Have you experienced deep eye contact with someone? Was it one-sided or did it develop into something more?

[HotDogg]

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul, and that when someone looks into another's eyes they can see what is deep inside their hearts and minds. Have you felt this?

How long did the eye contact last?

[Wonderer89]

Yeah, with my barista yesterday when he confirmed three times I didn’t want the extra shot and was trying to work out if I was ok.
My soul windows said I was fine, and he made the coffee like I asked but the eye contact lasted for 40 seconds which was weird for everyone

[HotDogg]

40 seconds is pretty weird in that situation lol... Did you feel he was attracted to you? Are you attracted to him?

[Wonderer89]

No, I’ve been buying a coffee everyday off him for four years. There is no attraction

[HotDogg]

Interesting... so you think he was worried about you because you didn't want the extra shot?

[Wonderer89]

Somewhat.
Eye contact rarely means anything of large significance, and almost always results in nothing but overthinking

[Anonymous]

One time I had a super intense experience like this. We were sitting across the room from each other in a really crowded room. We locked eyes and it almost felt like we had an entire conversation it sent electric jolts up my spine. It lasted a good minute.

[HotDogg]

Oooooo... what happened next?

[Opinion Owner]

We basically went back to flirting when we saw each other, it didn’t really go past that

[HotDogg]

Damn. Why not? How do you think he felt during that eye contact? The same as you?

[Opinion Owner]

I definitely think he felt the same but we gradually grew apart and started hanging with different people. I’ll always remember that tho.

[HotDogg]

Since then, any other experiences like that?

[Opinion Owner]

Not really

[HotDogg]

Sigh... seems like such a wastr to lose a connection like that! Maybe I am just too hopeless with the hopeless romanticism.

[genny29]

It lasted a couple of seconds it felt longer though. He does it sometimes. He looks deeply and intensely at me. It makes me uncomfortable sometimes and i look away. Its one sided usually nothing ever happens after that.

[HotDogg]

Who is this "he", your crush?

[genny29]

Yes it is my crush

[HotDogg]

What would you like to happen?

[genny29]

For him to confess his feelings

[HotDogg]

Haha... he probably has some, but has no idea if you do or not. Will you confess first?

[genny29]

He knows i like him already im hoping he makes the first move. I believe he likes me he is just nervous and afraid of rejection.

[HotDogg]

He does, are you sure? Lol

What kind of first move should he make?

[genny29]

Yes im sure its a wo man's instinct. Asking me for my number or to take our friendship to a new level. Go on a date, just some examples.

[genny29]

Woman's*

[HotDogg]

Us guys are dumb when we are shy and afraid of rejection. Help him along please!

[genny29]

Okay but how? Lol

[HotDogg]

Do the girl thing lol... "so, I have no plans this weekend... and I don't know what to do"

See if he takes the bait!

[genny29]

Alright haha 😂

[HotDogg]

He should, I hope! Let me know how it goes.

[RoastedCharms]

You can tell a lot about a person by looking into their eyes. Gazing into my lady's eyes, I knew I could trust her and I could see she's a quality person too, worth all my time and effort.

[GRIZZadams]

Spirituality is an extremely powerful thing but for it to fully work both parties need to be enlightened.

I could see how this would work and I will try it someday

[HotDogg]

Perhaps both parties are making eye contact without fully being aware?

[GRIZZadams]

Glancing eye contact can be tricky, hard to read, need to combine it with smiles and look always and eventually developed it into a full stare if we are talking across the room bar flirting whatever, however I truly feel this would be much more beneficial to couples and friends. Trying to touch the soul can be difficult on first encounter, or very easy if both parties are proactive.

[Amonimous]

No. Eyes aren't the windows to the soul, they are the windows from the soul. One-way mirrors, if you will.

[AquaBoo]

I did. But it was one sided. For awhile anyway. It's called "soul gazing".

[HotDogg]

One sided for a while? He didn't share your feelings?

[AquaBoo]

No. I didn't share his. I used it to get info out of him lol

[HotDogg]

Dang... what info?

[Anonymous]

Yes. The first time I slept with my guy we had really intense eye contact before anything happened. It just made me fall for him even more.

[HotDogg]

Do you think he felt what you were feeling?

[Opinion Owner]

Can't say for sure, but I suspect so

[komfortzone]

Intensity!

[HotDogg]

That is out of my komfort zone, for sure.

[VooDooBooDoo]

It's always one-sided.

Me.