Right now, I have a crush on this guy who's pretty chubby. I actually like guys with meat on them :) If a girl really likes you, then your looks won't matter, so just wait for the right one!
Alright dude, I'm a big guy too. I just laid back and didn't look for a girlfriend. I had my friend julie let me know if she knew anyone who liked me. And one day she told me that someone did. We started going out the day I met her. If you can go for bigger girls, maybe not fat but that have a little extra weight. That's what I do. I am afraid of crushing skinny girls. Lol. Just keep working out and losing weight, and sit back and watch. Someone will come your way eventually.
Lose weight. Its the only solution. If not all of the fit pretty girls treat like like a gay friend or just ignore you. There is a 99.9% chance that you can charm a pretty girl but its a very slim chance.
i believe there is someone out there for you but you haven't met her yet. I know a guy that weighs over 500lbs and he's had a girlfriend for almost 20 years, so some women don't judge a man by his weight. I had a lover that was the teddy bear type and he was one of the best lovers I'd ever had. so don't despair. keep handling your business, being yourself and I'm sure that a woman will come along that appreciates you just as you are :)
I honestly don't think its about you its just the way society expects you to look. Lucky for you there are girls out there who are attracted to bigger guys. Like I am Lol. I would much rather date a chunky big guy than a muscular meet head. You just gotta find the right girl.
im a guy I know but ask yourself this if this is a question stil is around
which would you pick the supermodel/chearleader or a larger woman (not trying to be rude to anyone) and depending on how you answered this will determine your question and just realte it to a girls perspective
Im large myself and trust me...its a lot tougher for us but not impossible. The trick I found is to act very confident even if you don't feel confident. Also a hint of arrogance can do wonders. I'm not saying give up your character and turn in to a COMPLETE d!ck but try to find a good half point to work with. Not saying you should quit working out but attitude can get your foot in the door and getting the attention of a woman can prove to be a great motivator.
the first guy I ever dated was fat. its all about playing the game. If you can play it right, make a girl feel sexy. looks stop mattering as much.
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well I don't think is because of your weight maybe a little but I had a big crush on a guy who is fat ( not too much but fat) but he had the sweetest smile I have ever seen and he is really funny.That is for me it depends on the girl I guess:|
just loose weight man. why would a chick want to f*** you seriously. theirs guy that are just as good that look better. if you want to stay fat get a fat girl
I think some people care too much about looks. For me its about the personality I really don't care how a person looks, I like how they are and how he treats me and others. You'll find someone for you just keep looking :)
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Either find women who are attracted to heavier men or diet. A person can't change what they want, so find someone who wants you as you are or work on your health.
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They're less attractive physically. I've never been with anyone I wasn't attracted to physically. Sorry if that hurts to hear, but the same is true for fat girls, probably more so.
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Right now, I have a crush on this guy who's pretty chubby. I actually like guys with meat on them :) If a girl really likes you, then your looks won't matter, so just wait for the right one!
Alright dude, I'm a big guy too. I just laid back and didn't look for a girlfriend. I had my friend julie let me know if she knew anyone who liked me. And one day she told me that someone did. We started going out the day I met her. If you can go for bigger girls, maybe not fat but that have a little extra weight. That's what I do. I am afraid of crushing skinny girls. Lol. Just keep working out and losing weight, and sit back and watch. Someone will come your way eventually.
Good luck!
Lose weight. Its the only solution. If not all of the fit pretty girls treat like like a gay friend or just ignore you. There is a 99.9% chance that you can charm a pretty girl but its a very slim chance.
i believe there is someone out there for you but you haven't met her yet. I know a guy that weighs over 500lbs and he's had a girlfriend for almost 20 years, so some women don't judge a man by his weight. I had a lover that was the teddy bear type and he was one of the best lovers I'd ever had. so don't despair. keep handling your business, being yourself and I'm sure that a woman will come along that appreciates you just as you are :)
I honestly don't think its about you its just the way society expects you to look. Lucky for you there are girls out there who are attracted to bigger guys. Like I am Lol. I would much rather date a chunky big guy than a muscular meet head. You just gotta find the right girl.
im a guy I know but ask yourself this if this is a question stil is around
which would you pick the supermodel/chearleader or a larger woman (not trying to be rude to anyone) and depending on how you answered this will determine your question and just realte it to a girls perspective
Im large myself and trust me...its a lot tougher for us but not impossible. The trick I found is to act very confident even if you don't feel confident. Also a hint of arrogance can do wonders. I'm not saying give up your character and turn in to a COMPLETE d!ck but try to find a good half point to work with. Not saying you should quit working out but attitude can get your foot in the door and getting the attention of a woman can prove to be a great motivator.
the first guy I ever dated was fat. its all about playing the game. If you can play it right, make a girl feel sexy. looks stop mattering as much.
well I don't think is because of your weight maybe a little but I had a big crush on a guy who is fat ( not too much but fat) but he had the sweetest smile I have ever seen and he is really funny.That is for me it depends on the girl I guess:|
just loose weight man. why would a chick want to f*** you seriously. theirs guy that are just as good that look better. if you want to stay fat get a fat girl
I think some people care too much about looks. For me its about the personality I really don't care how a person looks, I like how they are and how he treats me and others. You'll find someone for you just keep looking :)
Either find women who are attracted to heavier men or diet. A person can't change what they want, so find someone who wants you as you are or work on your health.
They're less attractive physically. I've never been with anyone I wasn't attracted to physically. Sorry if that hurts to hear, but the same is true for fat girls, probably more so.
I suggest p90x or Insanity. They have a pretty high level of success in changing fat people.
Isnt insanity like... really insane?
I am pretty tiny and have been attracted to bigger guys... How big is 'fat' to you?
Ok I defiantly do not like fat guys. But that's jus my opinion but I really don't want a scrawny boney one either.
good for you for changing your lifestyle and becoming healthier!
just wondering--how many calories are you consuming per day? and have you had your thyroid tested?
$$$$$$$$$. That's what'l make you more attractive LOL.
hehe
in the words of the hangover.. "It funny cause he's fat" - Mr. Chow
Maybe you're choosing the wrong girls... I on the other hand love bigger guys:)