We didn't plan on an affair, it just happened.

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I've been seeing this man 2 1/2 years now . We're both married to other people have been for a long time . We didn't plan on an affair it just happened. We didn't plan on the relationship becoming serious and falling in love with each other. We both want to leave our spouses and be together. He told me 2 weeks ago he loved me and anticipates starting a new life with me within the next 4 years but he has his doubts.

.This week he tells me when he goes to church he asks god what to do about me ? When I ask him what he means by this he says he can't explain it.

if he knows he loves me and he wants to start a new life with me then why does he doubt and why does he ask god what to do about me ? I am so confused . I feel like I'm being sent mixed signals. I love him dearly .
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i was really looking for advice from the males point of view what it means when a man asks god what to do about a woman he is in a relationship with. so lets say he's religious. whether he is or not evidently he has found a need to ask for help from god
We didn't plan on an affair, it just happened.
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