Depends on what type of date it is (indoors, outdoors, etc.) and what the weather is like and also what fits best with the girl's overall style and body type. But if I had to randomly pick maybe option A, because it seems cute but casual and something you'd be more comfortable in compared to a dress or skirt. Does that make sense?
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Yes it does! I think its mostly walking around/ cafe etc
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In the words of Kurt Cobain: Come as you are, as you were, as you wanted to be. Doesn't make a difference. Your clothes don't dictate whether someone else will enjoy the date.
As a side note I once took a girl out that was wearing baggy PJ pants and a sweeter. She told me afterwards she didn't really want to go out, but didn't feel right standing me up. She thouroughly enjoyed me and the date, and we went on many more, where she was dressed more appropriately to the occasion, lol
I prefer a girl to wear something she's comfortable with. I can't speak for all guys, but personally, I don't care much at all what the girl is wearing. I just want her to seem confident in her appearance. It's way more about how she carries herself than what she wears, for me.
whatever the woman feels comfortable wearing, nothing worse than a date not enjoying the date cos she made the effort of trying to please but feels uncomfortable in what she's chosen
so personally i would rather they wear something THEY like and enjoy the date which would avoid complications and giving off the impression they dont enjoy the date as a whole and not just being simply what they're wearing
Option B. When girls wear jeans, I always assume they're dressing casual. Since it's a date, I'd want to look nice, and would hope my date would want to look nice as well. When she looks nice, it shows that she's taking the date at least a bit seriously. So a cute dress is something I'd like to see on my first date. Still, it depends on the date I guess. My choice is assuming a lunch/dinner date. The jeans might be better if you're going on a picnic, or doing an activity together.
It honestly never crossed my mind, I think girls show their personality in the way they dress, so ideally she would wear something that gives a hint of what sort of person she is, while also offering a bit of titillation of what's underneath the clothes (without giving too much away)
I would most positively notice something casual. The clothing style is an indicator about the general personality to me. As I have my own 'wishing list' of her traits, her 'outfit' gives me hints. I could not say what I WISH to see (there is nothing specific), but I would NOT feel too comfortable if I encounter 'designer' clothing, high heels, something over-the-top-sexy, = over the top or some sort of reckless composition of colours, sizes, state of deterioration, and shapes.
Doesn't really matter many times. As long you don't have bad odor.
An other thing is. for example, do you dress like a skank the person most likely gonna treat you like such how that person normally treat them.
What normaly gives the most neutral effect is to dress casual, in something that you are comfortable in there you can be yourself. not necessarily in sweatpants.
Dress more in the direction of conservative rather than racy on the first date. Something comfortable that also makes a good but realistic first impression; the kind of outfit you would wear regularly and not just for special occasions.
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