I don't think girls like introverted guys like me? (Page 3)
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Have you had any success in the months since you posted this? Just curious after reading some of the comments and tips people gave you.
Thanks for checking up on me. No, I haven't. I've been better in the sense that I'm more comfortable with who I am and I've been better with talking to people, but there's been no real interest from girls. I'm in med school...the girls are either taken already or, well, I guess they don't think I'm exciting enough. I thought that'd change once I hit med school, but it hasn't. Despite what a lot of girls have answered no girl has seemed to think I'm their type of guy.
Mai pleasure. If I may be so bold as to ask, why med school? What exactly do you want to do?
In a perfect world, I'd just write. But that's not practical. So I could do worse than being a doctor--I'd be able to write in a position of security, which is when I write best anyway. To top it off, I love sports, and sports medicine fits me well. So it's really a no lose for me: sports medicine with being able to write on the side. I did well enough to be able to get into med school, so I thought things could be worse and took it.
What do you write?
Well, I've been "seriously" writing for about 5 years now, you know where I actually start and finish something and re-write it and polish it up. I don't have anything published and I haven't tried to yet, but I'm getting better, that's my major goal. Basically books and short stories.
I wish you the best in that. I'm glad you're more comfortable with yourself and I hope you find what you're looking for. Feel free to add me if you'd like
Don't change yourself. I really like guys who are 'introverted'- except, you're not THAT introverted as you say you are. You just have your own shy personality, and a lot of girls like that. You just haven't met her yet.
Don't change yourself. What if that girl finally comes and she doesn't like you for your 'fake'/'new' personality? Stick to being yourself, and a girl will come along soon :)
wow. honestly don't even change who you are. Your actually the type of guy I would look for, all the guys I know all just want to hook up and have a good time. I know exactly what you mean, just don't worry about it. Just focus on yourself, a girl will come along when your not looking.
there are a lot of different kind of girls. not every girl will like to go bar or pub. or very "social" things.
you will have your girl, just not right now, just not at the right time. and you still young.
sometime if you searching for something, it's hard. my suggestion is to be who you was. if the girl love you it means love real you.
You are totally wrong, there are girls that are looking for a guy like you. I have a friend likes guys like you lol Don't worry don't rush into things love comes when you least expected ;)
Don't try to change who you are! I like guys like you, and as far as I know there are plenty of girls who do too. Sounds like you've maybe just had some bad luck?
I would kill to find at least one guy who is as well rounded as you. Don't change yourself for chicks because if you do they aren't worth it.
well I'm a pretty aggressive girl, so if there is a guy that I find attractive and he is shy or passive, I will take initiatie, I go against tradition.
Eh this is resolved 3 points kthx!
Right there with you bud.
Stay strong.
Haven't you already asked this before ?