Ok so usually I don't really go anywhere and when I do I go with my boyfriend like to the store or other places but mostly to the store, so anyway I don't know whay my boyfriend gets so much attention from women, I don't know if it's how he carries himself or his confidence or if he's just a big boy and women like that, he's muscular in the arms, but anyway when we go to store every women turns and stair and sometimes I catch it and sometimes I don't and what he will do is smile at me and tell me when we leave, like yesterday we went to the store and a women in sweatpants and her hair a mess walked passed me and my boyfriend was behind me and started walking next to me and he looked at me and smiled and I thought it was because I walked with confidence and he was laughing/smiling at that but when I asked him what he said that lady and I guess she looked at him all cute or some shit, but I don't know of its bc he's doing it like he looks at them and catch them and smiles or it's just the woman are attracted to him, but they always try to talk to him and he let's them like just a talk and I don't like it and I've told him multiple times like this one women he let's talk to him and I told him and he says it's out of his control? But is it?
Your boyfriend just sounds to be a balanced out dude and as long as he's faithful to you then you shouldn't worry about others' attention. You being insecure about this is just fuel to the fire. You push him away to those other females orbiting him.
Flip your perspective over. I mean it's still you who got him. Be proud.
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Everything is the man's fault, right? If you're trying to pin the blame on him so you can be mad at him, just cut out the bullshit part and dump him already.
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I mean what do you expect? Him to just get fat and unattractive so women won't look at him? Lol.
He can't help that. Nor if it was reversed with men looking at you.Guys get more attention when women see us with other women. It's called pre-selection and you do it too. And no it's the opposite for men, we don't step on eachothers toes like that.
He will tire of your insecurity and it'll push him into their arms
Isn't it weird how people become more attractive, when they're with someone, than when they're not
Why is that?Saw your photo and you are very attractive. Hot enough that your boyfriend would be crazy to do something like that
It sure sounds like women are just attracted to him.
Well if he’s over 6ft then he’s generally going to get most women attention
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