I would steal your money from your purse and hide it on you till after dinner lol. then if you tried to give it back to me I would buy a savings bond in your name. then if you paid me back for that I would get you a money market account etc etc so bleh to you feminitst :)
Intimidating? Not at all. If anything it makes me respect a girl more.
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Girl if a guy ask you out on a date you need to let him pay for you. just because a guy pay for you it dose not mean that you have to give up you,r power to him guy don,t mind paying for a girl if we are on date with some one that we ask out I don,t know how old you but you have to get over this handing over you,r power thon just because a guy pay,s for you on you,r date
I understand your view to a degree. I am a feminist as well but subscribe to the theory that whomever asks the person out should be prepared to pay. If you're dating, sometimes he pays. sometime she pays. No biggie and not that much should be made from it. If a guy "expects" something...well he's a loser. The only thing that should be expected is a good time out. Whatever happens beyond that would have probably happened anyway regardless of the money spent.
well I think of it as just being respectful and be a gentleman not showing the power orbeing dominent. It's kind of like opening doors for girls or pulling a chair out for her it's just being polite and respectul.
my guy always pays when I Go out I have offered to pay him back but he grabs the bill. I think feminist movements can be carried out in other more meaningful ways.
i think you should let him pay at least sometimes. I only pay half when I want a guy to know its not a date. if I want him to think it is I reach for my wallet but let him pay.
Don't misunderstand I have no interest in controlling anyone else. I just want to maintain power over myself and have it known that he will never have the power over me
how do you not let a guy pay? I offer to pay my share on every date but my boyfriend refuses and I don't feel like getting into an argument about money in public so I just let it go.
I like paying for myself too. I always offer to pay and if he tells me he's got it I tell him I've got it the next time we go out. And if he pays I always pay the tip
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I would steal your money from your purse and hide it on you till after dinner lol. then if you tried to give it back to me I would buy a savings bond in your name. then if you paid me back for that I would get you a money market account etc etc so bleh to you feminitst :)
Intimidating? Not at all. If anything it makes me respect a girl more.
Girl if a guy ask you out on a date you need to let him pay for you. just because a guy pay for you it dose not mean that you have to give up you,r power to him guy don,t mind paying for a girl if we are on date with some one that we ask out I don,t know how old you but you have to get over this handing over you,r power thon just because a guy pay,s for you on you,r date
lol guys say stop making it about control, but insist things should be done 'their' way
Guys say they 'have' to pay, because its how they were raised.
(And) If women are raised to pay-- it does not matter because the guy is always right. Right?
IF you don't want it to be an issue of control, stop saying she has to let him pay. You are making it a huge out of it- about control.
Chill. its just a check for a meal. she's not on sale she's not being auctioned. she's not a purchase. its food.
I understand your view to a degree. I am a feminist as well but subscribe to the theory that whomever asks the person out should be prepared to pay. If you're dating, sometimes he pays. sometime she pays. No biggie and not that much should be made from it. If a guy "expects" something...well he's a loser. The only thing that should be expected is a good time out. Whatever happens beyond that would have probably happened anyway regardless of the money spent.
well I think of it as just being respectful and be a gentleman not showing the power orbeing dominent. It's kind of like opening doors for girls or pulling a chair out for her it's just being polite and respectul.
my guy always pays when I Go out I have offered to pay him back but he grabs the bill. I think feminist movements can be carried out in other more meaningful ways.
I only offer to pay once every time were both out.
but if you ask a question like this.
I'll say no, it's not intimidating I find nothing about you intimidating just
big ego and slightly stupid.
u go girl! I lik you already... if that what makes you feel in control, do it!
Thnx babe ;)
i think you should let him pay at least sometimes. I only pay half when I want a guy to know its not a date. if I want him to think it is I reach for my wallet but let him pay.
Nope, don't like it. I'm gonna cheat and empty my wallet on the vanity before I leave.
Hey, more money for me to spend on you (or on bills). I see no problem.
What about you pay for him? it gives you power over him, even better.
Don't misunderstand I have no interest in controlling anyone else. I just want to maintain power over myself and have it known that he will never have the power over me
@QA: The only thing you need to watch out for is not to fall in love with him then. This would give him significant power.
Yes I know, exactly the reason I keep everyone at arms length
how do you not let a guy pay? I offer to pay my share on every date but my boyfriend refuses and I don't feel like getting into an argument about money in public so I just let it go.
im sure its because you don't want to argue..
who wants to have an argument over money in public? that's causing a scene.
I'll always offer to pay as it's the way I was raised. However, if she insists on paying or going dutch, I won't stop her.
I like paying for myself too. I always offer to pay and if he tells me he's got it I tell him I've got it the next time we go out. And if he pays I always pay the tip
Going dutch is the best.
MEN should ALWAYS pay PERIOD!
Sounds good for me. We won't have to argue.
is nice? lol