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If I like the guy I play hard to get to see if he really likes me. For instance, if I act like I don't like him and he still pursues then I know that he actually likes me and it's not like a 'hook up'
Why does it have to be like that?. Why do girls always thing that you want to get in to their pants?. Is this something that Mothers teach to their kids? damn. And sorry but if a guy would want sex he will rather make it clear than put so much more effort into leading you on, that is way too much work. If a guy wants sex he will let you know, games are not necessary.
mayb she ain't playin hard to get mayb she is shy and confused about her new found feelins for you that makes her blow hot and cold. which ultimately feels as thogh she's playing hard to get.
sometimes it´s because of fear. We sometimes fear the boy won't feel the way we do so we just hide our feelings. Also, we play hard to get so that the boy will appreciate more our love when they get it. Boys like what they can´t get, right? That´s why.
Who says we like what we can't get?
I'm with toban. Says who? For example does it sound like I like the stupid f***ing game? It's more annoying. One minute he's a token of your affection, the next you couldn't possibly care less. Explain to me where that gets fun. It makes you seem indecisive at best. On top of that how are we supposed to know it's not just the girl friendzoning us?
Well. you asked, I answered. that?s why. I didn't mean they only want what they can't get, what I meant was that they won't appreciate it much if they get it..how can I say it? free? Nah, well you get my point.
Oh..btw. who says? well, many people. including boys ;)
Going with a broad sense of vagueness huh? Lovely.
Yeah just like a girl... You've got to realize sometime that all humans are flawed like this...
Well, first off that's true for everyone (wanting whatever it is sitting on the top shelf, just out of reach) - secondly, working for something doesn't automatically give it more value. A lot of times that's just lust and in the end you realize you didn't need that thing to complete yourself and move on. Just think of the last thing you "worked hard" to earn - were you satisfied with it forever and ever? No, you start thinking of ways to improve on it. Just human nature.
Because it works every single time and it's our best mind game that every girl can achieve. It's like we're born with it.
I've noticed that some guys like this and others don't. The ones who do not are usually the shy guys who wants the girl to do everything. Guys who are not shy enjoy not knowing what to expect from the girl.
Thats not true at all, we want a relationship that is 50/50, we don't want to do all the work. Paying for dates, starting conversations and what not, while girls don't do anything, they just stand there and play around.
the harder you work to get something, the more you are going to appreciate it
Not really, I've worked insanely hard for some things but once I got them I realized I had no desire for them in the first place - it really wasn't what I wanted, I had just been telling myself that I needed it when in fact it wasn't for me.
umm maybe they are not interested and you think they are playing hard to get.
lol hhahhahahahahah
its true..
Girls play hard to get because if we played too easy you would lose interest in us after 1 week :)
I would lose interest with mind games, not "easy" girls.
@Brian437 It's not mind games it's called foreplay and making sure we listen to logic first and to get an idea of what a person is like first but because most people are brats these days men are VERY touchy about being rejected to the point they may bully a woman and get violent to make them date them but it just doesn't go down with 21st century women no more, you will just get banged up in jail. For any human developing a bond with someone is a special thing but it's even more special for us women because we are the ones having the carry the child (if we do want kids that is), but we don't wanna date someone, believe their lies, get knocked up by them then end up as a single mother or in a nasty dispite in court where we then lose the child, or worse the guy turns horrible if we do want kids and forces us to abort it putting us through a lot of heartache, we have to be very very careful and you know it, logic before acting, men should take a page out of our book.
if you guys hate what girls do this much just become GAY. start ignoring girls. don't give a crap about them. live with the guys. since you hate a lot of things about girls and you think you and the guys are always right, that is what you should do.
If you ever had any relationship quarrels with guys, why don't you just go lesbian then?
How does that solve anything? Are you the type of girl, that when in an argument with your other half, to just turn cheek and move on to the next tool? Good luck with that, I'll stick to who I am.
Woohoo... complains again! Like I said “GO GAY!!!!!”
You guys make me sick!! All I hear in this site is complains about girls. We girls are wayyyyy better then you guys. You guys choose partners on the basis of how they look at least 95% of the time instead of their personality traits. And then you men cheat like big times!! And then lie about it all the time. Men cheat way more than women. And then the ridiculously sick line about slutty men being the master key and women being the sh**lock tha
Lock that opens with every key!! DOUBLE STANDERDS !!!! “guys like variety in life” ” variety is the spice of life” so go ahead sleep with deferent guys everyday fulfill all your peculiar sexual fantasies that you see in the p*rn sites. I bet the guys will never say no to those. You guys will be able to have lots of casual sex without breaking any innocent heart.
@ Mesonfielde ye I am thinking about it I wish I could, that would have been better
Shut the f*** up. I'm not usually aggressive or mean towards people on here but damn you're f***ing annoying. I like women, therefore I will only be with women. Women cheat just as much as men, they are just better at not getting caught, OR the guys they cheat with are better at not leaving clues behind. Either or. Do I pick a girl because I am physically attractive to her? Sure, but that's not the sole reason. She has to have good personality traits as well. Looks are a bonus, but lets be real.
You don’t see someone for the first time and go up to them and start a conversation because of their personality. You can’t because you don’t know them. You go up and introduce yourself because you find the person physically attractive to some point. Then once you get to know them, (their personality) then you decide whether or not you want to possibly date them. For every guy that cheats, there is a girl that cheats. But if I went around saying I don’t want to be with this person because girls
cheat a lot. Or you go around saying I don’t want to be with this guy, because guys in general cheat a lot. Then you will never be able to get into a relationship. Even if a person becomes a homosexual. A gay guy can still cheat on another gay guy. A lesbian can still cheat on a lesbian. It doesn’t matter. You are sexually attracted to the gender you are attracted to because of biological reasons. Not because one day you just want to start dating the same or opposite gender.
Straight guys will get a sexual arousal out of female urine, while gay guys, and straight women, get an arousal out of male sweat. So you can’t just become gay. Sure theoretically you could, but that’s not how it works. You are attracted to the gender you are attracted to. And don’t even get me started on double standards. There are so many double standards in favor of women. Yeah, there are double standards of men as well, but the problem with a lot of double standards is that they are
based off of the stereotypical man or woman. And in all honesty, not to many people in this world are actually the stereotypical man or woman. So, from the outside looking in it looks like a huge double standard that looks bad. But in reality that’s not the case. For example, the double standard you use. I will easily debunk it. Sure, in our society we have this double standard of men being able to sleep around with women and being the man, or the master key, and the “slutty” girl is the master
lock that is opened no matter what key is used. But, most if not all men don’t really like women that are slutty, that part of the double standard is true. And Most if not all women don’t want guys who get around either. So really, just because in our society that’s how we view guys who sleep around, they really don’t get any benefit because if a girl knew he slept around she wouldn’t even bother, unless she also is a girl who sleeps around. So this double standard of a guy being praised for
sleeping around isn’t entirely true. Women don’t want guys like that, and guys do talk bad about guys who do that, and guys do warn girls of guys that are like that. It’s up to the girl to listen.
They don't want to be thought of as easy...or they have standards, thrill of the chase...test you to see how determined you are, how much you like them how far you are prepared to get them etc
So we don't end up letting the wrong guy into the Bat Cave... Once you're there, we can't validate parking and everything has a consequence.
Some girls are scared to get hurt so they don't open up easily && guys tend to want what they can't have also which girls know.
I agree with the first half of your statement
because their mom tells them too
Best answer, right here
I was going to say that's a good answer - not literally, but I think there's a lot of pressure out there for people to act a certain way even though it goes against their nature.
Yeah my mom told me too, but I don't actually play hard to get because I don't have that much self-control
well why do guys use reverse phycology?huh?
because they love to lead us on