Bc we’re in love. I think girls become more invested in relationships then men. We’re strong so we stick up with a lot especially when it’s for love. It’s sad but true.
Codependency issues, more often than not... I've been guilty of holding onto a bad relationship, myself, for that very reason. It's tough work, but it can be gotten past.
Technically, they don't, it's just a lot of the time, the guy won't go the fuck on and keeps manipulating the girl in some kind of way to keep her there
Sometimes it's cux they don't want to start over , it could be that they feel like this is the best they could get , or they are blinded by love cuz they want to be able to say somebody loves them even if they cry themselves to sleep every night
I don't know but I should have been able to leave in the beginning after she showed her true colors. Instead of dragging it out for years. That didn't do anyone any good.
We "chase" them because we don't know if they are gold diggers or not and that doesn't mean we hold on to them if we know they are gold diggers. Holding on to someone is different.
@Aiko_E_ lara have you ever seen wolf of Wallstreet with Leonardo dicaprio? He was married to a wonderful woman BUT he desired the approval , attention, and the chase of getting the gold digger. Not just a movie thing it just seems to be a common thing in society amongst men when they get money yet complain they're sick of gold diggers
I don't watch movies a lot. But I know there are fair amount of guys who would rather split bills instead of paying for the dates. Those who do trusts her and just like to give out of abundance or to give satisfaction to himself not because he knows he's a gold digger. I mean almost everyone would accept if they're given free food. That doesn't mean they're automatically gold diggers. You'd know if they start taking advantage of it. You can't see them on first site.
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Bc we’re in love. I think girls become more invested in relationships then men. We’re strong so we stick up with a lot especially when it’s for love. It’s sad but true.
But how can you love someone you KNOW is not even a good person?
I don't know I’m just naive sadly
that ain't strength.
@Sabretooth Right.
Stupid, they think the man will chance.
American women want a prince
Because he's a man in play, its an ego blow if he moves on to another girl. A man with options is gonna have girls after him.
Codependency issues, more often than not... I've been guilty of holding onto a bad relationship, myself, for that very reason. It's tough work, but it can be gotten past.
Technically, they don't, it's just a lot of the time, the guy won't go the fuck on and keeps manipulating the girl in some kind of way to keep her there
Sometimes it's cux they don't want to start over , it could be that they feel like this is the best they could get , or they are blinded by love cuz they want to be able to say somebody loves them even if they cry themselves to sleep every night
Cause it's hard to let go once you've fallen in love with someone.
Most woman are too scared of being alone so they put up with sh! t.
Sad.
I don't know but I should have been able to leave in the beginning after she showed her true colors. Instead of dragging it out for years. That didn't do anyone any good.
The same reasons men hold onto women who are not good for them.
1. Fear of the unknown / being alone
2. It seems easier than starting over.
Women have emotional attachment issues. Its really that simple.
As to why they have those issues? Not so sure but psychologically that is just the way they are wired
Sure seems that way.
Why do men complain about gold diggers yet chase them?
You must be a girl holding on to a no good guy.
You must be a guy who hates the truth.
I'll take it that you are.
I'll take it that you are.
We "chase" them because we don't know if they are gold diggers or not and that doesn't mean we hold on to them if we know they are gold diggers. Holding on to someone is different.
@Aiko_E_ lara have you ever seen wolf of Wallstreet with Leonardo dicaprio? He was married to a wonderful woman BUT he desired the approval , attention, and the chase of getting the gold digger. Not just a movie thing it just seems to be a common thing in society amongst men when they get money yet complain they're sick of gold diggers
I don't watch movies a lot. But I know there are fair amount of guys who would rather split bills instead of paying for the dates. Those who do trusts her and just like to give out of abundance or to give satisfaction to himself not because he knows he's a gold digger. I mean almost everyone would accept if they're given free food. That doesn't mean they're automatically gold diggers. You'd know if they start taking advantage of it. You can't see them on first site.
any support is better than no support? odd
Right.
dependence
probably
thats why i held onto my ex for ages
Cause a lot of them are forcefully conditioned into thinking it's their job to fix him. So they have a hard time letting go.
The same reason guys hang onto women that aren't good for them. We accept the love we think we deserve
Because none of those women have any respect for themselves.
Women HATE being alone
Funny username too by the way.