For a bit of context, I have many friends that go to a private all boys school, and that all boys school has a female all girls school counterpart. I often get invited to parties and events that have people from both schools there so many people from both schools know me despite me going to a public school about a half an hour away. one of my friends was being one of the best wingmen for me (Common Will W) and after this hot girl asked him if there was anyone he knew that wasn’t going to their version of prom (I forget the name but it is basically prom) and he gave her my snap, we have been chatting for a few days and are going on a date to get to know each other better this weekend. The problem is that this other girl from my school really wanted to go to prom with me, and she is a great person (and has a nice ass ngl), if this were a week ago I definitely would have agreed to go to prom with her and was even flirting a bit. After she asked me to prom all of her friends were saying that I was leading her on. Am I in the wrong for getting involved with another girl while the other girl. Also just to clarify I wasn’t talking to both at the same time, just close together if that makes since. I am really trying to figure out what I am supposed to do here because the girl I am going on a date with is genuinely drop dead gorgeous and seems chill af as well, so I don’t want to not go out with her. But I also don’t want to hurt the other girls feelings.
Am I in the wrong for dating a girl that goes to a private catholic school away from my own school?
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As for your title question, you're not wrong to date the one girl who goes to the other school.
As for the other stuff: honor your commitment. If you said you would do X with one girl, follow through. If Y girl wants you to do something, be honest. Say that you'd really like to do something with her, but you made a commitment to the other girl and you're going to honor that commitment.
Thank you, I just feel as though I led the other girl on and feel bad for wanting a different girl, tbh I am not going to jeopardize my plans with the new girl, just feel guilty about the other one if that makes since
What you wrote makes sense. I also don't get the sense that you led anyone on.
It's okay to like and want more than one girl.
To answer the title question, no. To answer the explanation tell the girl with the great ass the situation. Don't tell her that she has a great ass unless you have already, but tell her that you are going on a date with another girl. Make it clear that you aren't dating that other girl, but you might, and you don't want to agree to go to prom and then have a great date that leads to a relationship. If you did then you'd have to say that you can't go to prom with the great ass girl. Tell her that her asking you was just bad timing. However, if your date doesn't seem like it will lead to a relationship you'd love to go to prom with her. Therefore you're not leading her on, she just asked you at a really inconvenient time. Plus you'll get a girlfriend and/or a prom date.
Ty for the advice, but I can’t help but laugh at you calling her the great ass girl😂 I don't know why I even mentioned that😅
Well, you didn't even give them pseudonyms, and you said she had a nice ass. I figured you wouldn't have brought it up if the ass wasn't notable.
Good point, ur definitely correct
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