How do I catch my roommate? I think he has been pleasuring himself on my underwear?

[Anonymous]

Last week I was getting ready to go to work and found some stains on my underwear. I will admit I'm not the best at folding and putting away my clothes but I do wash them regularly. Last week I pulled a red thong out of my clothes hamper that was clean clothes, when I was un-twisting them to put them on I noticed it had a dried stain on it that I know was not from me. after taking a closer look it looked like dried cum. My roommate was the first person that popped into my head because I'm not currently dating anyone and no other guy has access to my room. I think I tried lying to myself by telling myself maybe it was just something that got put in the washer machine like Chapstick or something. I put them in the dirty clothes and got a different thong.

Yesterday afternoon I pulled in the driveway as my roommate was pulling out, I went inside to change clothes so I could go to a friends house. In a hurry I took a quick shower grabbed a black bra out of my underwear drawer without really looking at it and when I put it on I felt a really wet spot against my boob. I took it back off to see what it was and there was a huge wet spot of what was obviously cum. It was all over the inside of my bra cup and I could see it on my left boob like it was just put there. Now I knew it was my roommate, I quickly threw my bra in the washer machine and wiped my boob off with a towel.

I was pretty grossed out by this but I knew it had to be him, I would feel awkward bringing up the situation to him so I figured the best way was to somehow catch him so I could prove it. I don't really have any cameras or anything that I could hide so I was wondering if anybody had any ideas of how I could catch him?

I talked about this with my friend that night at her house and she was grossed out by it too but we did not know what to do.

[Roycaryn]

I'm sure you're probably aware of this, but underwear fetishism is one of the most common fetishes out there. I would strongly advise that you don't try to "catch him in the act," that could easily make the situation worse since many people feel guilty about this sort of fetish.

My advice would be to tell him straightforward in the least judgmental manner as possible; mention that having a thing for ladies' undergarments is extremely common, is as old as undergarments themselves etc. but that going through your drawers is a serious breach of expected boundaries as roommates. I know this is going to be hard to without feeling disgusted, but it really is important to avoid giving a bad impression when confronting him.

[wowzer]

Is this dude a friend? It's pretty unusual for opposite sex strangers to be roommates.

I would either tell him you know it's him and you forgive him but to stop it because it's unacceptable and is making a mess of your clothes or, you make out like you think there's a pervert breaking into rooms because of such and asuch evience you found.

The other route is get a friend to tell him they saw him/know it's him and to stop or they'll tell you lol. It would be less embarrassing if it was a guy friend than a girl friend.

[wowzer]

sp sp etc =)

[Anonymous]

Male and female roommates almost never work out. He obviously somewhat likes you, and it almost sounds like you do to. Should talk about it though. I would be humiliated if I was caught doing something like that. Even if he denies it, at least it's somewhat out in the open about how you feel about it. He may or may not continue with it but at least he knows how you feel about it. All you have to do is say "hey, I've been noticing something on my underwear lately, that's been wet and dry stains. I know it's not from me, do you have any idea what this could be?". It's not accusatory, it just gets it out in the open

[Caliguy88]

Get a camera. I don’t get that. I’m not into that. I actually did it once just to see what it was like... I don’t get it. I told her I did it. Lol. She’s a freak so she didn’t care. I actually washed them before I gave them back. Lol.

Maybe it’s hotter if they are stolen etc... I don't know

[Anonymous]

You have to get a camera. Borrow a camera from a friend.

It depends on where you are. But it's probably some kind of civil offense at least (such as trespass) or even a crime (such as sexual assault) for him to do this. So once you have proof, you might think about taking legal action. Or even if you don't do that, I'm sure your landlord will make him leave

[bladesdragon3]

Game camera... (Game = hunting)
Will take a pictures when someone enters your room.
I think it uses an inferred flash so they would never know it was on

[Okasdin]

Ok don't put a camera in the room. That is an invasion of privacy... I would try looking for new roommates on your own and when you find somewhere, confront him. You could embarrass him by posting a picture online and leave after

[Execu]

It's really not if he's rubbing his dick on everything.

[Okasdin]

Not what?

[Xonen]

I think you should get a few pairs of his underwear and just dip them in a paintbucket. then just slip them back into his underwear drawer, before the paint's even dried. he'll get the message.

[Execu]

If you have a laptop/computer just have the webcam run (if not get one), you can set it up to only record when there is movement.

[ChiTown33]

Well i'm just spitballing here but you could sneak into his room while he's asleep and cut his penis off. Problem solved.

[ChiTown33]

See because then it's not awkward. Then he has to come ask you " did you cut my penis off". See... you got him to bring up the subject because now you can say while that depends did you cum in my lingerie and it's probably not awkward anymore.

[Anonymous]

You must be hot.

Umm not sure what you can do there but maybe you can try moving out.

[soe11]

• Do not go in to it.