He's just shy, and maybe overwhelmed by you. If you like him, just grab him by the hand and say "Now look me in the eyes, and this will get much better".
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Hmm sometimes he really does act like he is overwhelmed by me and I'm not sure if it is a good thing or bad thing.
Be forward with him, say you're interested in knowing where else this relationship could lead, a dinner date ( haha forced to make eye contact). He'll get the picture, he might just be anxious the feeling isn't reciprocal. Its 100% cool when a woman can make the first move, when the guys unsure, go for the kiss! Haha goodluck!
I have this issue because we both go to the same church and everyone would know for sure if he acted out of the norm to me. We unspokenly agreed too keep it on the DL.
Well. .. one girl seems to take a claim over him and asks a lot of questions.. .. maybe he doesn't want anyone to pry. He has also told many people in the past few years that he doesn't want a relationship or isn't ready. It's been over 4-5 years since he's been in one! Maybe he doesn't want to be in the spotlight. We hang out at the ssme place and have been regulars for years... hmmmmm.
So why not make any effort in actually wanting to spend time with me? We have great convos, flirty and daring texts. I have asked him before, ages ago, and yet still nothing. Why?
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He is afraid, you can read his eyes, that is why he avoid eye contact.
And reading them by assuming what exactly?
Cause if he looks at you too much he might get a visible erection in his pants.
Does that honestly happen to guys?
I have to admit that this happened once to me with an ex when I first saw her in real life.
I mean, I've heard men joke about it but i never knew if it was true! He jumps if i so much as touch his hand!
Simple.. He really likes you... Considering he looks at others straight in the eyes and not you.
You're positive that it isn't a bad thing?
Yes, yes I am.
He's just shy, and maybe overwhelmed by you.
If you like him, just grab him by the hand and say "Now look me in the eyes, and this will get much better".
Hmm sometimes he really does act like he is overwhelmed by me and I'm not sure if it is a good thing or bad thing.
same thing happend to me and I asked one of my male friends and he said he when he thinks someone is pretty he avoids looking at her.
Lol... I'll never understand why they don't! !
I had that too...
Its only with girls that I like...
Must be thinking
"Oh my, my eyes will give me away..."
(Which is true in a way)
I've heard that a lot... the whole "my eyes might give me away." I'm so surprised as i really do like him... so it's bizarre that he is this awkward!
He's nervous around you or may have social anxiety or aspergers
He might be autistic. I know it because I am autistic myself. It is very recognizable.
Interesting. I don't think so but i don't know so for sure.
There are autistic people of whom you wouldn't expect to be autistic. It will be hard to find out.
He is coy. Get to know him better and he will open up
I know him very well... just for some reason, he struggles to look at me.
What about knowing him more romantically i mean
And how do you suggest i go about that when he is THIS shy?
Be forward with him, say you're interested in knowing where else this relationship could lead, a dinner date ( haha forced to make eye contact). He'll get the picture, he might just be anxious the feeling isn't reciprocal.
Its 100% cool when a woman can make the first move, when the guys unsure, go for the kiss! Haha goodluck!
Maybe he just shy he really is into you and he really like you just give him time
It's been a while... ugh, this is torture!!
This is me, i am very shy around girls I like and if they start talking to me I can't look them in th eeyes
So anyone else, you aren't remotely bothered or nervous?
nope not really as long as i know them at least slightly
He is shy, likes you, thinks your attractive, and loves talking to you.
As a guy, I used to do this in my early teens.
I only did this to girls I liked.
Maybe he likes you.
go find a stud to screw. you'll get nothing from this shy wimp
You must be uglier than a transvestite camel after a car accident
He's shy, are you interested in him?
Very much so. It's difficult as we flirt over text yet in person it's like an entirely different person. I put updates above. Any thoughts?
Yeah, he's self conscious of what others might say.
Why though? Does that mean i embarass him? :(
Something is telling me he's very shy. About to the point of, "why is he talking with her?" He doesn't want people to know he's interested in you.
But why though? ?
I have this same issue, he doesn't want people to know or wants the flirtationship on the DL
But why though?
He doesn't want his friends to know? Or someone else?
I have this issue because we both go to the same church and everyone would know for sure if he acted out of the norm to me. We unspokenly agreed too keep it on the DL.
Well. .. one girl seems to take a claim over him and asks a lot of questions.. .. maybe he doesn't want anyone to pry. He has also told many people in the past few years that he doesn't want a relationship or isn't ready. It's been over 4-5 years since he's been in one! Maybe he doesn't want to be in the spotlight. We hang out at the ssme place and have been regulars for years... hmmmmm.
@Nxcrunr got it. Thank you nxcrunr
No problem
He's either shy or he may just have Asperger's.
He's too shy... and probably in love...
So why not make any effort in actually wanting to spend time with me? We have great convos, flirty and daring texts. I have asked him before, ages ago, and yet still nothing. Why?
I guess he is scared of you... he's probably very timid guy.
He's shy and probably likes you
shy i guess?