Weird I kind of think that this girl I was seeing was doing this to me, as soon as it got serious ( and I fell for her) she started to find things wrong with everything and starts the whole I need space stuff, so I give space, then it's something else, after 2/1/2 months of what I saw as stringing me along, it finally ended, on her part, and says that I should be seeing other people? what? I was into her and that was it...she thought that me not seeing other people during that time was weird? Now after again me fighting with her and tell her you're all I want, and the minuscule things that bothered her are fixable. She says " I still love you but can't deal with stuff" " nothing is changing, please move on!" and "i can't be your boyfriend right now"? So fine if that's what you want. I quit everything no contact period. Then after a while txt me everything reminds me of you, and I miss you. I reply something of the same...what's the deal?
Women most certainly do push guys away, but it also depends on the type of guy she's seeing. If he doesn't have a scarcity mentality most men seem to have, and the woman in question knows he has other options, the last thing she'll want to do is free up his Friday time slot for some other woman to fill.
My advice to any woman that tests their man by playing these game is that if he lands another lady you only have yourself to blame. I forget the exact wording, but there is a rule of relationships that says never test people because nobody is perfect and you'll ultimately get let down.
It goes back to the cat and mouse game hun lol . Maybe women get tired of being the cat and in turn let the mouse go, so that they can become the mouse . Maybe they want to be reminded that they're still wanted and worthy enough to pursuit . Now from my personal experience, I've never pushed a guy away unless there were serious reasons to do so . I'd never push a guy away just to play a silly game like that, just for the simple fact that he may not come back . But all women are complicated in their own ways and have their own reasons for doing the things they do .
1) Yes
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3) Yes. But I would also take into consideration the situation. Because I had a friend who had a guy split up with his girlfriend just so he could be with my friend. She pushed him away to see if he was serious but he kept coming back. In the end it turned out that he hadn't split up with his girlfriend and only kept coming back to my friend so he could have "the best of both worlds. " I think girls who do that have to be really cautious about what it actually mean. But I have personally done it before myself.
A girl will sometimes push a guy a way because she want to see how serious
you are about the relationship .
if she pushes away it could be that something is going on and she
doesn't want to talk bout and needs space .
also she could be pushing you away and doesn't even know it .
talk to her and see if anything is going on .
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Fascinating question and answers. I suppose this never worked with me, because I always felt that it was a manipulation thing (I really hate to feel manipulated), and I would just move on. Who wants to pursue a relationship where they might or might not really want you or they are just testing you when there are so many other options?
Personally, I push away guys to see what they will do!. I think by doing that we'll see if you really are interested (doesn't work all the time)
But you need to know if that's the reason for her pushing you away
probably she wants some space or just not into you && don't know how to tell you face to face.
But if you have a prob. The best way is to ask her y she's pushing you away!
Well hope I helped:)
Some girls do, some girls don't . Maybe she needs to reassure herself that he will not leave her; get over her insecurities about him just walking out of her life . Some view guys that stand by them all the time someone that loves them, someone that won't leave them . Others don't have this problem, it really depends on the girl .
I think yes girls will push guys away to see if he will come back, to see if he really cares, but I think it is more instinctual than strategically planned. if you know what I mean. It almost like they expect him to come back, but want to make sure he knows that they aren't that easy to win over.
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes, but I think its all in the way you come back, you have to be careful, because if done wrong she will lose respect for you and think your a push over and I think deep down inside no woman wants a push over.
Am I the only that sees a problem with this logic
If a woman was to push me away
I'm a free agent(again)and no i
don't believe a woman is worth fighting for.
And sometimes ask yourself at what cost?
Is a woman worth fighting for?
There are plenty of hot babes just move on
works for me
I don't because when I get a guy I like keeping him. Because there's alwaya a chance that he might not come back. But I'm sure other girls do.
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It's sad isn't it . But it's true
Yeah . That's possible . At least I might one day do that:p
Yes, That could be a sign of love .
YES . That is always possible . A girl can sometimes tend to be insecure and needed an assurance that you will get her back, by then, she would be sure that the relationship is secure .
YES . So you guys out there better watch out . We're smarter than you think :p
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