What if he never talks to me again?

[Paulina528]

My ex boyfriend and I broke up, and he told me that he needed space and didn't want to talk 'right now'. He blocked me off of Facebook and Instagram because he claimed tha he didn't want to see me on social networks. He usually blocks his ex's. Especially if he doesn't plan on talking to them anymore. But in the past when we broke up (we date times before this current one) he never blocked me. We haven't talked in 2 weeks and I feel upset because I miss him and we broke up with a lot of misunderstandings but I feel like if I messaged him I would look desperate and bother him. Plus I wish he would message me. I knew him for 3 years... He got along great with my family and my dad and him had so much in common. We were great friends and a nice couple.. I don't understand how he could just throw it all away. UGH this is driving me nuts.

[Hamburglar1]

The fact that he blocks you from social sites doesn't sound good to me at all. If my male friends block a girl, it means that the relationship is kaput and they don't want to have anything to do with her anymore. Just move on and find someone more mature next time. Also, why taking such drastic steps as to block someone that you had a 3 year relationship with. It's not nice of him to treat you this way. It is cold, rude and nasty, period.

[Paulina528]

I guess you're right :( thanks

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You do not message him. There's obviously something wrong with the relationship. Give it time, he may come back, but I would focus on yourself and moving forward with your life, not hanging on to the idea of this guy. You two broke up several times for a reason. It was not a good relationship.

[Paulina528]

It was good for the first 3-4 months. Better than any other time we were together. Lots of improvements were made this time but in the end our fights were just stupid and I was paranoid he would flirt with other girls. I asked him many times not to talk to this certain girl who always disrespected me and he kept talking to her.

[Paulina528]

Then he told me he didn't like that I talked to my guy friends all the time.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

So there you have it. You both are insecure, immature and letting petty jealousy ruin relationships. When you want to move past that, and he wants to move past it, maybe a reconciliation is still possible.

[Anonymous]

If he doesn't talk to you, he doesn't talk to you. There's nothing you can really do about it to make him change his mind.

Get over it, and realise that that is what breaking up means. Often you never see the person again.