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do you have a boyfriend? maybe he doesn't miss u he just talks about u because he is mad about something and wants to know what your mutual friends says.
No I am single.
well then he may no be jealous so maybe he is just mad at you.
I asked him. He is not mad at me for anything. He has said I am not the reason for anything.
yes it happened to me too but i think he was mad because he never talked to me when he said he will explain me something for our math test.
and i really think he was mad because i was teasing him with a girl before that.
have u talked to any of his other close friends? It could help
No I have not : We have limited mutual friends and they are not that close to him
How about getting some common ground, a restaurant you both like a park or anywhere that does not seem like anyone's turf and let him know you want to talk and try to hear his side and if he's still hard to get through tell him what his silence does to you, not in a blaming kind of way but in an even understanding and honest way. Try that and see how it goes. You might b surprised at what happens. Ps. Let him know that you won't judge him by his answers
I have tried to talk to him politely. In fact, considering that he ignores me in college, I texted him and he even started replyig but then suddenly ignored me. He is always around his friends so I can't just walk up to him. He even ignores my texrs. So it doesn't work.
walk up to him and pull him out! You'd not lose anything but just your pride. If the relationship means so much to you, I believe you gotta b willing to pay the price to keep it
Hmm okay. I will muster up some courage to talk to him again.
All the best now! The ball is in your court
No such thing as "no reason".
What had been said *before* he stopped talking to you?
There IS a reason. But he has said that I am not aware of the reason. Basically it has to do something with him and not me. He would not tell the reason either.
Oh, stock "it's not you it's me". Drop him.
You prolly friendzoned him. He's trying to move on. Give him a break!
-_- He never asked me out so how the hell did I friendzone him? I never even talked to other guys as much.
Maybe he got jealous? You went on a date with some guy or flirted and he saw it?
I never went on a date with another guy or flirted with someone else. :(
Perhaps he liked you so much it hurted him a lot when you shut him down.
But I am not the one who has shut him down. He is the one who has done it for no reason.
Did he ever ask you out?
No. : It was all of a sudden. I tried asking him but he said that he will never tell me the reason. O_o I don't get why he's being so stubborn.
He's playing games I used to do that with some girls back in the day until it happened to me. Reason I did it was so that i could feel important and wanted because it felt good but
one day a girl did the same with me. so I stopped. Best thing i recommend is stop talking to him and move on. Because you dont got time for games.
He said that he doesn't want relationships because it always ends on bad note. So I don't think he would play games especially when he still asked about me to my friend.
Ohh I see perhaps he saw a photo of you with another guy or something of that nature. There's a lot details that are missing
No I don't post such pictures because no other guy was a close friend of mine. It was sudden. He has said that he will not tell me the reason ever. :|
ever? ever is a long time... Well there's not really anything you can do.
Well I guess its time move on
I am trying to move on but it sucks to lose a guy like him.
I know, but this guy has been avoiding you for quite some time and its your choice to keep taking it. You should talk to more men and keep your chin up this guy wants to be alone led him you don't have to.
I do talk to a lot of other guys, but it just hurts to think that I have lost such a great friend. He is not even the kind of person who hurts people intentionally.
Your friend sound just like me I did that with my friend I don't talk to her anymore. I say its better to move on.
Why did you do that?
i think he does'nt like you or he is in another thing please don't mind but i think its true but you can do a thing avoid him to and make him jealous by other boys i am sure this gonna work
Why should I try to make him jealous? It's not like I want to become his gf. And we were just friends. We were not supposed to have a relationship anyway. But we were good friends.
oh then you should also stay away from him and don't give him much attention a day or later he will himself talk to you really
Yeah, I am doing so. I am just confused why he suddenly stopped talking to me.
Yea, if you try to make him jealous, it will just reinforce his believe that he is making the right decision in staying away from you to avoid being hurt.
I never tried to make him jealous :|
You tried talking to him but he avoids you? Not sure what you mean.
What's complicated in it?
I mean have you actually tried cornering him and asking what's wrong?
I mean what constitutes "avoiding"?
Yes, I have tried it. He doesn't want to talk to me. He avoids my texts as well. He avoids any topic that includes me.
So he's giving you the cold shoulder?
Yep. And yet talked about me to my friend to ask what I am up to.
I think he likes u but he doesn't want to ruin ur friendship so he hides. he's sad coz he doesn't want to hurt u and he's trying to forget u coz he doesn't want to admit his feelings
He has already ruined the friendship :/ But your response seems to hit the nail.
He likes you , but he is scared he is gonna get hurt or he's trying to figure out if a relationship is what he is really looking for
But I don't get why does he even need to figure out if it's relationshipbhe wants when we both knew that we both HATE relationships.
Sounds like he's in love with you :/
did you mention other guys in front of him recently?
Not really. I mean when I used to talk about my celebrity crushes he put them off or sometimes used to tell me that he can help the poor guy who might crush over me so that the guy doesn't go after me. Like, he basically used to tease me that any guy who likes me is stupid -_-
He reckon he still likes you but for whatever reason thinks he has no chance with you.
*I reckon
It makes sense. He says relationships don't work.
Did u ever avoid him or ignor him before?
Never. He has himself said that I habe done nothing to make him ignore me.
If u friend zoned him and he was crushing on u
I didn't friendzone him because we both didn't want anything more than friendship.
Probably doesn't think he's good enough for you
: I don't know. He never accepts complements though. Though he gives lots of complements.
aha so he never accepts compliments and gives them a lot? Sounds like he's having some serious self-esteem issues. I know, I used to be like that too.
Or maybe he is shy?
Take it from me i think he's going through some issues maybe shyness which is more than what it seems it can ruin people's self confidence and ability to function around people. It's like a disease almost. Ever heard of anxiety disorders, does he show any signs of that?
He is mildly depressed as much as I know. It seems like so.
Maybe he got jealous?
There was nothing to be jealous about. I never did anything to make him jealous.
he probably thinks u rejected him or avoided him
Lol we both were in each others friendzone and I never avoided him because we talked to each other everyday and texted late till 2 or 3 AM.
oh lol
He's into you and trying to get your attention.
I don't think he is trying to get my attention because he has clearly said we can't talk anymore and apologized for it. :|
Not enough info to answer
What else do you want to know?
Nothing, I was just wondering why a question with very little info, is featured
Because I had enough xper points to get it featured. :)
Doesn't mean you should
You can't decide what I should or should not do when no harm is meant.
I just find it dumb
Less dumb than many other questions that come on GAG :)
yet you thought to make this featured
Forget it, I'm done. You're officially boring me now
Okay, Mr. Unwanted Advisor :)
Is it shyness?
No. He is not shy. And we have been friends for long enough to not have any shyness between us.