She rejected me, but still wants my attention. Why?

Peter666555

The thing is… there is a woman who keeps staring at me, we work together. Every time she goes somewhere, she looked at me. And smiled. Big smile. So we looked at each other for some time and smiled at each other. As time passed, we eventually shared some words. But nothing special, just common questions. But she acted very friendly, touchy, and so on (she's touchy to her other friends too). I was thinking about her if that meant something, and there was only one option, to find out. I asked her out. I knew she say no because we don’t know each other, but I wanted to see her reaction. That reaction was just a smile… but it was a smile like “You? With me? You must be kidding” So I told myself, ok no big deal… It’s normal. After that question, I went on vacation for 2 weeks. When I come back, she was acting the same as before. Big smile, staring at each other no matter where we were. So I told myself, I will not give you any more attention, I don't know you so well. So I started ignoring her. The first ignoring day she comes to me, with work stuff, but she looked like she wants to spit on me. She was something like offended. So ok, I started to notice her again, but without a smile. So she knows I'm out… after a week or two, without smiling, I started ignoring her again… Now she doesn’t even say hello to me. Why? She rejected me. When I wanted to know her better, she run away, but still she want my attention. I'm treating her like any other woman at work. I'm polite to her when we meet, joking with her, smiling, etc. But I'm no longer giving her attention, when she going around.

I need to tell you that there were some moments when I didn’t notice her or didn’t wawe her when she's greeted me. She ignored me for some days for that :D

She rejected me, but still wants my attention. Why?
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