I would tell him to f*** off, but it's good to know the truth about what he thinks about my clothes.. A better approach would to take me shopping and say "I think you would look beautiful in this (insert conservative outfit)"
yea, but this is on the same level of changing someone so it must be don't delicately and not pushed. because If I'm wearing those clothes it's for a reason, because I like them, not to get other guys attention he needs to trust that no matter what I wear I'm his. I don't want to date my date, he should want me to look and feel sexy, I'm leaning more towards the "f*** off" part of my answer.lol
I already dress conservatively so it would be no big deal to me. And yeah, if he asked, I would do it for him even though I do hate being told what to do normally.
It totally depends on how he expresses it. Of course I don't dress that way. Its rare I show cleavage. I don't wear shorts either. But yeah if he felt that way we could sit down and talk about it
Since I don't really dress 'provocatively', I'd think that he was being weirdly controlling. So, no, I wouldn't. And I preferably wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who asked me to.
My boyfriend would never ask me to change. Ever. If he loved me, he'd love me for me and wouldn't try and change my style. If you can't handle her style, don't date her.
@update; still no. Why should he care what I wear? If you liked the girl in the first place, what you see is what you get. If you're attracted to her, her style of dress can't be that bad. If it's that big of an issue, deal with it or break up. Honestly.
i would. I wouldn't say that the boyfriend is controlling, they just don't want their girl to be exposed or they don't feel commfortable with them dressing so immodestly.! I totally understand why a guy would want their girl covered up.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
15Opinion
I would tell him to f*** off, but it's good to know the truth about what he thinks about my clothes.. A better approach would to take me shopping and say "I think you would look beautiful in this (insert conservative outfit)"
Would you lean towards wearing those clothes if he did it like that?
yea, but this is on the same level of changing someone so it must be don't delicately and not pushed. because If I'm wearing those clothes it's for a reason, because I like them, not to get other guys attention he needs to trust that no matter what I wear I'm his. I don't want to date my date, he should want me to look and feel sexy, I'm leaning more towards the "f*** off" part of my answer.lol
I already dress conservatively so it would be no big deal to me. And yeah, if he asked, I would do it for him even though I do hate being told what to do normally.
dear no body likes being told what to do.
If you presented a logical argument, you might be able to convince me. I won't rule anything out.
Honestly, I hate that conversation so I basically avoid it by not dating girls whom dress provocatively to begin with.
Yes, of course I would. I would expect him to cut out things that made me uncomfortable as well though.
It totally depends on how he expresses it. Of course I don't dress that way. Its rare I show cleavage. I don't wear shorts either. But yeah if he felt that way we could sit down and talk about it
Since I don't really dress 'provocatively', I'd think that he was being weirdly controlling. So, no, I wouldn't. And I preferably wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who asked me to.
I once had a Mrs who said I needed to dress 'less thuggishly'... guess how long she lasted
I would think they might but also it would seem like the boyfriend is controlling.
Probably only when I'm with him. Unless there was a big chance we'd end up getting married. Otherwise I wouldn't bother fully changing how I look.
I already dress conservatively relative to my culture and place.
I refuse however to fold to crazy religious beliefs.
My boyfriend would never ask me to change. Ever. If he loved me, he'd love me for me and wouldn't try and change my style. If you can't handle her style, don't date her.
hahaha.. keep dreaming.
@jcmrq
Exactly
Nope. I'd dump him. It's my body, I'll wear what I want. F***what he thinks.
@update; still no. Why should he care what I wear? If you liked the girl in the first place, what you see is what you get. If you're attracted to her, her style of dress can't be that bad. If it's that big of an issue, deal with it or break up. Honestly.
I don't dress provocatively, but If I did, I think I would..
hmmm..it depends on how conservative he is talking about and why. I wouldn't like my boyfriend trying to change the way I dress
Yes, I'd definitely do it :) As long as we both love each other I'm willing to compromise :)
Yay :-) +1
Thank you! :)
um yea she shouldn't be dress that way to much anyway... she's suppose to show you all the goods.
I guess it would depend on the reason. I would have to say yes though.
i would. I wouldn't say that the boyfriend is controlling, they just don't want their girl to be exposed or they don't feel commfortable with them dressing so immodestly.! I totally understand why a guy would want their girl covered up.
he doesn't like the way I dress then he shouldn't be with me. that would be changing who I am