Why won't he give me his number?

[Anonymous]

I heard if a guy likes a girl he will give her, his number. This guy shows all the signs that he may like me, he showed his phone, i showed mine, but still he didn't ask. I dont know if its because there's people around us, but what should i do?

[Joker-Beast]

Because typically, the first thing a person does, if they like someone, is they ask them out for a date first. He didn't ask you out on a date, so why should he give his number out to you. Unless you are old friends, or a friend that lost his number.

I wouldn't give my number to a girl, even though I liked her, unless I am going out on a date with her.

[PhiOmega]

U don't text her then?

A couple girls have my number, i gave them b4 any talks of going out

[Joker-Beast]

Well giving out your number doesn't mean anything. It could just mean you want to be friends. Now this girl wants to know, if he likes her. Well the only way she is going to know, if he likes her, is by asking her out on a date. Now she is reading into much, what everyone is saying, a give guy his number to girls, doesn't always he likes her in that way. People are doing too much generalizing on people's actions, and reading into things to much. I wonder why people are confused these days, They don't go through the proper channels. If you likes someone, just ask them out, stop pussyfooting about with all the other stuff. Seriously people make it to complicated for themselves. This what I am saying.

[Joker-Beast]

PhiOmega, I understand what your saying. I am not saying your wrong. But giving out or not giving numbers really doesn't mean anything. Everyone has a different way of doing things. All I am saying is don't generalize on people's actions. Assuming is the mother of all fuck ups. Sorry the french.

[kristy1776]

I have similar situation. I've been friends with benefits with this guy but when he calls it says unknown, and I can't call him back if I miss a call from him. He uses WiFi for phone service or some app. Anyway everyone els can call or text him but me I don't understand it. We hang out all the time or at least we use to.

[kristy1776]

Geuss its not supper similar

[Nomad93]

Maybe he is shy or hasn't dated before, I myself wasn't sure if I should ask for the number before or after the date lol If you are inexperienced its an uphill battle especially for guys

[Asker]

yea, someone told me he never dated before..

[Nomad93]

@luckyl7 That's the problem i'm having admitting I like people. Actually asking people out I've only ever done that 2 or 3 times, I have actually been asked out by women more then I have asked them out...

[Asker]

And how did these women ask u? I want to wound natural and did u give the people u liked ur #, add them on fb, followed on Twitter, etc?

[Nomad93]

They invited me to their house for dinner, and to the bar numerous times, this one chick ran into me and just asked hey i'm hungry want to go grab some food and I went with her. I used to be really good at getting numbers and giving them out I can't remember how I did so well I have like 15 contacts on my phone that's it! I had many girls add me on Facebook but I was a dumb guy and didn't realize they liked me at the time. I added a couple of them but no never used Twitter or snapchat with them yet

[lisafaceire88]

I'm curious have you asked for his number , or are you stabbing at black spots and wondering why he hasn't asked for yours? If you've not asked for his, how about you ask for it. If he says no , then he doesn't wish to have any kind of conversation with you.

[mobilefrequenter]

If you want his number, you should just ask for his number. Can be a bit nerve-wracking to be the one to ask, but my guess is that he'll probably give you his number.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

move on. if a guy doesn't want to give you his number he isn't shy, scared, intimidated or any other excuse people give to avoid the fact that he doesn't like you.

[MoshingExec]

Uhhhh, he showed his phone? What does that mean? Is that a euphemism for you both showing your privates?

[MarkyyG123]

Haha
https://m.memegen.com/cqalc8.jpg

[Anonymous]

Its always difficult to try something new. I was nervous the first time that I asked for a girls number. Guys like girls that ask for their number. It is very uncommon for a girl to ask a guy for their number. It will make you stand out in his eyes. Go for it!

[Anonymous]

Its not always true that he will give you his number. Contrary to the popular belief, guys also can be shy and nervous talking to people they like and can find it difficult to make the first move. If you really thinks he likes you ask for his number or give him yours

[sp33d]

1. Slow in the head, otherwise OK.
2. Does not want you to call him.
3. Might be a bit timid about it - in some sense it's a positive sign for you, since that would tell You that he is actually interested and you make him nervous.
4. No reason, utterly random.

Here's what you should do:
Talk to him, instead of biting your nails off and worrying about possible scenarios.

[Ask-Me]

Ask him what network he is on and say does your number start 0777? That might prompt him to say what his number is, you can then say I must note that down, if he's interested you can then give him your number, fairly low risk way to do it.

[jstenstr1]

To complicated. No risk, no reward, ask him yourself. Or trick him into taking a picture on his phone and ask him to text it to you. Boom

[bryon]

Offer to give him your number. That may just the nudge he needs to feel confident that you won't shoot him down by saying no to him asking for yours or offering you his. It's worth thinking about

[Irongrizley]

Just ask him for his # key it in & call him from urs to give it to him than c if he uses it. If he don't want to give it up there's probably some1 in his life already that he don't want & obviously can't trust with his privacy

[Anonymous]

Easy, just ask him his. He may not know if you feel the same way. It doesn't hurt and if he says no then just be like 'oh okay that's fine aha'. He may not want to rush into anything or may again just not know wether the feelings are mutual.

[iAmNotSkilled1]

Cuz of the people around u or u convinced yourself with facts that you dont know just like how my crusher's friends did. They kept on telling her that i like her and now she is trying to approach me and i keep on ignoring her...

[MJas16]

He probably didn't get the hint or is that type of guy who isn't really on his phone so it wouldn't really matter to him

[badger25]

@jstenstr1 hit it on the nose we really suck at taking hints. ask him for his or just give him yours

[Asker]

what should i do if he rejects?

[badger25]

most guys won't reject your number, also ask him for his right away. but if he does reject you find a new guy

[Asker]

but should i ask him while walking out of class? When is the right time to ask?

[badger25]

yeah walking out of class is good because if it doesn't go your way at least you don't need to spend the next hour in the same room with him

[GinaTina]

What if he really doesn't like you, but you think he does, and because of that he won't give you his number... he's just not that into you...
Maybe.

[CreepyOldMan]

He probably forgot to ask.

He may not be brightest frog in the bag, so you'll just have to punch it in, or speak it in if you do BlueTooth.

[PhiOmega]

Maybe he doesn't want to come off so direct, maybe he's shy, maybe he doesn't like giving his number out

[Anonymous]

He's probably nervous but dont be afraid to ask him for his

[Words_and_Wisdom]

A better question is why didn't you ask for his number?

[Dargil]

because he does not want you to call him.

[jstenstr1]

Men are morons and dont take hints well, ask him

[MichelleUFO]

all men - thief

[Anpu23]

ask him his

[VeryTerry3]

Ask him for his