so me and her talk daily and see each other almost daily even stay at each other’s places overnight and out of nowhere today she just starts to ignore me like obviously ignoring me. So I don't know what to really do and the only thing I can think of is that I was a little quiet the last day we hung out because i didn’t feel well and I told her that…. but I don't know if that’s a reason that she’s upset with me or what, could she be overwhelmed bc we hangout often or is she playing games or just not interested anymore ( which is weird bc she was posting us on facebook and she was reactive yesterday and seemed like everything is normal). What should I do since it’s really been today she started but it’s a very drastic change to how she is and is kindve worrying
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So what’s going on, is she playing games or upset?
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Dude that is super weird of her to just start ignoring you like that out of nowhere. A few things it could be:
- Maybe she's on her period and PMSing hard. Girls be moody as hell sometimes when the hormones are raging.
- Could be she's overwhelmed like you said from hanging out so much, but most girls will still talk to you if they need space.
- Possibly she got mad about something small you said or did when you weren't feeling well and is being extra sensitive about it.
- She might be playing games, trying to make you chase after her and prove you care. Sometimes chicks do that dumb ish.
I'd say give her some time to cool off today since you didn't do anything majorly wrong, but don't text her again tonight. Then try chatting her up casually tomorrow to see if she's still acting off.
If she doesn't respond or keeps being weird, you might need to have a straight up conversation asking what's up with the attitude change. Better to address it now than let it get blown out of proportion, feel me? Just play it cool though - don't stress too much yet cause who knows, she may get over it quick. Lemme know what happens dude!
Talk to her. Ask her what’s going on.
I’ve tried to message her but she leaves me on delivered for hours and the little bit she has said today when i asked how her day was all I got was fine
That’s weird. Maybe just give her some space. She’ll talk when she’s ready.
I hope it really bothers me tbh, we had plans for tomorrow I don't know if I should treat it like a cancel or try to follow up with it tomorrow
Treat it like a cancel. Let her reach out when she’s ready.