If she has feelings for him you have every right not to be comfortable and okay with it. It's obvious nothing he says will change that. You've already tried talking it through and that didn't work. What you need to do is establish your relationship boundaries and stick to them. Tell him what he's doing is perfectly fine, nothing wrong with it. You never tell him to change himself. But also you need to be prepared to leave him for your own relationship boundaries. You trust him, not her. He should be more mindful of your feelings if he's truly mature. And also, he probably knows better. He probably knows she likes him... and so he gets attention and affirmation from her... and you. Every time you express your concerns you make him feel more valuable. I hope this helps, good luck :)
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your long distance boyfriend is spending nights over @ a female friend who has feelings for him? and you really believe nothing is going on? I have oceanfront property to sell you in kansas
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Personally I would be pissed if a guy did that. What is his reasoning for sleeping over at a girls house? I don't think that is necessary.
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