Guys, What outfits do guys like to see on a first date?

[Anonymous]

Option A: something showing cleavage with jeans

Option B: a short dress or a short skirt with tights underneath and boots

Option C: a cute shirt with a vest

Option D: an oversized sweater with jeans or a short skirt underneath.

Please explain your answer :)

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[nachosaresexy]

Depends on what type of date it is (indoors, outdoors, etc.) and what the weather is like and also what fits best with the girl's overall style and body type. But if I had to randomly pick maybe option A, because it seems cute but casual and something you'd be more comfortable in compared to a dress or skirt. Does that make sense?

[Asker]

Yes it does! I think its mostly walking around/ cafe etc

[nachosaresexy]

How did the date turn out? :)

[Asker]

Funny you're asking it got cancelled lol he had a work thing come up

[nachosaresexy]

Bummer. Did he ask about rescheduling or are you just moving on?

[Asker]

Reschedule! Haha :) thanks for asking. didn't think anyone remembered

[nachosaresexy]

Cool... good luck with the reschedule!

I have a question on a different topic that I'm curious to get your opinion on. If you don't mind will you give me a follow so I can message you to try to explain?

[Asker]

Ofcourse

[Bananaman177]

I'll be dressed like this, of course:

[Asker]

Hahahahaha

[NYCstreetPhotog]

In the words of Kurt Cobain: Come as you are, as you were, as you wanted to be. Doesn't make a difference. Your clothes don't dictate whether someone else will enjoy the date.

As a side note I once took a girl out that was wearing baggy PJ pants and a sweeter. She told me afterwards she didn't really want to go out, but didn't feel right standing me up. She thouroughly enjoyed me and the date, and we went on many more, where she was dressed more appropriately to the occasion, lol

[Asker]

Hahahah good for you two! Xx

[Madhatter920]

I prefer a girl to wear something she's comfortable with. I can't speak for all guys, but personally, I don't care much at all what the girl is wearing. I just want her to seem confident in her appearance. It's way more about how she carries herself than what she wears, for me.

[SjE78]

whatever the woman feels comfortable wearing, nothing worse than a date not enjoying the date cos she made the effort of trying to please but feels uncomfortable in what she's chosen

so personally i would rather they wear something THEY like and enjoy the date which would avoid complications and giving off the impression they dont enjoy the date as a whole and not just being simply what they're wearing

[Aethereal]

Option B. When girls wear jeans, I always assume they're dressing casual. Since it's a date, I'd want to look nice, and would hope my date would want to look nice as well. When she looks nice, it shows that she's taking the date at least a bit seriously. So a cute dress is something I'd like to see on my first date.
Still, it depends on the date I guess. My choice is assuming a lunch/dinner date. The jeans might be better if you're going on a picnic, or doing an activity together.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

It honestly never crossed my mind, I think girls show their personality in the way they dress, so ideally she would wear something that gives a hint of what sort of person she is, while also offering a bit of titillation of what's underneath the clothes (without giving too much away)

[andreasderjuengere]

I would most positively notice something casual. The clothing style is an indicator about the general personality to me. As I have my own 'wishing list' of her traits, her 'outfit' gives me hints.
I could not say what I WISH to see (there is nothing specific), but I would NOT feel too comfortable if I encounter 'designer' clothing, high heels, something over-the-top-sexy, = over the top
or
some sort of reckless composition of colours, sizes, state of deterioration, and shapes.

[R0GUE96]

Just wear a t-shirt and some jeans nothing fancy you've already won our attention if we asked you out it's our turn to impress you

[Asker]

hadn't thought of it that way yet!

[R0GUE96]

Yeah that's why guys wanna pay the bill and always try to show off it's to get you to like them back

[crazy8000]

Doesn't really matter many times.
As long you don't have bad odor.

An other thing is. for example, do you dress like a skank the person most likely gonna treat you like such how that person normally treat them.

What normaly gives the most neutral effect is to dress casual, in something that you are comfortable in there you can be yourself. not necessarily in sweatpants.

[BCA6010]

Dress more in the direction of conservative rather than racy on the first date. Something comfortable that also makes a good but realistic first impression; the kind of outfit you would wear regularly and not just for special occasions.

[markscott]

B. Short dress of skirt, with tights underneath. Just because I like that look, it's sexy and attractive.

[soleil2666]

I'd go with a D because I love relaxed.
Or you could just go naked :-)

[Asker]

Good idea!

[iLookUpGirlsSkirts]

A skirt but also why do girls wear shorts under their skirts :(

[Asker]

I dont know anyone who does that tbh 😂

[iLookUpGirlsSkirts]

All the girls at my school do :( they all wear black shorts under their school uniform skirts :(

[Asker]

Hahahah i have never seen it before😂 and i like your username lol

[iLookUpGirlsSkirts]

I just wanna look up their skirts but black shorts are in the way :(

[elite665]

I like my girls cute and not overly showy except for me so c or😧 but B I puke be fine too honestly any would be ok I guess

[JamesRandiDebates]

I prefer something loose so that I can stick my hand down the back of her pants and finger her while she's giving me my first date BJ.

[Asker]

Hahahahha

[Apope16]

My favorite outfit is a nice, tight pair of jeans and a v neck shirt that shows cleavage. A nice pair of jeans on a first date is sooo sexy.

[anuragk033]

Whatever she likes because she rocks in every outfit 😍 all hail to curves 🙌

[Massageman]

Third choice since it has no skirt or pants. But seriously, it would depend on the events planned. Choice one would be great for mini-golf every time she bends over the ball, for example.

[Browser101]

It really depends on the context of the date... I’d say dress to impress though. But not incorrectly for the situation.

[Shahax]

The over sized sweater with a short skirt sounds real cute ill pick that one

[jolospongebob]

I would want her to wear something that she would wear normally to as long they are comfortabel

[Abdul21]

I dont know. I would choose option 4 for wifey and option 2 for date to play. But its like different meals when you are hungry.

[respectwomenforfun]

All of these outfits seem cool, stop worrying about how you look, and focus on showing your personality

[JKingOff]

Something classy with easy access so I'm not going to get in trouble for checking out the waitress. Lol

[BrotherFrost]

It depends. A dress that is not too short, or business casual. Depends on what does she want me to think of her: a supporter of my work or an ally that will get in there with me.

[MysticDevice]

Option B cause I think it does the best job of exemplifying feminine beauty.

[jeremythedrummer]

Whatever she feels comfortable wearing. Not too revealing though

[DarthBeefcake]

I feel like she should wear whatever makes her feel comfortable. For va movie+Applebees or something, maybe a solid color t shirt and casual pants? That's what I'd like to see anyways. It doesn't come off as too forward and I'd be less nervous.

[jermaineatl]

Just something that's casual and comfortable 😊 but tbh if they look really good. They'll look good in anything 😋

[NorthwestRider]

I like tomboys so a tomboyish outfit

-Jeans, a shirt and a pair of vans or boots
-A gothic outfit
-A sporty outfit

[Ganta2Igarashi]

You are asking this but there is a lot of context missing for example what country are you from tastes differ do to that? 😅

[Asker]

Im from Europe he's from middle east

[Ganta2Igarashi]

Not asking about your Origins, I was wondering what country you are living in because what might seem appropriate in the US might be very inappropriate in Russia or something like that you get my idea 😅😶

[Asker]

I live in Europe, he is visiting :)

[Ganta2Igarashi]

Option 😄 that would be the best course of action
Option A would be too much cauz first date
Option B again looks are important but not this much for the first date you are testing the water you know
Option 😧 seems sloppy
Option 😄isn't too much and not sloppy
Especially do to him being from the middle East you should test him slowly before getting your A game out do to them having a different dress code over there