Guys why wouldn't you block a friends with benefits number when you have a gf?

[Anonymous]

Why wouldn't u block her number when u know she might text but u have a gf. this is funny to me cuz im in this situation now.

[shanny12]

Going through something similar. Was seeing this guy not exclusive, but intimate for years off and on. He is now in a relationship just months after still trying to get those benefits, but didn't tell me he was now in a relationship. Why wouldn't he tell me so I wouldn't text him in that way. So I text him to ask him about it, he responded back that he didn't have to explain anything, he likes me as a friend and still wants to remain friends. HUH!! Why, you are in a RELATIONSHIP!! So not only does he still have my #, he still wants to be friends when we were lovers. Don't think his GF would be cool with that!! So confused by this guy. He should have told me he was now involved, he shouldn't still have my #, and he should not want to be friends. I deleted his!!!

[Asker]

Thank u omg i did the same thing like if i kept a guys number and didn't block it and im in a relationship with someone i probably still care a bout u , u know. so he probably still cares. just block my number if u dont want me texting u lol.

[shanny12]

Exactly, its a respect thing. Respect for your relationship, let who ever else you were seeing know the deal, and move on. But to still have #'s and want to be friends hmmmm you feel something you don't want to feel LOL!! He needs to just delete me LOL!!!

[Asker]

I know lol. guys play toooo much games. he still wants u if ur number is still im his phone lol. he caresss. i just wanted to text my friends with benefits to delete my number block it but he didn't block it thats sooo funny.

[shanny12]

Exactly. I don't call my situation friends with benefits because we were seeing each other, spent time together, went out and talked, he always wanted me to spend the night. FWB's get to it, thats it. We talked cuddled all that. We were dating, just not serious. He dissed me hard, flaunting this new girl with her old ass face in front of me LOL so of course he is going to keep me around. She has NOTHING on me. I told him I wish him and her the best. He sent so many mixed signals girl I'm dizzy LOL

[Asker]

Lmaoo i know lol. why would he do that wtf. the guy i was friends with benefits we only did sonething twice but he dropped me soo fast it wasn't eveeennn funnyy

[shanny12]

Oh wow, see we had countless times, laying up, watching movies for years, hell that's a relationship I don't care what nobody say LOL. He just dropped me real quick too after all that time and tell me he likes me as a friend. WTF who does that LMAO

[Asker]

Lmaooo u guys were definitely in a relationship what he did to u was low!!!

[Asker]

I feel like he wants more from u but is afraid u know!

[shanny12]

yes girl very low. He is with this girl now, he just took a trip with her im like WOWWWW ok. Yeah it hurts because his actions shows me he really doesn't care. Hopefully I won't see him for a while so I can get him out my system LOL!!!

[Asker]

Wtf really he should of took u on that trip ur life is definitely like friends with benefits he's just afraid to go on that next level with u i think

[shanny12]

I don't know what his problem is. But he is now with her, so for whatever reason he didn't see being with me that way. Doing my best to just forget him and move forward. I will never get into another situation like this again. No friends with benefits no not exclusive relationships. Lesson learned!!!

[whatsername]

Why don't you just not text him? Guys don't overreact about stupid shit like girls.

[Asker]

Lol why keep a friends with benefits anywayyyy u have a girl now lol and i have seen guys go crazy over small stufff lmaooo

[whatsername]

I have a bunch of numbers in my phone of people I can't stand specifically because I don't feel like deleting them. Why do you even care? If you are so worried about his relationship than just stay out of it. And even if you aren't worried still don't be a bitch and just stay out of it

[Asker]

Ok do u know why i was being a bitch to him any way

[Asker]

He took my virginity and never texted me back and we had unprotected sex and he almost got me pregnant and he thought it was my fault he drooped me so fast it wasn't even funny i was not a whore guys do that hoes. i was treated like trash when i wasnt. im a good person but I don't know why he did this too me and the next day we was talking he gott back with his ex or gf I don't know

[whatsername]

But you see it is your fault. If you have sex it is both of your guys' faults. If you don't want to get pregnant then don't have unprotected sex or just don't have any at all. Its really not that hard to just wait. Maybe virgins shouldn't have fwb. You didn't have to be his fwb, that was your choice. No one forced you into doing anything unless he raped you. You said friends with benefits which means you were not a thing at all, he has no reason to consent you when he gets into a relationship and you shouldn't care because sex between friends with benefits is literally there just so you can have sex without a commitment.

[Asker]

Seriously bitch stfu. i went through a lot and ur telling me this shit foh. he called it that after we had sex i thought we had more lol

[rjroy3]

Because she's probably a decent human being the doesn't deserve to be ignored just because he has a gf now. If he doesn't hangout with this girl alone or talk with her much, then you have nothing to worry about. I have an old friends with benefits (who was just a friend first) in my phone still and I'm I'm a happy relationship. I'm not going to ignore her if she wants to talk.
I'm also not gonna put myself in a position to cheat, so I don't spend time a one with her

[rjroy3]

Alone with her*

[Asker]

In my situation... But we wasn't really friends tho it was more then that. and we werent friends with benefits either we only hooked up once. so im in a different situation

[rjroy3]

Sounds like you think it was more than it was then. Just a hookup. He has no reason to block you, unless you gave him one.

[Asker]

Ok if i was in a relationship i wouldn't block my friends with benefits i still care about them even if we werent really friends u get me. this guy dissed me soo bad i told him fuck u and ur girl but he didn't really stand up for his girl and he didn't block my number

[rjroy3]

Not everyones response to an argument is to block there number. I've been pissed off by numerous people and never blocked one. Sometimes I'll delete a number, but that's only when they are a negative in my life and it's time to move on

[Therealist]

Because she still a person and two I respects girls I wouldn't ignore her even though I. Have a GF and i would set limits for her becuz of course you would have to be that honest guy and these days some girls tend to drag a guys name down to the dirt if he is accused of cheating.

[meatballs21]

You asked him to block you and then texted to make sure? Surely the problem is resolved by just not texting him?

[Asker]

But we were friends with benefits lol i would text him to do stufd ifhe wasn't with someone. and if a guy doesn't want to get introuble with his gf wouldn't he block her number if she tried to call to hookup lol

[meatballs21]

You need a better system! Like a code word or something to start the conversation, and if they respond correctly you know it's safe to talk about friends with benefits stuff :)

[Modernhippy]

never burn a bridge. if u know anything about buisness, assets, ect...

[decemberxblue]

Not sure, but that number shouldn't be in his phonebook, that's for damn sure.

[Asker]

Well it is lol. I don't know why he still has my name or number cuz if my name was deleted that means he knows my number by heart. I don't know whats the deal with this guy he has told me he's with someone now but he still has my numbr in his phone

[Imtheone88]

So I can benefit from her.

[Asker]

What does that mean lol

[QueenofSilentFoxes]

Means so he can still have sex, and do sexual things with her.

[Imtheone88]

Thank you queen.
Yea that's what it means. So I can still have sex with her.

[Anonymous]

No. they are still friends after all

[Asker]

We aren't really friends tho

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe he still wants the benefits lol

[Asker]

He keeps saying he's with someone else whichh i think isn't serious. maybe he's still interested in me and doesn't want to block me

[pavlove]

I forgot? (totally serious)

[Asker]

Noooo lol

[pavlove]

lol i do forget. also if i'm texting them on the side it's too complicated to block on block off.

TIP: if you have Verizon you have to block through verizon AND through imessage on your iphone itself... learned that shit the hard way.

[Asker]

Ok so if u had a gf and u still wanted ur friends with benefits on the downlow for later u wouldn't block her number but what if she tests u when ur with ur gf

[pavlove]

a lot of girls won't force you to let them see your phone and since i don't have any interest in being able to see their phone and who they are texting then it works out.

[pavlove]

honestly i think checking phones is a mistake because you can't trust and believe when you just know from proof (or clever deleting) if you don't have trust then you should just break up or work on trusting because like having confidence, it's just something you believe in without evidence that yeah this person is faithful.

[Anonymous]

Probably because they are still friends.

[Asker]

We were never friends lol he just called it that.

[Opinion Owner]

Well then idk. There's no reason to purposely block the number anyway. If the relationship ends then he still has that number he can use

[Anonymous]

No. never. why should i?

[Asker]

A guy is doing this to me. now

[Opinion Owner]

so how do you know that he didn't block your number? did he text you?

[Asker]

No i texted him. i told him to block my number and why hasn't he and he said stop texting me im with someone now. i was just trying to see but i guess he's trying to keep my number unblocked to contact me when he's not with his gf now

[Opinion Owner]

May be you can say this. but its not certain. Its a vague idea. You can give weight but not conclude. In my opinion. Rest is yours.

[Opinion Owner]

by the way i have to ask a few question (s) about FWB. Is it possible for you to answer?

[Asker]

Sure

[Opinion Owner]

how much is easy to go with someone on friends with benefits commitment? Have you done that?

[Asker]

I dont get what ur saying lol

[Asker]

I have been in this situation.

[Opinion Owner]

what does that means FWB? In my opinion its all about sex stuff without any comittment. what do you think?

[Asker]

Yea i agree with you.

[Opinion Owner]

then why didn't you get my question? i was asking is that very easy to share body you don;t know someone?

[Asker]

Sorry i didn't understand how u wrote it but a friends with benefits relationship isn't easy tho u get feelings. but its funny i didn't get feelings for the guy i was friends with benefits but i think he did lol. cuz he completely treated like trash and got back with his ex. so fasttt

[Opinion Owner]

Okay! What I am asking how you start this friends with benefits thing? I mean how you find someone? Can I chat with you somewhere?

[Asker]

I just talk to people that i used to go to school with or talked with on a dating website maybe a friend of a friend. u just say u just want friends with benefits relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

u mean directly? that i want to be friends with benefits :? In you case who said that? you or that boy?

[Asker]

Yes directly lol the guy mostly says it first cuz they dont want anything serious but sometimes the girl could say this too

[Opinion Owner]

lolz. this is not the answer of my question exactly. in your case who said that?

[Asker]

I see it everywhere online and in my own experience.

[Opinion Owner]

Now i didn't get you this time :D

[Asker]

U just have to be in this situation to get it lol

[Opinion Owner]

how can i? thats y i am asking from you. but it seems you don't want to answer/help me?

[Asker]

Talk to people, talk to friends ur sexually into, join a dating app and hookup with people in ur area on badoo app or etc.