Guys, do you like, or dislike, the idea of a girl asking you out? (Page 3)

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Guys, Do You: Lose respect for her Think she's low-value Get turned off Feel emasculated Get the upper hand Consider it easy to manipulate her Think she's a loser Think she's pathetic Think she has low self-esteem Or dislike it... ... when a girl reaches out, asks you out, takes initiative, is clear and communicative, shows interest in a relationship or date with you, or getting to know you? The poll is simple. Yes or no. Hint: They don't believe you. You'll have to be  very  convincing. Why is it important/beneficial, in today's climate and society?  (Hint: #metoo, sexual harassment fears, gender equality...) I know you have something to say about this. I know you've said it before, it's old news to you, but please say it one more time, this time addressing these bullet points, if you can.  49 upvotes on this mytake, the highest number of all topics I've ever written about. The Personal and Societal Benefits of Girls Taking the Initiative With Guys in Relationships Look at all those poll results. Girls, want to know how to ask a guy out? I may write another mytake about it, from a different angle. I tried encouraging and supporting. Next time will be something different. Success! "I asked! I asked him today and he put my # in his phone and we have been texting so we can grab food soon. I thought I would update, especially since a lot of you were happily shocked a woman wanted to ask a guy for a change. Was nervous but couldn’t have done it without your help & encouragement! 😊" How Do I Ask A Guy Out As A Female (never done this)?

HugoThe2nd · Answer

I like it, when it's done the way I like, for the reasons I like, which some people may not consider to be the right reasons to like it for.

But let's say it works on me too, and when it doesn't I just politely turn them down.

mk200195 · Answer

Like this is ever going to happen in India but yes absolutely who wouldn't like it!!!

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Yep I like it. It shows interest instead of the stupid chase her game wondering if she's interested or not. Also shows she has confidence.

I_did_it_12 · Answer

I don't think I ever asked a girl out all through High school, I was asked to 5 different high school proms and come to think of it my wife asked me out when we first met. My mom was shocked at how many different girls called to ask me out. I was even asked out by a mother of one of those girls.

Notfabricated · Answer

Because it shows me you go after what you want. Just how women find confidence in men attractive, men find confidence in women attractive.

IDontBelieveIt · Answer

You know 100% she wants you, no playing games, no guessing. Can get to know each other quicker to see if you click.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

I prefer this because there's no obstacles in establishing weather she is attracted or not. Choosing signals are good too

InferiorElegy · Answer

Obviously I'd like it but it also means that she has shitty taste if she's asking me out, the ugliest guy ever or she's a gold digger and thinks I'm rich.

WtfLife1 · Answer

I'm afraid to ask girls out cause some get pissed off and make a huge deal out of it.

Darksign · Answer

No, I actually encourage it. I just don't think girls can handle rejection well

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