None taken I dont get offended by strangers also :) lol I know an I have approached guys an I have not said its their job to do the approaching. I've only asked what could prevent a guy from doing it. I am not scared.
Well, you're a lot tougher than me. ;-) If you're not scared, why do you assume they are? More than likely they're not be approaching you for the same reason you're not approaching them.
It is definitely one of the factors. Approaching is a tough feat. You put yourself on the line, and if you're rejected your self-esteem can take a hit. That hurts. So, normally the guy has to be 101% sure it's in the bag. Do you give them hints that they got the green light? If so, how?
I can tell you first hand, that won't get a guy to budge! They'll only wonder "Why'd she look at me? Does she like me? Did I have something on my face? Did I catch her staring in space?" Even if a girl smiles, she could be nice like the senior speedwalker who smiled earlier that morning!
Where are you trying to meet guys? Work, school, public?
Dont remember saying all guys look cus they want me. Was asking guys what would prevent them approaching girls they are into and checking out but thanks for attempting to answer
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Only the fear of her refusal, stops a guy from approaching a girl
It all comes down to just confidence problems for me personally
For the same reason I don't yell at my Mom.
No offense, but you have two legs and a mouth like those guys do. Why are you so scared to go talk to a guy?
None taken I dont get offended by strangers also :) lol I know an I have approached guys an I have not said its their job to do the approaching. I've only asked what could prevent a guy from doing it. I am not scared.
Well, you're a lot tougher than me. ;-) If you're not scared, why do you assume they are? More than likely they're not be approaching you for the same reason you're not approaching them.
Not assuming just wondering if its a possibility
Understandable.
It is definitely one of the factors. Approaching is a tough feat. You put yourself on the line, and if you're rejected your self-esteem can take a hit. That hurts. So, normally the guy has to be 101% sure it's in the bag. Do you give them hints that they got the green light? If so, how?
Im shy so I am not very approachable I think. i dont give hints I just stare
I can tell you first hand, that won't get a guy to budge! They'll only wonder "Why'd she look at me? Does she like me? Did I have something on my face? Did I catch her staring in space?" Even if a girl smiles, she could be nice like the senior speedwalker who smiled earlier that morning!
Where are you trying to meet guys? Work, school, public?
Public generally
It is not always they are scared, perhaps they aren't interested? I look at girls all the time doesn't mean I want every single one.
Dont remember saying all guys look cus they want me. Was asking guys what would prevent them approaching girls they are into and checking out but thanks for attempting to answer
I prefer approaching when she is alone
Fear of rejection
I am not scared.
Lol?