Okk that's really good, but if a man really likes you then it matter the most... i guess not society... And who said that if you easily get in relationship with others... you are easy to get. I think it all depends on vibes.
Yes i also... respect that fact that every person is concerned about their status... But at least one should be very clear about their choices... And else also depends on situation...
Why? Because some girls are immature and want to make life difficult for the guy.
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Reading the other comments, the stuff they say makes sense but it’s still pretty annoying that it’s like some sort of game or something. Why can’t women just be honest about what they want and how they feel with a guy? What’s the point in playing games with a guy?
That's what my point is... buddy here i am not against anyone... But my point is don't play the games girl... if you like that guy just take a first move... and if you can't just show them a way that you like them that they get sure about your feelings...
Actually I now give a girl after meeting 24 hours to proof she worth my time if she does one thing that looks like playing hard to get or desinterest I am gone.
I Want a wife not a Child your argument is invalid
If she really likes the guy, why should she care how she looks? That doesn’t make her a slut for being able to approach a guy and express her interest in him. We’ve gotta get rid of that mindset as a society.
No buddy i have seen them like they wana have them but still wana confuse them... Here i saw the opinions of the girls they are like we waana make sure... we wanna have our security, we wanna test the loyalty of that guy... and more
Yes I know. The usual bullshit females throw at guys to turn them into circus animals jumping through their hoops. But once the guy of their irrational standards passed by they approach aggressively and fuck him without even knowing his name. Everything else like I need space, I need to think, I need to be sure nah nah nah nah this is al bullshit for their white knights.
Yes that what i was talking about... if you wanna be so sure about that guy... at least be a friend with him... Then you can see how does it goes... and if you both like the Vibes of each other then can carry on... to another level
It is natural, old way of courting. Say no but eyes say yes. Keep on trying until she deems you worthy of having her. Than you can really have her. Fuckboys do not realise that women have them not the other way around... Use and abuse and discard is prevented this way...
@dray995 it is about proving your true intentions. A fit girl gets attention every day, everywhere. But only those that persist are worthy of having her heart. She may get drunk and self trash by being promiscious, but when she wakes up she will run in shame, if she stays that long. But if you take her rejections and persist when she gives herself to you, she will not want to run even if the sex sucks... Hope that clears it for you.
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because society had taught is that men love the chase. and that if we don't play hard to get we are "easy"
Okk that's really good, but if a man really likes you then it matter the most... i guess not society... And who said that if you easily get in relationship with others... you are easy to get. I think it all depends on vibes.
it honestly depends on the situation. That's just what I've been taught and have observed.
Yes it is... I am accepting this fact
I agree with you but i can understand them since there are many women who are afraid getting slut-shaming
Yes i also... respect that fact that every person is concerned about their status... But at least one should be very clear about their choices... And else also depends on situation...
of Course. i agree with you
Most people like girls who are hard to get and that’s the reason
No that's not like that girls always pretend to be disinterested to check the paitence of a guy...
It's a test.
To see if you'll give chase.
But ending up loosing a guy... Sometimes or it confused us a lot that even we doubt ourself and Don't take a moove...
She may want you, she's testing, if you give chase it signals you just put her in a place where you must work for her attention, it's very subtle.
If you chase, you fail that test.
Why? Because some girls are immature and want to make life difficult for the guy.
Reading the other comments, the stuff they say makes sense but it’s still pretty annoying that it’s like some sort of game or something. Why can’t women just be honest about what they want and how they feel with a guy? What’s the point in playing games with a guy?
That's what my point is... buddy here i am not against anyone... But my point is don't play the games girl... if you like that guy just take a first move... and if you can't just show them a way that you like them that they get sure about your feelings...
I think it depends on a guy, like if he plays around or acts hot and cold a girl would do the same
To see how much he's in to her. If he gives up easily, she knows he was just after one thing
Actually I now give a girl after meeting 24 hours to proof she worth my time if she does one thing that looks like playing hard to get or desinterest I am gone.
I Want a wife not a Child your argument is invalid
That's you, brah
"friend zoned for life"
Yeah my name is what happened when I still actually tried. Now 24 hours that it
They don't want to look easy to get
If she really likes the guy, why should she care how she looks? That doesn’t make her a slut for being able to approach a guy and express her interest in him. We’ve gotta get rid of that mindset as a society.
Exactly I don't really have a type just want to be treated right and respected looks are a bonus
they're not interested in that guy.
No buddy i have seen them like they wana have them but still wana confuse them... Here i saw the opinions of the girls they are like we waana make sure... we wanna have our security, we wanna test the loyalty of that guy... and more
Yes I know. The usual bullshit females throw at guys to turn them into circus animals jumping through their hoops. But once the guy of their irrational standards passed by they approach aggressively and fuck him without even knowing his name. Everything else like I need space, I need to think, I need to be sure nah nah nah nah this is al bullshit for their white knights.
Yes that what i was talking about... if you wanna be so sure about that guy... at least be a friend with him... Then you can see how does it goes... and if you both like the Vibes of each other then can carry on... to another level
Easy to get, guys not value you🙃
Cause most guys aren't into sluts xD
Because people like someone to be a chsllenge.
Maybe man...
Eating their cake and keeping it as well.
To test his commitment.
How so? What does she expect the guy to do?
Weeds out the weak men, only weak men would put up with it. Strong men know their value and walk away from this kind of abusive game.
It is natural, old way of courting. Say no but eyes say yes. Keep on trying until she deems you worthy of having her. Than you can really have her. Fuckboys do not realise that women have them not the other way around... Use and abuse and discard is prevented this way...
Can you explain that first half of your paragraph? How does that work? What does the guy need to do to pass that test?
@dray995 it is about proving your true intentions. A fit girl gets attention every day, everywhere. But only those that persist are worthy of having her heart. She may get drunk and self trash by being promiscious, but when she wakes up she will run in shame, if she stays that long. But if you take her rejections and persist when she gives herself to you, she will not want to run even if the sex sucks... Hope that clears it for you.
Retardation
women lol