Im a conservative that is PROCHOICE. Yes i support abortion and im Republican and I don’t want kids! I love pets way more. My life is based on animals, not kids.
So you think im selfish for not wanting kids? I don’t even have a motherly instinct to babies or toddlers… so why should i have them? Plus, I don’t feel like wasting my money on them when i can use that money on myself, pets, rent, bills, nice vacations, designer bags, etc
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You are right about not wanting kids , dont worry live your life
Yeah i think that way to, i would do my best to be the best mom but maybe my child won't be so lucky and hate life and to be born its unfair i wouldn't want my child to feel that way and maybe hate me, you are rightt
Seems like a normal trend now a days not to want kids. It's a real stupid trend to fall for like grow up and have some kids. Wtf else is there to life? Work your life away? Seems shitty but if your happy then go for it
I'm a stay at home and it's probably not what you imagine it to be. It's very fun I get to choose what I want to do with my kids everyday without anything holding me back like a job
That is YOUR opinion lol. Money is everything if you want a comfortable good luxury lifestyle like i do in the future. I will not have that while having kids unless i was a doctor, lawyer, veterinarian, engineer, etc.
People say money doesn’t bring happiness but it does😂when you make good money, you can buy whatever the hell you want for yourself. But nah, once you have kids, that money goes towards your kids only. Then you have to start buying extra groceries, extra dinners at restaurants, extra Christmas presents, etc. Like bruh. I want my money for. ME MYSELF AND I. Unless i have a husband and pets. Thats IT!!!
Yeah no. Im sorry but i enjoy peace and quiet and privacy and ME TIME. I don’t want to be a stay at home mom 24/7… i like working, and making money for myself😂😂😂😂my goal is to get my own nice ass house with pets. ALONE. That is the future i want. Then go to school for dog training and get my certification in that. That is the life i want.
Oh one more thing, having a job you ENJOY AND LOVE, does not hold you back… but having children does😂no more freedom, no social life, no more privacy, and no more making or spending money on yourself😭😭😭
Trust me I have enough money to be comfortable and it isn't making me happy. Was much happier in the past when I was broke and had nothing. And I don't know why you think kids cost so much? I have 3 and while I do love spoiling them I'm not spending everything on them. Having kids doesn't take away your freedom either. Still free to do whatever I choose to do
Nah having kids does take away freedom. Stop lol. You are talking as if having kids, MORE THAN ONE, is easy😂😂😂like no it is not!!! I’d rather live in luxury with lots of money and pets instead
You have no privacy or time to yourself with kids. You can’t even work or make money. That is what you want? Ok😂but don’t tell me it is selfish that i would rather work and make $ than be a 24/7 stay at home mom with demanding screaming crying children.
Money brings me happiness 😂it bought me my first balenciaga designer bag. Next, im buying both my dogs which will cost around 3k to 4k and my cat which will cost around $1500-$1800 depending if i want to show him or stud him out. Yep I’d rather use my money on buying my pets instead! Then im gonna also go to school for dog training to get certified. The class is around 5k. Yep, i got no time or money for children!
My lifestyle is based on animals and my career. I don’t see myself being a mom honestly especially stay at home omfg hell no. I want to work!!! Make money!!!
I think you described yourself very well: low-paid, lazy, selfish, consumed with the thought of caring for lives you can abandon with little-no social costs. You're not uncommon for thinking this, but you're clearly not a healthy human.
It's a odd a bit since the immense majority of people desire kids at one point but you are also very young still so your priorities can change within a few years or so.
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No I hate kids too. I like animals but they are expensive so no pets on my own unless I become rich
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No. I feel the same way when I was in my teens, and had some say I'll change my mind. Nearly 20 years later, still haven't changed.
Summer people weren't born to be parents. Nevermind all the silly animals. Maybe go to school or get some training to get a better paying job so you can get your own place, but that would mean more responsibilities.
You said yourself "I work in the veterinary field as a Veterinary Technician. This field does not pay us well enough to sustain ourselves." So like I said, maybe you should go back to school to get a better paying job or something, or find a job in another field that pays better so you can support yourself. Playing around with animals may be fun but it's is obviously not paying the bills, as you have previously stated
children are the soldiers, workers and taxpayers of tomorrow. by not having kids you are not contributing to the greater of society as much as you could
and you said "i want to keep more money for me" which is blatantly selfish
Men like you are disgusting. I do not need to “contribute” to society by pushing a human being out of my vagina thus ruining my body. I don’t even make enough money to sustain myself so why in the world would i bring a child into a life of financial problems? There is nothing wrong with wanting to save and spend my money on myself. I’d rather spend my money on myself, my pets, rent, bills, groceries, things i want, vacations, nice dinners, weed, etc. I do not want to waste my money and paychecks on another human being. Kids are expensive as shit. Pets however are not😂😂😂plus pets are way more cute! What if my child comes out disabled? I don’t want to be a caretaker for the rest of my life sorry. What if the kid turns out to be a serial killer or mass shooter? NO THANKS!
I don’t want to be paying for extra groceries or dinners at restaurants for my children. I don’t want to be buying extra gifts on holidays. So much money dude. I want to use that money once again on ME MYSELF AND I.
I value my privacy and freedom over having a child. I hate responsibilities and kids are a huge responsibility unlike a pet. I would be stuck with that child at home 24/7. I don’t want to be a stay at home mom, i want to work and have a career.
I honestly never cared about babies or toddlers. If i see someone pushing a stroller, i ignore. But if I see someone walking a dog, I go all googly eyes for it. That says something 😂i never played with dolls growing up or baby doll toys. Since the time i was age 5 i knew i wanted my future and career to be animal oriented.
I don’t want kids. It is not selfish. I value my career, animals, money, and privacy over a child. Yes, if i ever do get pregnant, which won’t happen since I don’t sleep around, i would get an abortion. That is how much I do not want them…
I guess im selfish for wanting my own life and goals😂😂😂and preferring to not be a stay at home mom 24/7 with a screaming demanding annoying messy child.
You are an idiot. Why should i have them? I don’t want them. I want my own life, freedom, privacy, and money to myself. I am not obligated or required to push something out of my vagina to satisfy men and society stereotypes.
I value my career, pets, money, privacy and freedom. Im sorry you think that is selfish but it isn’t. What is selfish is for me to bring a child into this world that i clearly won’t love😂😂😂or want…. I can’t even afford a child soooooooooo no thanks!
I have 0 maternal instincts towards human babies, and toddlers. ZERO. I could care less about them. I literally do not find them cute. I find them annoying messy smelly and they are wallet drainers😌I don’t want to be a stay at home mom 24/7. That is not the life i want. Why should i make myself be miserable and put myself in financial burden?
😂😂😂😂i am religious but that does not require me to push a human being out of my vagina and be forced to be responsible of it for 18+ years ontop of that spending all my money and checks on the child. Ew. No thanks! Pets are way cheaper
Someone took the time and care to bring you into this world. I think paying that gift forward is the right thing to do if you can. Your life tho do what u want
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No, it's not weird. If you don't want children, be sure you don't have them.
your description of yourself could also be used to describe me
No, you seem to prefer to want to live your life with your partner and be happy for example
all I see in this thread is "me me me me me me me me"
typical psychotic entitled woman of the 21st century.
Oh so we are selfish for not wanting children?
Nah, men like you are disgusting and feel superior
Im a conservative that is PROCHOICE. Yes i support abortion and im Republican and I don’t want kids! I love pets way more. My life is based on animals, not kids.
Its selfish to bring a child into this world where it is clearly not wanted😂
So you think im selfish for not wanting kids? I don’t even have a motherly instinct to babies or toddlers… so why should i have them? Plus, I don’t feel like wasting my money on them when i can use that money on myself, pets, rent, bills, nice vacations, designer bags, etc
You are right about not wanting kids , dont worry live your life
I don’t think it would be fair to the kid anyway. Im more career driven than wanting to be a mom honestly
I ONLY will want kids if me and my guy best friend end up together in the future. It is complicated lol but we are on talking terms again.
Yeah i think that way to, i would do my best to be the best mom but maybe my child won't be so lucky and hate life and to be born its unfair i wouldn't want my child to feel that way and maybe hate me, you are rightt
Seems like a normal trend now a days not to want kids. It's a real stupid trend to fall for like grow up and have some kids. Wtf else is there to life? Work your life away? Seems shitty but if your happy then go for it
LOL i would be MISERABLE being a fucking mom staying at home 24/7 with a crying screaming messy child!
I LOVE WORKING AND MAKING MONEY GET THAT BANK
Im career driven. Being a mom doesn’t sound fun especially if im not being paid😂sorry!
I love me time. My freedom. Privacy.
I'm a stay at home and it's probably not what you imagine it to be. It's very fun I get to choose what I want to do with my kids everyday without anything holding me back like a job
Money isn't that important. There is more to living then just having money and stuff
That is YOUR opinion lol. Money is everything if you want a comfortable good luxury lifestyle like i do in the future. I will not have that while having kids unless i was a doctor, lawyer, veterinarian, engineer, etc.
People say money doesn’t bring happiness but it does😂when you make good money, you can buy whatever the hell you want for yourself. But nah, once you have kids, that money goes towards your kids only. Then you have to start buying extra groceries, extra dinners at restaurants, extra Christmas presents, etc. Like bruh. I want my money for. ME MYSELF AND I. Unless i have a husband and pets. Thats IT!!!
Yeah no. Im sorry but i enjoy peace and quiet and privacy and ME TIME. I don’t want to be a stay at home mom 24/7… i like working, and making money for myself😂😂😂😂my goal is to get my own nice ass house with pets. ALONE. That is the future i want. Then go to school for dog training and get my certification in that. That is the life i want.
Oh one more thing, having a job you ENJOY AND LOVE, does not hold you back… but having children does😂no more freedom, no social life, no more privacy, and no more making or spending money on yourself😭😭😭
Trust me I have enough money to be comfortable and it isn't making me happy. Was much happier in the past when I was broke and had nothing. And I don't know why you think kids cost so much? I have 3 and while I do love spoiling them I'm not spending everything on them. Having kids doesn't take away your freedom either. Still free to do whatever I choose to do
It may be like that for you but not everyone 😂😂😂😂
Kids are expensive af…
Pets are cheaper 😂more cute! I would rather clean up shit and diarrhea from a puppy than change a diaper honestly
Nah having kids does take away freedom. Stop lol. You are talking as if having kids, MORE THAN ONE, is easy😂😂😂like no it is not!!! I’d rather live in luxury with lots of money and pets instead
You have no privacy or time to yourself with kids. You can’t even work or make money. That is what you want? Ok😂but don’t tell me it is selfish that i would rather work and make $ than be a 24/7 stay at home mom with demanding screaming crying children.
Don’t tell me to grow up and have kids😂 if that is what you want, go for it. But don’t shame others for choosing a different lifestyle lol.
Money brings me happiness 😂it bought me my first balenciaga designer bag. Next, im buying both my dogs which will cost around 3k to 4k and my cat which will cost around $1500-$1800 depending if i want to show him or stud him out. Yep I’d rather use my money on buying my pets instead! Then im gonna also go to school for dog training to get certified. The class is around 5k. Yep, i got no time or money for children!
My lifestyle is based on animals and my career. I don’t see myself being a mom honestly especially stay at home omfg hell no. I want to work!!! Make money!!!
I think you described yourself very well: low-paid, lazy, selfish, consumed with the thought of caring for lives you can abandon with little-no social costs.
You're not uncommon for thinking this, but you're clearly not a healthy human.
spare your judgement dude lol geeez
@Still-alive You're part of the problem dude.
i think you're projecting there bub
LOL. I don’t want a kid. Why should i?
I guess im selfish for not wanting to be a parent😂
Being a mom honestly sounds like hell.
don't pay attention to him. just one of those conserva-trolls lol
Strange how these people rather have women have kids they clearly do not want or can’t even care for😂
I already have a fulltime job. Im not trying to have another one which is me being a stay at home mom😂😂😂with a smelly crying pooping brat
Don’t let the simp fool you, this is how men with T-levels higher than a child feel. Also, my wife will be able to be a stay at home mom if she wants.
i doubt you have a wife lol. and if you do she's miserable
I would hate to be your wife since you have the mentality that all women need to have kids and if they don’t they are selfish
It's a odd a bit since the immense majority of people desire kids at one point but you are also very young still so your priorities can change within a few years or so.
No I hate kids too. I like animals but they are expensive so no pets on my own unless I become rich
No. I feel the same way when I was in my teens, and had some say I'll change my mind. Nearly 20 years later, still haven't changed.
Summer people weren't born to be parents. Nevermind all the silly animals. Maybe go to school or get some training to get a better paying job so you can get your own place, but that would mean more responsibilities.
I did go to school thanks sir!
You said yourself "I work in the veterinary field as a Veterinary Technician. This field does not pay us well enough to sustain ourselves." So like I said, maybe you should go back to school to get a better paying job or something, or find a job in another field that pays better so you can support yourself. Playing around with animals may be fun but it's is obviously not paying the bills, as you have previously stated
I will choose to do something that i love.
I could be a billionaire and still decide to be childless
yea very weird. kinda selfish too. but also not an uncommon thing to say at 23.
you'll totally abbandon all of that by 30 when hormones kick in. especially when all your friends get married and you never see them anyways.
Its not selfish lol. How is me not wanting kids selfish?
If anything it is selfish to have kids that I don’t want😂😂😂😂😂
My goal is my career, not to have children
children are the soldiers, workers and taxpayers of tomorrow. by not having kids you are not contributing to the greater of society as much as you could
and you said "i want to keep more money for me" which is blatantly selfish
Men like you are disgusting. I do not need to “contribute” to society by pushing a human being out of my vagina thus ruining my body. I don’t even make enough money to sustain myself so why in the world would i bring a child into a life of financial problems? There is nothing wrong with wanting to save and spend my money on myself. I’d rather spend my money on myself, my pets, rent, bills, groceries, things i want, vacations, nice dinners, weed, etc. I do not want to waste my money and paychecks on another human being. Kids are expensive as shit. Pets however are not😂😂😂plus pets are way more cute! What if my child comes out disabled? I don’t want to be a caretaker for the rest of my life sorry. What if the kid turns out to be a serial killer or mass shooter? NO THANKS!
Im not a breeding machine. There is way more than enough people on this planet. Me not having kids is not going to affect this planet😂😂😂😂
I don’t want to be paying for extra groceries or dinners at restaurants for my children. I don’t want to be buying extra gifts on holidays. So much money dude. I want to use that money once again on ME MYSELF AND I.
I value my privacy and freedom over having a child. I hate responsibilities and kids are a huge responsibility unlike a pet. I would be stuck with that child at home 24/7. I don’t want to be a stay at home mom, i want to work and have a career.
I honestly never cared about babies or toddlers. If i see someone pushing a stroller, i ignore. But if I see someone walking a dog, I go all googly eyes for it. That says something 😂i never played with dolls growing up or baby doll toys. Since the time i was age 5 i knew i wanted my future and career to be animal oriented.
I don’t want kids. It is not selfish. I value my career, animals, money, and privacy over a child. Yes, if i ever do get pregnant, which won’t happen since I don’t sleep around, i would get an abortion. That is how much I do not want them…
yea, you're a selfish person
I guess im selfish for wanting my own life and goals😂😂😂and preferring to not be a stay at home mom 24/7 with a screaming demanding annoying messy child.
You are an idiot. Why should i have them? I don’t want them. I want my own life, freedom, privacy, and money to myself. I am not obligated or required to push something out of my vagina to satisfy men and society stereotypes.
I value my career, pets, money, privacy and freedom. Im sorry you think that is selfish but it isn’t. What is selfish is for me to bring a child into this world that i clearly won’t love😂😂😂or want…. I can’t even afford a child soooooooooo no thanks!
I have 0 maternal instincts towards human babies, and toddlers. ZERO. I could care less about them. I literally do not find them cute. I find them annoying messy smelly and they are wallet drainers😌I don’t want to be a stay at home mom 24/7. That is not the life i want. Why should i make myself be miserable and put myself in financial burden?
I'm never gonna have kids
I see the brain washing is working for the 1% de-population
Aww because I don’t want children?
Im career driven. I don’t want to be a mom lol. Sounds like hell tbh
It's better for u not to want kids get ur tubes tide permanently.
I don't want kids either but as an only child and male, I HAVE to
Seems most girls want animals instead of kids these days, let me guess, you’re white and non religious? It’s by design
😂😂😂😂i am religious but that does not require me to push a human being out of my vagina and be forced to be responsible of it for 18+ years ontop of that spending all my money and checks on the child. Ew. No thanks! Pets are way cheaper
Someone took the time and care to bring you into this world. I think paying that gift forward is the right thing to do if you can. Your life tho do what u want
Im not obligated or required at all to have kids. Wtf?
No thanks. Im career driven. Being a stay at home mom does not sound fun.
Never said you were, I just think you’re a little selfish that’s all
Its not selfish😂
Im not obligated to push something out of my vagina for the universe
I want to work. Not be a mom
No, if anything it’s giod
I don’t see anything wrong with that
It's not weird i don't want kids as well