Guys, How do you act after rejection? (Page 2)

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When rejected (twice) how do you act toward the girl? Especially if the girl is still texting first everyday? Do you cut off all communication even if they say "hey", and not reply? Or do you just talk short to them, replying to only what they text you? I mean as someone who's still interested in them, there's no purpose in having a fake friendship in hopes that they'll crack.  Basically, How do you react after rejection? Especially if you're still interested, yet they keep trying to talk, hang out, etc. And how do you approach it if you know that there's someone else that has their eye?

DamnSam · Answer

In that case a "im not interested" means often "I will think about it, but maybe in future, but too maybe not"... this fckng "maybe"

But if she text you almost every day first, then she is a bit interested because if she is not interested she would cut conversation to a minimal amount to prevent feelings...

jessture · Answer

Rejection equals game over. If she says no, I respect that and move on. If she rejects but then gives contradiciting signals that indicate she wants you, I still move on, I don't tolerare women who are so manipulative. It's either yes or no.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Historically, I've usually felt embarrassed. If I've seen her again afterwards, it's pretty awkward. I'd usually be unsure on how to act around her if I saw her out somewhere.

MrSanchez84 · Answer

Rejected... jk

Maybe you can still be friends but actively look for a new relationship with another girl. Be careful that she's not trying to play you or use you emotionally to make yourself feel good. If that's what she's doing break it off.

inkthusiast · Answer

Be yourself, but be less amenable. Don't get played, some women do crack after learning thier reward system is broken.

Bluemax · Answer

Perhaps it would be best to put some distance between you and this woman. When you're over her, then resume contact if you like.

delange91 · Answer

Man when i read this question i was in awe i wish i could pm you as im having this exact this going on in my life dude dude dude im telling you we have a lot to talk about

LegateLanius · Answer

You tell her to lose your number. She wants to be friends and you want more. I'd drop all contact. For the record, I only get rejected once and do that.

Pindaflip · Answer

I can imagine the pain after getting rejected twice. In the beginning it will hurt, but when it's gone. Then I would have contact with her, just being friends. I wouldn't expect anything and just live my life with or without her friendship.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I had a situation where there was a girl I worked with I liked her and she ended up rejecting me telling me I wasn’t her type and she would never date me if I was the last guy on earth. So I attempted to avoid her to make my feelings go away then she constantly came up to me and was like why are you avoiding me and can we talk about it and I’m not not gonna leave you alone, she then proceeded to ask everyone at work why I wouldn’t talk to her

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