I think most of it comes from a good place and they want to see the person do the best that they can. I think there is a difference between wanting to change as in help someone do well with their career or living situation, and want to change every aspect of their personality. I think everyone wants to grow with their partner, but you can’t change who someone fundamentally is. Which honestly you shouldn’t generally speaking
Because it's a fantasy they live in. Idiotic or naive as it may be, they think it's a good thing. It's actually a terrible thing if you come into someone's life and try to change who they are into what you want.
Female mind wired to protect and care Of you see someone you love doing bad thing You want them to stop doing that becaue you care about them Its simple Im trying with drug battle and depression And i think its right to want change someone and make them better
It works if the guy wants to be changed. Let's say that he is self aware. He knows of his flaws. And this girl loves him and is helping him improve on those flaws. If he is willing to change and improve he will.
But yes most often is a total waste of time. People are not self aware.
Before you all get mad. I know that she might try to change him for the worse or into someone he is not. Not talking about those cases.
Its one of the most messed up things women do. You have to accept his/her imperfections if its something you can genuinely work with or else let them go.
Men and women should want to change to become a better partner. It's not that women are trying to change who men are on the inside but change and make them become a better partner
Usually, that type of women you’re talking about they go after players. They think they can change them but they changed into players because of women like them
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I think most of it comes from a good place and they want to see the person do the best that they can. I think there is a difference between wanting to change as in help someone do well with their career or living situation, and want to change every aspect of their personality. I think everyone wants to grow with their partner, but you can’t change who someone fundamentally is. Which honestly you shouldn’t generally speaking
Women tend to be more optimistic, and bad boys are not unattractive to them.
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Because it's a fantasy they live in. Idiotic or naive as it may be, they think it's a good thing. It's actually a terrible thing if you come into someone's life and try to change who they are into what you want.
Female mind wired to protect and care
Of you see someone you love doing bad thing
You want them to stop doing that becaue you care about them
Its simple
Im trying with drug battle and depression
And i think its right to want change someone and make them better
Some of us don’t believe that we can. Be with a guy as he is, or find one that is better suited to you.
It works if the guy wants to be changed.
Let's say that he is self aware. He knows of his flaws. And this girl loves him and is helping him improve on those flaws. If he is willing to change and improve he will.
But yes most often is a total waste of time. People are not self aware.
Before you all get mad. I know that she might try to change him for the worse or into someone he is not. Not talking about those cases.
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Superiority complex
Many things actually
Its one of the most messed up things women do. You have to accept his/her imperfections if its something you can genuinely work with or else let them go.
Men and women should want to change to become a better partner. It's not that women are trying to change who men are on the inside but change and make them become a better partner
Same reason people try and tame wild horses.. The thrill of the challenge!
There are many guys out there who meet a woman and want to change her too you know.. It's not just females.
Usually, that type of women you’re talking about they go after players. They think they can change them but they changed into players because of women like them
They want to turn that man into their little puppet
Because many want to date a wild/unpredictable/bad boy, but then want to settle down with loving secure family man.
Because they go for bad boys, thinking they can change him. Oh he will never change.
A smart woman can change a man's mind! He will not notice it, as he will think it was his idea.
These women that think they can change men are the same women to bitch and complain that "There are no good men anymore" lol
They don't believe they can change a man, they believe men can't change them
A lot of women fall in love with the guy's potential.
Which is harmful to both.
Because some of them think they are Bob the Builder.
I just think of it as bettering the guy for the next person who dates him
Are you saying you're not really dating him because you like him?
Oh I've never done this lol