myTakes: Guy's Behavior

Why am I writing this? I have no reason to, I rarely/never come to this site, it's 2:35 am (and counting), I should be in bed, but still... why am I writing this? I want to say "I've had a lot on my mind lately" but that...

As a caveat, I am a beginner to this subject but I wanted to share some things I learned so far. 1. Always Wear Pants in Formal Settings It is not always important to wear pants, but in formal settings like funerals,...

Do you have someone in your environment who might be an involuntary celibate ? If you have trouble understanding them, this Mytake can help you out to better understand this person. More importantly, ultimately help them...

For the longest time many nice guys on the internet have been complaining why is it that the nice guys always get rejected? Why do women always go for the bad boy or the asshole? These are legitimate concerns and I will...

I've become unhinged in the past month. I've become more belligerent than ever before in the past decade or so. One of my closest friends was murdered. He lived only a few blocks away and the police found him stabbed to...

As a nice guy and reading some of the terrible shit being said just about nice guys and not saying you’re talking about fake nice guys in my opinion is a bad thing to do because it subverts the meaning of words. Words...

A lot has been said about why men don't ask for help and why they don't talk about their problems. A lot more will be said about it. Its all totally useless. Let me tell you why. In my life I have been beaten up three...

I still remember my teenage years as though it was yesterday. I let so many opportunities pass me by because I used to allow fear of the unknown to hold me back. The worse thing in life is regret. Live life the way you...

All these whiny posts about the ways "good guys" differentiate themselves from "nice guys" make me want to puke. So rather than giving you folks another social science explanation for why everyone can be an alpha, and how...

It Makes You Reactive To Women You're trying to be whichever 'peg' you think will fit in her 'hole' (no pun intended). Rather than "being your own man", you're looking to women to determine what sort of man you should...

BACKGROUND I am currently engaged to a women i met back in my hometown in Africa.We bonded so well that people didn't even realized we just met a few weeks ago. Her family and mines are so close that my Dad took the...

(Noun) Incel (neologism): A person who is celibate against their wishes. First off, this label is very rarely attached to women, no matter what the situation might be. Just like mothers who kill their children are...

it was a long working week for me number... I lost count. it's number over 200 for sure. Love and relationships are according to Maslows pyramid of human needs part of the third level (after safety needs, after...