes you? If you haven't heard about your crush wanting to make moves on you but is holding back, then his friend liking you isn't the only explanation for him not making moves.
No hard and fast rules, but a GOOD friend might well back off from a girl if a friend makes his intentions clear about being interesting in the girl. However, with some guys and in some situations the girl is valued higher than the friendship, so it can be every man for himself.
So in short, it totally depends on the guy(s).
I had the same problem with one of my college buddies, we had a archery match (im from rural Texas that's just how we solve problem here) to determine who gets to take a run at her first I won but she was not interested in me so my buddy swooped in which was fine by me. That's kinda the code I guess whoever openly admits to liking her gets to try his hand at wooing her first and if she does not go for it then the other person can give it a go.
Guys who follow the guy code...if the friend knew the crush liked you, he shouldn't be going for you afterward without telling him upfront what is going to happen. If the crush never said anything to the friend, the friend is free and clear.
Me and this girl dated a while ago but when we broke up I still loved her however she once told me that se loved my friend. I talked to him and he did like her and the moment I knew that they loved each other I wasn't only stepping aside but encouraged their relation ship. So my advice is to tell them which one do you prefer.
Pretty much. Normally the guy who has known the girl for the longest gets priority but in some cases guys can almost compete with each other
Well, there isn't a guy code or rules as such. Guys just have a tendency towards acting in certain ways for some quite obvious reasons.
But yes it's certainly possible that your crush is acting like that. But there isn't a rule.
No such rule, but I don't care about one particular girl when there's 3+ billion other ones. He probably knows he has options
Yes, there's unspoken rule in this. The one who first show confidence shall have the reward.
Luckily this has never happened to me before
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