This is a vague question but there could be all sorts of reasons why.
Firstly, women on men's looks: most women care to be at least a little bit attracted to the person they date. The women who don't go on looks AT ALL go on other things like wealth or personality (or she might have low self-esteem). Sure you say he is a gentleman and is financially secure but if a woman goes on just wealth then its still probably not enough depending on the woman.
Secondly, It might be the type of women who he is going after: if a girl is telling him that he is ugly and that is the main reason that she says "no" then she might care about looks (or at least as much as the average man cares about looks, which for a women to care that much, often results in her being called shallow.) If he is going after drop dead gorgeous women with bad looks and average income then he is likely to be shot down.
Third: His personality might be part of the factor. Often when women (at least some of the girls I've spoken to) date someone who is far less attractive than they then they except to be treated exceptionally well and that's why a lot of girls subconsciously or consciously go after less attractive guys. Additionally he might not seem confident and for women, that is one of the biggest things that attract them. For most people, an average looking person with confidence looks better than an average looking person without confidence.
I hope this helped and in no way am I trying to generalize women or men.
Why do girls reject ugly guys?
Likely the same reason guys reject ugly gals and that reason being it seems most people want physical/sexual attraction in a partner and tend to derive it from physical attractiveness.
"My pal is well accomplished and is materially secure. He dresses with appeal, is kind and a total gentleman."
Meh likely your pal is not as accomplished or materially secure to have enough status to build attraction and compensate for his looks. Dressing with appeal and being kind tends to be a default expectation for most so again this doesn't compensate for his looks. The total gentleman bit I find could be skewed as I find most guys vastly overestimate themselves in this regard and gentleman qualities could be seen as patronizing.
Your guy should go for ugly or disabled women to better his chances.
Ugly people unlucky with dating go for people whom they have nothing in co on with and who are fat more attractive to them.
Sexually active people usually require their partner to be physically/sexually attractive to some degree. A dry vagina dose not make for good sex.
Despite what society keeps telling us, women are just as shallow as men. Do to a man's higher sex drive we are more willing to lower our standards out of necessity. This means that women tend to have much higher standards for a man's attractiveness, unless she is desperate and needs a man's help.
Because they're ugly and they don't like looking at them and they don't give them the kind of sexual pleasure they crave. And another thing is lack of confidence from low self esteem. Just as bad as being too overly confident.
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If you're not attracted to your partner you're in a friendship.
If you for some reason do start a relationship it could potentially be a sexless one.
Is he approaching random girls? If so he shouldn't be doing this. As he is only approaching the girl based on her looks it's perfectly okay for her to reject him based on his.
Because we don't want to be kissed, touched or have sex with a man we think is ugly. This is so obvious. Did you not know women have hormones and sexual desires too?
it goes both ways, dude. Probably if they knew him a lot better, he'd have a better chance. But the truth of the matter is, looks is important because it's the first observable thing that would catalyze attraction.
Unfortunately the majority of people judge the way others look more so than who they are.
I'd need a picture of your friend to give an honest answer.
But I can tell you why I reject ugly guys... I can do better.
That's all.
I would think it's because beauty is 9/10ths of dating?
Stupid superficial people (m/f) reject people they consider 'ugly'.
If a guy is interested in superficial girls...
ummmmmm same reason why guys reject ugly girls, c'mon, in life you can't always have it both ways you know
I don't think it's the fact that he's ugly. I think girls definitely go for personality above looks more often than not, perhaps he should find a new pick up line or some better conversation starters.
"Why do girls reject ugly guys"?
Probably for the same reason that guys reject ugly girls.
So you would accept a date from someone you found ugly? Lol
Because guys reject ugly girls
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