Girls, Is it true that its not so much how a guy looks that makes him attractive but more how he makes you feel?

[Still-alive]

I look around and see these basically super model women dating these 'meh' looking guys. i recall a girl telling me that looks are not as important as how the guy makes her feel.

Is this true for you?

Yes i have fallen for a guy who isn't all that great looking but because i loved how he made me feel

No i needed the looks more than i needed how he made me feel actually

How he makes me feel isn't that important to me. Looks matter way more

I've only gone for guys that both look hot and how they make me feel. i can't have one without the other

[meetkitty123]

Oh the

BEAUTY AND THE BEAST

OR BEAUTY AND THE HUNK...

well it can be either or both (yes a beast but a hunk to their beauty) or neither depends on ones perspective... especially now that we toss in the idea of emotional connection or no emotions attached

Yes that's right...

STORIES OF BEAUTY AND THE BEAST EXIST

AS MUCH AS BEAUTY AND THE HUNK

does and in either situations there may or may not be an emotional connection

See...

I would have to disagree with all of the listed above in the poll. It is not as simple as you state it.

It has nothing to do with "Hot" or "sexy" or evening "looks" vs Emotions

My problem with the above is it is only focused on one sense "sight" then the idea of emotions.

We need to go broader and simply say:

ATTRACTION

Attraction can be caused by a combination of factors

• Scent
• Power
• Strength
• appearance (preference differs depends on the eye of the beholder)
• Wealth
• Intelligence
• Creativity
• Wickedness
• Virtue
• Fertility
• Nurturing
• adaptable
• Etc etc etc

Now whether an emotional connection is needed... with any of the above factors... is clearly up to the individual.

There may be some who seek power wealth wickedness Strength as what is important to them and also attracts them and see love as not necessary.

Another may Need Nurturing Adaptable Fertility Virtue to be attracted to the person and have an emotional connection.

Another person may want power strength wealth intelligence appearance virtue Nurturing and love

AND I?

Nurturing, fun, reliable, Strength, intelligence, creativity, fertility, decent income, living independently, maturity, virtue, Chivalry adaptable, Pleasant scent, my appearance preference, career driven, outgoing, family orientated and of course love 💞.

[Still-alive]

i think i got most of your preferences down except maybe strength... and decent income lol.

I just need to find my beauty to my beast grrr!

[meetkitty123]

Je me sais pas, no sé attraction and love is complicated many things must alien

[melanieeeB]

I would agree, at least for me that's true when it comes to emotions and feelings.

But honestly looks do matter to me, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
And I think what most guys on here don't understand... We or at least I'm not searching for a super model to date lol AND looks are not everything, they just open the door.
I would never be with a, what I call, handsome man who is stupid or treating me awful or being disrespectful or hating women lol

[Still-alive]

so would you be with someone who is maybe a tad overweight or not conventionally attractive but does treat you well? the way you'd expect or want to be treated?

[melanieeeB]

In my eyes, he has to be attractive! lol Like I said, looks matter to me.
I don't do unattractive friends, men, things etc
But I don't see attractive with being fully trained, I don't mind a normal body.

And there is no other option than treating well.

[Still-alive]

Alright so whats your type physically? :P

[Still-alive]

“But I don't see attractive with being fully trained,”

Also I didn’t really understand what you mean here. What do you mean by ‘trained?’

[melanieeeB]

Why do you even care? It has nothing to do with the question or you anyways and it has also nothing to do with understanding women in general

[melanieeeB]

Not super trained is pretty clear to me lol
I don't need someone with whole ass muscles but my type is also not the average dude.
I like bulky, successful, confident, fun, independent men.

[Still-alive]

Whoaa hey i dont know where that came from im just attempting to understand more…

But ok you may decline to answer..

Ok i misread ‘trained’ as something else. You meant muscles/exercise.

[Lucy68]

If he makes me feel happy and protected and has respect for me and truly cares for me, then I honestly don't care how he looks. All I want is a sweet, loving, kindhearted, gentle soul that will make me laugh. That's all, and he's willing to let me give him a little show every now and then

[petitedollbabee]

How he makes me feel, how he treats me, what his personality is like, where his morals are… all are MUCH more important than looks to me.

[Still-alive]

have you been with a guy who doesn't look 'hot' conventionally speaking but because of how he made you feel?

[petitedollbabee]

Pretty much all guys I’ve dated, yep.

[Still-alive]

were any of them out of shape or a tad overweight perhaps? lol

[petitedollbabee]

I don’t think I’ve ever dated someone who was “in shape”, but mostly in terms of fitness, not necessarily their weight. I think I’ve dated 2 guys who were a little overweight.

[Still-alive]

k good lol.

[Quackthulu2]

Can’t speak for everyone out here but I don’t really anything out of all that lovey dovey bullshit. But give me a hot guy who knows how to follow orders and I will make him my bitch in a heartbeat.

[menina]

Looks are important to me, but it's also true that I've fallen for guys who weren't good looking but made me so good! I loved the way they treated me.

[Reem12345reem]

I mean if he's medium ugly that would be alright

[LazerBean]

It's definitely true for a lot of women.

[mstoxicprincess]

yes ! beauty is in the eyes of beholder