This isn't about justification. Feeling some way isn't something you need to have reasons for, it's just there and it should be dealt with. As your boyfriend, he should be understanding of your feelings and make an effort to help you deal with them instead of starting a fight.
Also, I find it all very suspicious. that after 2.5 years you, as his girlfriend, still don't really know one of his best friends all that well, especially because this friend of his wants to spend time alone with him. It's not even a matter of trust, it's a matter of respect. Spending alone time with someone else's boyfriend on a regular basis in this way is incredibly disrespectful, and something the boyfriend shouldn't be condoning.
To avoid your boyfriend playing the trust-card (which is an unfair move by the way, as I explained above), consider voicing your concern by asking whether his friend doesn't want you there because doesn't like you, and if so why she would since you two don't really know each other all that well. It's unfair for you to be denied the chance to get to know your boyfriends friends, especially the ones he's closest to.
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If a man loves his woman he won't let himself be alone with any woman other than family of course. Because its all about respect.
I kind of think it is a little disrespectful for her to demand time alone with him like that without anyone else around. When my best friend HAD a girlfriend, I had that in mind and invited my sister along so everyone was on the same page about the situation.
I don't think you're being unreasonable. He should have your feelings in mind and make sure to keep them in mind. Since I'm assuming you don't know this girl, I feel as if that he should have at least done something for you to meet her so you would trust him a little more.
Depending on how long he's known this girl, you also can't expect him to drop one of his best friends for you. I know that sounds kind of harsh but I'm pretty sure that's the truth of the matter. Friends, especially best friends, usually come first before relationships. I don't know if that's how his personality is so that might not be true. Sorry if this isn't what you want to hear and good luck!
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