That's a wide subject… since girls are asking for equity but they don't wanna do the things we do, nowadays it feels like men have to do all the work so start something and a girl just need to sit and wait for someone she likes to approach, most women have no idea of how does it feel to have to face the fear of rejection from the person you care about and want to be cared about by… we are exposing ourselves and making ourselves vulnerable risking to be hurt or even humiliated by that person, is obviously something that tends to be more secure to do, behind a screen, women don't even care to try to approach men… in my whole life this "extremely weird" situation have happened only twice to me and I have had approached hundreds of women irl, behind a screen thousands… and guess what? In person they will answer immediately, behind a screen a lot simply ignore you imagine that happening in real life… but again it is not something we don't do anymore irl
In a girls mind if they see a guy walking down the street at night they are more likely to avoid them because of some small chance they could be a rapist or something and have their lives destroyed. Guys now have to deal with that too where they may see a girl they like but never approach her because of some small chance she may scream rape because they look at her to long and have their lives destroyed. Meeting someone now a days is much less likely outside of electronic dating as it gives both parties a good feel for the other person long before they meet and can help ease their minds about the possibility of having something bad happening.
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Women usually let men approach them, and I don't want to be just another random guy trying to get with her. I don't even approach through social medias anymore.
If, like you said, a girl will approach me if she likes me, I'll just wait for the right one.
I would still approach girls that I like but since women equality and rape and other awareness things have started I believe men have taken a step back as they certainly don't wanna offend or get offended or wanna go to jail. I mean nobody goes to jail for asking out but who knows when asking out is reported as eve teasing. Nobody knows and this is how it is and the reason behind is that according to what I see and experience daily. I hope this sheds some light into this in some way.
u Women for the most part still won't approach guys and less men have the confidence to approach women that's why online say it blow up how it did
It's all the feminists in the media who say that it is insulting and sexualising to ask a woman out. Not worth the risk unless you are sure she or her friends are not like that.
Many times we dont know how a women will react. Many times very poorly.
Women still don't really approach and yes men also don't approach. generally men are going to be in the wrong regardless of choice and women are allowed to do whatever.
well as soon as innocent flirting (not catcalling, flirting) becomes decriminalized women are gonna have to start making the first move because men aren't gonna wanna go to jail for asking for a number or telling a girl she looks nice
omg fb exists for a reason. it's 2018.
I approach girls that I like
Its womens fault...
Its womens fault...
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