Do popular guys get attracted to a not popular girl?

[Anonymous]

So there is this guy who is popular and confident but I'm not. But he treats me differently than other girls. So how can I know if he is attracted to me if he won't talk to me. I need answers from guys with experience or girls who can relate and have been in this position before. How would you let her know you like her with body language?

[mactallica]

Well I was popular in high school I was prom King senior year. But never felt like I should have been the popular kid and I was really awkward and she was the New Girl but I really liked her so I asked her to dance at prom we hit it off and kept making googly eyes at each other during lunch the cafeteria I would try to get a excuse to bump into her and say hi or have frequent conversations and have a attentive open body language and try to be slightly physically closer than I might be two other people when sitting next to her and if the guy is doing kind of a dorky half-smile and laughs under his breath a lot that's probably a good sign if he's kind of awkward around you but trying not to be that might also be good sometimes YouTube and actually is good for this also

[Asker]

Okay thanks your answer really helped me understand better. And I am going to check some YouTube videos out while I'm at it.

[leifleoden]

Yeah, Social status for guys tends to be based more on skills and abilities + charisma. For example the star quarter back on the football team is popular because he wins games and makes the school look good. Befriending an unpopular girl will not affect the talent he has which causes him to add value to the community.

[Asker]

Thanks for your feedback :)

[Laurenjonesey15]

Yeah I was one of the most unpopular girls in the school lol and had a few of the ‘popular’ guys interested. If he treats you differently there’s a good chance he’s interested, I guess if they try and get close to you or playfully tease you/ compliments you then it’s a good sign.

[liarenae]

It seems like it. Even now that im out of highschool, the guys on the basketball team in college seems to date certain girls

[Tushnim]

Just go talk to him. All this guessing about whether or not he is interested or you are not popular enough... well, you do have to study, right? So go talk to him, and if it looks like he likes you (which is easier to read from one's body language when you're talking to them) and then if it turns out he does, ask him out.
All the best.

[Kawabanga1]

girls make the false assumption that guys like famous girls more cause they themselves like famous guys, but we aren't girls and the same rules dont apply to us.

most guys want a girl they can trust, who is more likely to be loyal and doesn't recieve as much attention or crave it from guys, and a shy, reserved girl whose not at the center of things is exactly what we want, if she's attractive to us of course.

[BigGuy8]

Depends. Is she simply not popular, or is she Unpopular? Will dating her ruin his reputation? If he's attracted to you, and wants to be with you, your popularity won't matter.

[MrMist]

I personally get attracted to personality more than looks probably 30% looks 70% personality matters to me

[Arabian911]

Hormones knows no boundaries, especially social classes in high school

[Smegskull]

Men like all women by default until they find out something that puts them off one.

[cancan73]

All guys are attracted to attractive girls. Full stop, the girls that are less popular are actually better as they are less likely to be cunts

[winterfox10]

Of course! Just because you aren't popular doesn't mean you aren't hot.

[iamechhkayy]

Popularity is the last thing a guy cares about until and unless he's a kiddo

[Anon85]

If he doesn't talk to you, how do you know he likes you? How exactly is he treating you differently?

[Ripper_E]

Are you in high school? that's really the only place where popularity matters.

[Asker]

No but he is well known he is very outgoing and social he knows a lot of people. He goes to my church.

[leifleoden]

That's not necessarily true. A well liked person is more likely to gain positive peer reviews at work and be more likely to receive mentoring from managers. While it is true that popularity is disporportionatly important in HS. The good social skills and charisma that lead popularity can have profoundly positive effects in later life.

[Asker]

Exactly I agree, so would you say it didn't matter if he was attracted to an introvert?

[leifleoden]

No, and it isn't the case that introverts are always unpopular or unliked. However, it is important to introverts to not be too agreeable. Being a little agreeable is fine but too much of that personality traits will lead to you being exploited in later life. Introverts, however, tend to be better listeners which causes them to have less friendships but the ones they do have are deeper and longer lasting. Again be wary of emotional and economic exploitation.

[Asker]

Thanks for your reply :)

[Jay875]

I was a very popular guy and it didn't matter to me wether the girl was popular or not. What matters is if I liked her personality and looks. I've dated girls with almost no friends more then once.

[eastwood7838]

Not all guys like a girl who has a million friends. The more friends you keep in the circle, the bigger the chance one has to manipulate you. Moral being keep a small circle.

[wolf1496]

I would like a girl who likes being around me and I feel better with her. That's it. This matters the most to me. Looks, Popularity will fade one day.

[SketchForger]

I'm not popular... But getting approached might give him a better chance to want to go out with you tbh.

[CrazyyChick]

The guy in the pic is 😍

[Anonymous]

Popularity means nothing

[Anonymous]

of course, i want some low key coochie too

[JesseTheMan]

Depends on the guy

[rockrewls]

Sure they can.