Why are some women rude when you've done nothing to them?

[Anonymous]

A lot of women like me, thing is I grew up bullied & a lot of other stuff, am nice to everyone, laugh & joke a lot, dress comfortable (not impressive), thing is some women purposely avoid eye contact & ignore me, which I found out through other sources is cuz they don't want to feed my ego, , or give me satisfaction of being interested like many other girls.

Thing is I don't have hardly any ego couldn't growing up, girls (and guys) I do get along with make fun of me all the time, I do with them & don't get offended. Thing that bothers me is why these women do this, as I did nothing to deserve it.

I don't lie, cheat, steal, or give anyone special attention & do my best just to be nice to everyone equally, not that these women owe anything, but why do they act this way simply because a lot of women like me? Not asking anyone to change, just want to understand, because I wouldn't be okay being rude to someone who's done nothing to deserve it.

[Thaly]

Because they want to avoid people in order to not be injured. Maybe in the past they were cute girls and a person or a group of person hurt them, who knows

[JaneDoe377]

Some people have this crazy notion that the world owes them something.

[Cougar2Yall]

Well, there are lots of women out there that are shallow and bitchy. They constantly have a chip on their shoulders, and are dramatic and fake. They are the bitches good women hate.

[Anonymous]

I avoid eye contact with literally everyone who are strangers. maybe a lot of girls are like that too. don’t take it personally.

[toluthompson]

Actually may be becasue they like you and want you to gove them mlre attention

[Asker]

I do, just like anyone else, but some act cold & even like they hate me. I never deny anyone attention unless they seem to not want it & give a "get away from me" vibe, but often find out later from multiple people these women didn't want to seem like "just another woman", which in reality seems to mean they want special attention, which I don't believe in, expect from others, nor give anyone.

[toluthompson]

Ok so what will u do

[Asker]

Try to understand the situation, by asking questions such as this, to better understand where others might be coming from & inform my judgement on the situation to try to act respectfully. Can't do much more than that as everything else is beyond my power.

[toluthompson]

That good

[ClosetHoe]

Some people are assholes.