My boyfriend just slapped me should I call the police on him? (Page 2)
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Yeah because words are just words even if they're hurtful.
So... He should go to jail. (Where he belongs) because slapping people is not okay
Him slapping you was wrong but what you said was wrong too, I wouldn't file a police report if I were you because it wouldn't help, I would just talk to him about what happened and warn him that if he slaps you again you will call the police on him.
I don't think it's worth calling the police on someone who slapped you. Now if he was physically beating you down to the ground that is a completely different story.
Break it off regardless, no real man puts his hands on a woman
Ehh.. If a woman has the nerve to hit me with a closed fist, all gender bets are off, Ill lay her ass flat. If its just a slap though, I probably deserved it. Its a level playing field once a fist come in.
Im talking in this perspective not in general this was completely unwarranted and disrespectful
Should have specified that
@newtimesroman I did not hit him first, and never would have.
If this had happened just now, it might be in your interest to do so.
But, since (from the sound of it, it seems that) time has passed, I don't think it's in your interest to do so.
Just leave him. Reverse the roles, do you think he would call the police on you if you slapped him? Cut him out off your life.
Nah, you were asking for it.
You said yourself you don't want the cops on him, so don't call em, break up and let that be the end of it.
she was asking for it? i hope you did not mean that statement!
@petite_salope I did, and she was. He deserved a smack as well, but she got slapped, not him. Which is why I only mentioned her.
Anyone that gets right in someone's face and cusses them out should expect some physical retaliation.
So I really don't understand why she was so shocked.
he did not deserve a slap either and if as an adult, you can't handle some ass chewing without swinging a hand around, you should not be in a relationship. he yelled at her too! it was an argument . HE took it to another level. i have had MY husband get in my face and cuss me for almost an HOUR, never hit him, ever. thus another reason i LEFT. hitting is stupid and immature.
@petite_salope I'm not saying it was the right thing to do. But when you get in someone's face like that, don't act like a shocked victim when they swing at you.
I am aware he played a roll in escalating it, which is why I said he deserved a slap too.
Is it immature? Yup. Should you do it even if someone is in your face? Nope.
But if you're the one yappin, just don't be surprised if you get hit.
i see your point of view.
No, nobody deserves to get hit for words and types like you and the asker's bf who only need bad words to hit made me want to continue going single.
@petite_salope I didn't expect this little "argument" to end so peacefully lol.
Have a good night
@Vesuvius87 Types like me huh? So you just assume I would have done the same? Alrighty then.
I clearly stated you shouldn't do it. Just because I say he/she "deserved" it, doesn't mean I'm condoning it.
But go ahead and stay single due to your generalizations...
Only the guy wouldn't be lucky with me because I would immediately press charges. I've already had to deal with my father hitting my mother for only bad words... words is all it took him to already hit.
I'd get myself dirty with mud than let a bf get away with getting physical with me and not pressing charges. People that turn verbal arguments into physical altercations deserved to be in jail. If a bf got in my screamed, I wouldn't slap him. I would just leave. Getting in someone's face and saying a choice of words isn't an excuse to slap someone.
I'd rather...
@Vesuvius87 It is an excuse to do it, but it's just not right.
Me calling a guy a fuck face right to his face is a perfect excuse to punch me. But whether or not I actually get punched depends on who I'm saying it to.
All I'm saying is, don't be surprised if you get hit when blowing up in someone's face...
so that should be an excuse all the time if there was yet another argument like that again?
@Vesuvius87 Of course.
It's just unfortunate she's with a guy that would actually do it.
There's plenty of things in life that happen that could be used as an excuse to hit someone. The only thing that determines if it was a good excuse, is whether or not you actually do it.
for me the only good reason would be if it was a life-death situation or someone was literally raping my kid brother. I still think she needs to break up from that so called ''bf''. If he can hit over words then what is he not gonna do if the fight was over other serious issues?
@Vesuvius87 Exactly, whether or not it's worth trading blows depends on the individual.
And I agree, she needs to ditch this dude.
sorry man, i was heading to take my baby sister to the mall.. haha! and then i got distracted by my friends with benefits, i'll try to up my game when my head is actually focused... LOL. next time man... we can have a proper argument... deal?
There were emotions (such as anger, rage...) involved in the "fight"/argument.
People do and say stupid things when they let their emotions take control; you both are guilty.
I think that was wrong of him. I'd maybe understood if you hit him hurt and wouldn't stop. But, to hit you over that is stupid. I'd call the police and break up with him.
you are an idiot
Break up with him? Most likely. Call the police? Not unless you fear for your life or serious bodily harm.
You are being silly.. Your vindictive temper has to stop. IF you said that to me, i'll snap out of the blue and slap u too... :P
Annnd scene! Lol this seriously sounds like something from a book. But yeah, you probably should've called them when it happened.
she is giukty as he is not only him
guilty*
Fuck yeah! If a guy hits a girl he's a bitch
I will break up with him, but do you really think with what I said to him before, that I should call them?
shut up white knight
Just break up with him. It was wrong for him to hit you, but the cops won't really do anything.
what about her
was she in the wring?
break up just over a slap when they can talk about it
if he is not abusive
I don't think you should. If you do, then you can never slap a guy and not expect to go to jail. If you don't expect to, then you are sexist.
I have never hit anyone in my life. And I don't plan to ever hit anyone unless my life is in danger or someone is beating me up, no matter if the person is a man or woman.
good job then. Unless they hit you first you have no right to hit them, even if they say something really pervy.
Hun since you're young I hope your not taking that as girls won't do anything after you say something pervy to say things like that whenever you feel. it's really disrespectful to do things like that to girls so just don't do it. And also, some girls aren't as kind as us just saying.
Oh no I don't say pervy stuff to girls and I don't like guys that do, but when a girl slaps a guy for saying it, its physical assault on the guy and the girl should be able to be arrested but they aren't
Alright that's good! Just make sure not to do that in the future lol. And yeah, you're right girls shouldn't hit guys either. But I don't think they should be arrested for it. Probally, for the same reason you don't think the guy that hit the girl should be arrested...
If someone touch me I slap them or it alway better to run a away!
Think of it this way, what if the gender's were completely reversed would you call the police on her if she slapped you?
Gender roles are stupid. Abuse is abuse.
Yeah but the thing if if a guy dare called the police saying he got slapped he wouldn't be taken seriously that's the point lmao.
@JustANormalTeenGuy i could high five you
@Opinion Owner... i have known a few girls that got locked up on domestic abuse charges. the police take ALL calls seriously.
*High Fives*
Yes, call the police, he's dangerous, next time he might kill someone
i would just break up with him not press charges
break up over a slap
he is not abusive
they can talk
Nope whatever happen between you too should stay between you too just break up with the guy