Shy girls, would you sit next to your crush in class if you had the opportunity?

This happened to me today, A shy girl had to sit next to me but just took a look into me and I also looked at her (and I quickly looked away) and she waited for her friend to sit next to me on the row, then she sat next to her friend. I don't know why but I have the strange feeling everyone in my class has a crush on me O_o they all act weird around me, not like around other guys, its really strange. And on top of that I m shy myself but I m able to fake extreme confidene and I also have "f*** off leave me alone" look on my face most of the time...

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  • I'm shy. If I'm in a classroom with lots of empty seats, I will NEVER sit directly next to him. I would sit like 3 seats away. If there are only a couple, with one being next to him and one being far away, I would choose the one by him and pretend it's no big deal. She might have been nervous to sit directly by you, so she used her friend as sort of a "shield". Or, you could be reading the wrong thing into this... You say that it seems everyone in the class has a crush on you... Maybe you seemed a bit creepy to her or something and she really only sat by you because she had to? I don't think that's the case though. It sounds like something I would do.

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    • how can I be creepy by just sitting on a chair?

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    • :O maybe I do send the I m too good for you vibe lol but isn't that better than looking desperate?

    • Well is it worse to be killed by fire or ice? You're killed either way... I would suggest smiling. Turn your body about 10-20 degrees toward her, (if a situation like this happens again) and open your leg and shoulder to her. Tilt your head to her a bit. That way, even if you don't say a word or look at her often, you seem friendly and like you enjoy her presence.

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  • Yes I would :)

    But knowing me somehow I would mess things up with my weirdness, so I would opt to sit behind him or three seats away so I can stare at him and love him from afar.

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  • If you have a look that looks like it's saying what you said up there, then I probably wouldn't approach you. Ever thought that maybe that's why these girls don't bother to approach? But I guess it really depends. I wouldn't normally sit next to my crush. If I couldn't find anywhere else to sit, I'd be forced to, but I probably wouldn't.

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    • yeah lol I working on a friendlier face ;p but it really makes no sense hah if you like someone why you go away from him?

    • Ehhhh, I have a pretty high confidence, but I need to be able to convince myself to approach first. I have to make myself relaxed & comfortable around him & if I can't, then I won't approach. Either that or if he talked to me first then I would, & if we know each other...it all depends

  • I would probably hesitate because I tend to be very shy around guys especially. But if I found way to make it seem casual like I didn't really have a choice or if I just randomly chose that spot then yes I would take the chance. And if your wondering about this because you think you might like her then try talking to her and see what she does if he feels uncomfortable etc or she

    may be good at hiding it like me.

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    • i would feel uncomfortable if I talked to her :P there are always lots of girls around her amd that intimidates me a lot

    • Yea that makes sense. But I mean like for me I'm shy and there's usually girls around me but if a guy talked to me then I would honestly be very happy especially if I like him :p so if you do get the chance you should take it.

  • I am a shy girl, so to have an oppertunity to sit with the guy I like, depending on how much we talk I would sit with him.

    And ha ha sounds like you have a situation on your hands XD

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    • weve never spoken :P and yeah lol its quite a burden xD

    • Maybe she likes how you look then (minus the F*** off look lol)

  • I'm not shy, so of course I do. I usually go out of my way to sit next to them. But let me get your story straight, she waited for someone else to sit next to you so she wouldn't have to? That's weird. I think you should appear to be more approachable to her. Smile at her, joke around with her and her friend but try to zone in on her when talking to them both. If you keep your attitude like you described you usually have, chances are she will never approach you if she's shy.

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  • I'm shy to an extent so I would feel nervous talking to the guy I like, but I would talk to him nonetheless. Regarding sitting next to him, I suppose I would. Yeah, I would but talking to him might prove a bit difficult to me. Unless he takes the initiative and talks then I see no problem, :)

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  • I know when I go out to bars/clubs, if a woman positions next to me, it's sometimes a signal she wants me to talk to her. If we've had any kind of eye contact before, and then she does that? I almost have to say something

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    • yes but in class the setting is completely different. people go there to study not have a good time

  • I often have that feeling too, but I think its actually just because people think I'm a serial killer

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    • lol I also send a bad boy vibe

  • Yes it would have been so much easier instead of trying to come up with an excuse to walk by them or get close enough to talk to them. My excuses were always going to sharpen my pencil or throw something away, but if he was right there I would have definitely talked to him.

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  • Only if I could make seem liked I had to or something...otherwise, noo way...too scary ><

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  • I did:) We soon became friends,but never went out(he was taken).

    What made it fun(kinda)was our spanish teacher teasing me about him. LOL! Found out years later he did that with everyone. Loved to found out the scoop on who liked whom. I was like,how did he know? LOL

    It was in good fun:)

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  • I remember doing that at school lol the guy I had a crush on was one of the popular guys in the class and our teacher gave all the girls the choice to choose a guy to work with so after a hesitating I chose my crush! No idea if he knew or if everyone else in the class knew was just like yay!

    If he really had "f*** off not you!" kinda look that perhaps I wouldn't have but perhaps how everyone sees your look isn't the same as how you see it!

    I do realize looking back now that was rather sad and immature but hey I was young! lol :p

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    • i m different person once you know me lol damn I really should work on a happy face :D

    • Then perhaps she felt that you'd be OK with it

  • Yeah they do, but most of them won't talk to you or look at you for that matter. A lot of them will wait for you to open up as they would be too scared to talk to you.

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  • I've done that before couldn't focus on the class lol

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  • i'm not really shy but I'd sit next to my crush if I wanted to. we sit together in art every class :) just sayin haha

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  • I'm very shy, my instinct would be to sit as far away as possible and blend into a classroom display but if I was brave enough I might chance sitting a little closer, perhaps even next to him. With shy girls (and guys) it's always deciphering whether they're sitting next to you because they don't have a crush on you and that just happens to be the place they want to sit or whether they do like you and sitting next to you is a big step for them to getting you to notice them in some way. It could mean something, could mean nothing. But perhaps if you don't look at her in a way that says 'f*** off leave me alone'...you might find out a little more ;)

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  • Are you me? The similarities, just wow.

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    • i don't think I m you lol but it sucks doesent it :P

  • Yah, I'll always take that opportunity.

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  • I do. One day I came to class high (so my personality was loose and playful). I ended whispering "I want to taste you" in his ear. We a great 5 hour session that night.

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  • id be too scared but id sit at a good distance from him with a good view

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    • hm she sits in front of me :P but I sit in the last row and my friends are around me :P

    • maybe she wants you to see her and check her out

  • Your swiss...swiss guys are amazingly hot, sexy and cute all at once.

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