Girls, How do you handle when a man you like makes moves on you?

[Anonymous]

He is tall, strong, brave, confident and assertive and can also converse about a variety of stuff. He has a pickup truck. We chatted, he has so much rizz that I always end up grinning and we always hugged before leaving each other. He asked me out on a date, came to pick me up in his van, and we went to a coffee shop near the beach. I wore my shorts and a top, and he was wearing his khaki shorts and t shirt. Flirting got a bit heavy and he then led me somewhere a bit private and we kissed. He lifted my shirt and kissed my belly. I was smiled, and was flattered that he likes me so much, but I said, okay, that's enough for today, and pulled my shirt down. He seemed okay, and when it was time to drop me home, we kissed at the door. How would you handle a move like that from a guy you like?

[BrightBubblyKat]

I think it’s normal for guys to test women out to see what they can get away with. You handled it perfectly. You should be fine for more dates, if that’s what you both want 😊

[Anonymous]

You handled it perfectly. Not a good idea to let him go all in at first attempt.

I personally would have stopped him when he tried to lift shirt.

[Asker]

I give him the benefit of the doubt... he couldn't resist because he found me attractive, I take it as a compliment. And we weren't in a room by ourselves we were in open space on the beach so he couldn't "go all in" lol.

[Opinion Owner]

tf, you really sound like you wanted him to go bit further haha

[Asker]

I feel good that he likes me that much, but not on the first date.

[Opinion Owner]

Nice. Make him wait for right moment.

[DreamCrescent]

that's perfect what you did and he was respectful. you're both into each other

good luck and have fun :)

[Tharithi]

Does he actually like u or is he trying to get into your pants. A real man would propose

[Thestupidusername]

I stay away. I'm not that dumb😂

[rachel776b]

brush him off