My girlfriend is acting rude and disrespectful for almost everything. What can I do? (Page 2)
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The best fix is to go to the courthouse to get a legal restraining order and stick to it. Not kidding!! This won't get better. She needs professional help but don't pretend that you can fix her. Block her and tell her not to write until her therapist tells her she's ready to remain civil.
I've been in the same exact situation with a dear friend who flipped on me when I visited her new place in another city. Everything you described from vulgar obscenities one night to a full breakfast table like nothing ever happened.
I suspected drugs and accused her of needing a fix.
Turned out to be mental issues that took her mothers life early - according to the her father, which got uncontrollably worse during heavy alcohol binges. I had never seen that side in 4 years of knowing this person. She did the same with some mutual friends she later visited acting erratic and disrespectful to helping hands... alcohol can do this believe it or not if the person isn't all there...
Yes leave. I'm sorry but to be honest you should leave. You sound like a nice fellow and she is showing major toxic behavior. I can sympathize with you and you say you love her, truly. Though to make her see change you should let her go and you should go your own way
RUN lol
But in the serious note...
Never settle for less dear, because you can always find someone better why? better because the person will respect you and your family and always love you and take care of you when your sick. Thank god for saving you from a crazy lady. Your better off without her dear.
She doesn't love you anymore, and trying to push you away because she really doesn't want to be with you. She's forcing it and hating it at the same time. The longer she hangs on to you, the more she resents you. The more worse she will treat you. You let her so she will keep it up until she's officially had enough. You erk her and she doesn't even want you touching her.
I think she's going through something and doesn't want to tell you for some reason or perhaps she's waiting for you to ask about it. It could also be that she's just tired of the relationship but feels guilty about it at the same time, and doesn't know how to handle it, thus she's acting out.
Sometimes though, a girl is just asking to be spanked.
It is time to go. No discussion, no negotiation, no recrimination. Just...
Well all the responses here are the same as mine is gonna be.
Break up with her rn.
She either already wants to break up and is doing these things so that you'll initiate the breakup. Or considering how she suddenly keeps changing her attitude shows borderline bi-polar disorder. Or she's just plain toxic.
Whichever it is, she's not healthy to be around and you need to cut her out of your life as soon as possible.
Sounds like she is already in wife mode. Guess you should just marry her. You might think I am joking, but it will only get worse. If she doesn't respect you and your family, there is no future other then misery. I learned that the hard way.
Sounds as though she is trying to engineer a break up with you but trying make you be the one to pull the trigger on ending your relationship with her so she act the victim or she has started an other relationship - its that or one monumental shit test to see how far she can push you before you push back,
I'd say try not calling or texting her, see if her attitude changes.
She's trying to get you to dump her so she can play the victim. Would not be surprised if she is already messing with someone else. I'd have dumped her the first time she used the "It's over." threat, but that is because I have zero tolerance for BS. Just prepare yourself because she is already gone from the relationship mentally.
You're pathetic if you're going to sit around and out up with this shit, do better and leave. She's treating you this way because you're being spineless and Letting her walk all over you, remember that in the future.
Destroying your things is abuse. And her saying you're the worst person and stuff is manipulative and gaslighting. If u really think you can get along, try it. But otherwise I don't know if it’s worth it, i’m sorry...
That's not a healthy relationship. She's immature and not happy in your relationship, for whatever reason. You deserve to be treated with respect, and that's not coming from her. Talking negatively about your parents? Throwing things around your apartment? Insulting you? Do you really want to keep dealing with her hot and cold emotions? Get out of the relationship, wish her well, take care of yourself, and begin dating again when you're ready.
I hope you find the strength and self-esteem to leave that relationship. Her behavior is abusive, toxic and insane. She needs professional help but you have to take care of yourself and get away from her.
Seriously this woman is batsh*t crazy, get rid of her. Most probably just picking fights to end the relationship but lacks the courage to do it properly.
Get yourself a respectful mature woman who's worthy of your time.
No it's over she is only going to use you and continue disrespecting you. I'd guess if she just all of a sudden started acting this way that she is seeing someone else or at least interested in someone else. She's no good move on
Unleash the Chris Brown within you. Lol jk
I will leave her, she cray cray from what I read. Sorry didn’t read everything, but there was too much toxicity from her part. I will be gone gone
Dude, this girl is batshit crazy! Do you think this is the best that you can ever do?
Sounds like the end. She won't take accountability for her actions. Snapping at you and stuff is a big no no unless she accepts her behaviour makes a change.
She's taking u for granted.