Flirting

Flirting: online guides and movies show us the wrong "How-to"

I mean, what I "learned" about flirting is to make sexual remarks and such but I dont believe this method actually works. Only if you're like a 10/10 looking stud.


What I've seen is thats it's all about being confident and TO NOT SEARCH FOR YOUR PARTNER.
Besides that, when you really are busy with a girl, I mean it's not like you sexualize the whole convo on purpose right? You just want to know each other better etc.. and if it clicks it does, if not than no. There is no such thing as saying:



You lonely in bed, sweatheart?



No, thats when you at least now there is a form of attraction and it really does click. Than you can be playful, but most of the time, flirting is all about fucking, laughing, and having a damn good time. That should be the reason she comes to you; your confidence, humor but yet realism. Not some over-sexualized teen who is an asshole in every way. And girls dont like it anyway, its gross and too pushy.


Cause how can you possibly REALLY flirt with someone without a click? I can tease for fun or make sexual puns but thats so innocent. When you're with someone you love/clicks you'll see that you will be able to laugh with everything and everyone. Of course you can talk sexy, to steam it up...but when it comes to finding a real love its all about matching and finding the click...


What those movies teach about those sexual things is just a guy who looks rough, doesn't care is a bad boy, everything he does and says is smooth so the chick will automatically drool over him. I've been there. And she was gone after 3-4weeks, now i found real love (got to know her, we click, and i dont need to worry about what she thinks etc...).


Cause when I see most teenage kids texts, they all talk about sex and etc... It's so immature, they forget to prove they really love her. And I think that's what a girl needs, someone who provides everything, not some silly 3rd grade sexual shit.


Cause I've been through the "nice guy" stage, but somehow I skipped the "sexual flirting" stage and I just devoted my time to her, when possible, showed her how awesome and amazing I was. Of course, sex was a subject in some of our convos. But I mean most of the time we came together and everything was on auto-pilot; I didn't need to prove my interest by making her horny. NO, I just made her laugh and let the rest flow...That's when you know it clicks...


Flirting: online guides and movies show us the wrong

Flirting: online guides and movies show us the wrong "How-to"
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