Or maybe you are and just not that active, indicisive etc..
Is there just a sexual attraction then for just looking, smiling etc all the time and not approaching a girl?
What the real reason you guys check us out but don't make move?
Well, the winking bit would maybe be just flirting for flirting's sake, I think.
The others could mean anything. Nearly any red-blooded male will check a girl out. If a guy does it repeatedly, he is really attracted to a woman. He might be too shy, think she's out of his league, be in a relationship himself or think she's in one.
Smiling is sometimes almost an unconscious action, rather than an intentional signal. Could be he is happy to she such a beautiful woman, perhaps in a particular action like smiling herself, rather than a signal of confidence.
Anyway, it is well known guys are worse at reading body language than woman.
Amusingly, I have heard that woman check out men nearly as often, but their eye's are different so it is less obvious because they don't have to focus on a spot to see it.
He checks on me every day.. makes sure he sees me and have a little look of me. or what attracts him to me... smiling always: when he sees me, talking on a phone and sees me and when I talk to him... he sometimes gives me a smiles where i can read regret... what if... some of them are cheaky, pleased to see me!
guys desire beautiful girls, but guys risk rejection way more than a girl ever does, so guys are not going to make moves, guys know when we are considered ugly/unwanted to a girl so its really the girl whos supposed to make the first moves, cause its the girl who chooses the guy and plus from experience I've been rejected every time I've made moves and so did other guys i knew,
if you want the guy you need to continue making moves, and initiate things, you dont just do it once and expect everything to be his job after, it doesn't work like that, a guy will get it if he understands what you want from him, but that doesn't mean you stop initiating then ether, and every guy is afraid of doing something wrong and end up rejected cause that tends to happen a lot
haa no.. if i only making a move showing my interest and there is nothing nothing coming from a guy-then NO!. Am not going to go out of my way to talk to him, when if I do... he doesn't ask questions back. Missing some questions I asked... so no! Well i think two month is enough to do it after me saying hi and try talking to him.. trying make him talk at least!
Yes, he will need to show interest back.. i was winking and smiling when i was 18.. am not 18 any more!
well of course a guy will talk eventually, and winking and smiling doesn't do anything to show interest or make a guy talk to you, a girl approaching and telling her feelings etc does, you can't just say hi and walk by
ooops i thought you were doing the winking etc, yes he's interested and no dont ignore, you have to reciprocate and approach him, ignoring a guy isn't going to get you a guy, he's already making the moves and you say you are too but how are you making moves and showing interest?
maybe he wants a girl who knows what she wants, and not a girl who acts innocent and distant, he seems shy but doesn't want to make moves on a girl cause guys have to worry about coming on too strong or acting too desperate/clingy and end up turning a girl off, guys have to wait till the girl reaches that stage first thats just how it is
He doesn't know anything about me... and the reason is.. he wasn't putting effort in conversation. If he would then he might know what I want or know... except how I look he doesn't know anything... come on. He doesn't ask my name for gods sake when I asked his... he is not coming as anything yet... all I can say the reason I want to ignore him a bit as except winkin and smiling and saying hi to me for now - there is nothing from him in 2 month!
i see now, the guy isn't interested in you in "that" way
maybe he's just being friendly, and your confusing it as flirting
Ha.. interesting.. when am friendly and not interested I don't check same guy each day and turn my head over to look at him every time he passes. I consider it pointless and waste of time... I'll be friendly ones but not every day say hi etc, checking a guy staring at the window door... maybe its a new way of showing friendliness...
does he already have a girlfriend? maybe he likes you/attracted but can't have you
you should ask first
ignoring a guy tells a guy your not interested, thats annoying and confusing to a guy, and dont worry about coming on too strong etc a guy likes a girl whos forward
Ha ohh come and did he show any signs of interest so far except of smiling etc... let him be confused!!! Maybe it'll teach him something... maybe next time he would actually want to know more.. am still there to look as he wants.. but am not looking as often as I used to.. will glance just seldomly and smile back!!!
your just teaching him he's not wanted, your not going to get a guy to like you doing that
thats up to you
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sometimes we men become overwhelmed with fear thinking that there is a possibility that you might not like us back so we flirt, wink, etc and show interest hoping that you could give us an extra nudge to show us that you like us back or for you to make the first move because we men, although we pretend to be tough brutes can be just as fragile as women.
hahaha yes, I'm sorry but we men can sometimes be very hard headed in believing that a woman could not love us for who we are. sometimes you could even ask out a guy and tell him you love him but some guys just can't seem to believe a woman would have interest in them.. try to help nudge him a bit more and ask him out..
ohh no... i wouldn't we are not nearly as that!.. come on i think i showed plenty of interest.. think there is something wrong with his head if he is not responding well too pretty girl... no no no... i actually decided to ignore him.. see if he makes a move! ice is already broken anyway..
I used to make mistakes like this, that's why I know and actually i recently did so, there's a girl at my college and we'd go to the gym and she came up 4 inches from my face and blushed hoping that I would ask her out and I didn't, because i was dating someone, and now I try to contact her, through FB, because I can't find her in person and she's completely ignoring me... I'm going crazy about her and i can't stop thinking about her hoping that i'll find her again to ask her out... its not nice to feel this way so please don't ignore him if he tries to contact you in some way, we men are dumb and stupid but some have good hearts.
Hey.. that's what I will try to see.. if he will contact me first. as I said I am still there still available to look at... but to give him space an miss me he has to miss our talks and the only way it happen me not initiatiat conversation... still say hi, but not that quick.. it will make him think... make him wondering... maybe miss! .. than if he contacts me does mire effort i can see how good is his heart.
I think that any attractive woman deserves that men react to her charm or beauty. Women should be proud of such reactions from men, this is healthy. I don't necessarily want to have sex with each woman I compliment, I like sex a lot but it is not the only thing which rules my life.
Honestly? Fear. I have so many friends that all check out that one girl that walks by, but even though I'm standing RIGHT NEXT TO HIM... I still have to ask "Did you see that girl?".
We're not as open as girls think.
I don't make a move as I said above because I fear rejection. And although some people say "Yeah, but it builds you up", I'd simply rather not ask her out and spare the embarrassment.
i wouldn't check you out but i would smile and stuff. ill totally compliment you and then go on about my day. those random compliments really make a girls fucking day!
he must be nervous as hell, are you like totally super hot around him? hahah
well that depends. how much do you like him? and by the way fucking +1010101001011 on the super hot profile! hahahah:D
might've been confusing. when I say profile I mean how you described yourself
Haaa u like my discription of myself ha? that's me... no i madly do... but am starting loosing slowly interest... so not surprised why he is nervous then?
I don't want to ignore him... but want to see if he actually start pull conversation with me. He says hi first anyway each time ha.
mm maybe you just gotta give off 1 strong hint that will give him the courage and motivation to start pursuing you
well it has to be super obvious because conversation won't be enough. what do you think is super obvious to let a guy know you're interested? usually touching is a good one.
exactly! if he can't prove himself to be the man you want him to be then you will waste your time. some guys need time and some push to come out of their shell but if you honestly feel like it ain't gonna happen then you know what to do. or you can keep trying:) but yeah slightly touching is a good one, make sure its not a casual touch though. it has to be more... hmm... intimate i guess.
you already know what you're doing!:D hahaha wish more girls were like you!
I check out 100s of girls daily. Its not possible to approach each one of them. sometimes the girl is hot/cute but just not your type and sometimes you are not confident enough to approach a particular girl , reason could be anything like you might think she is out of your league or she has a boyfriend et cetra..
He's DUMB
Rejection is a big one for single guys, confidence boosting is the other for guys who have no problem getting it.
Nerves, don't know whether you are single or not, alcohol isn't present in the blood (hey that's a big one for me TBH).
Are you gonna buy every car you "check out"?
No. So why would you expect every guy that checks you out to make a move?
I get the feeling your question didn't ask what you really want to know. I also get the feeling you're talking about a guy that's been looking at you but hasn't done anything. If that's the case, why didn't you just ask what you wanted to know? Giving incomplete info is a sure way to get useless answers.
I have fear that woman might not like me and may be she is already taken hence not making any move. But this is only me.
... because it's AMAZING fun, seriously especially when the girl reciprocates -it strokes the ego, call it attention seeking
careful you don't kill a real spark though, just because I flirt fraudulently with some girls it doesn't mean i don't also flirt with the ones i really like, perhaps he's waiting for the opportune moment
if you are not sexually attractive, we will most likely not initiate flirting. we don´t make a move, because we are shy, don´t dare to or are not in the mood to.
sorry i don´t get that comment xD
hmm no i guess it´s either the shyness or not enough attraction then
yes and from yours too ! xD
i think it means he is still attracted in a way :)
too bad :)
Because were attracted to women lol simple. And we also like to show our affection.
Perhaps you could approach first?…. Seriously
Maybe he is not that into you.
Mmm sure, if you say so.. An interested guy would at least say something.
Afraid of rejection
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