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Guys, he seems nervous around me; is he shy? Is he flirting? Or am I clueless? (Page 2)
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Shy and likes you, I'd know because I do the same thing
Do what exactly? Touch girls on shoulder/arm and back? Stare from distance? All of it?
Almost reminds me of myself
Lol. He's older than you if the age on this is correct.
Does that matter?
I guess not. Would think a guy over 30 wouldn't be near that nervous. I'm only human. We are all.
He suffers from anxiety, it's nothing personal
He's scared of a tiny woman under 100 lbs? Like even if I wanted to hit him, I doubt I'd do the slightest damage?
Nothing to do with that, he likes you but isn't sure how to let you know
A simple you are beautiful would do the trick.
And how's he supposed to know that? Do you show any signs you're interested?
Yes.
What do you do, and I'll tell you if I'd see it.
Hmmm. Let him catch me starring. Watch him. Stay near him. Blush, giggle. Play with my hair. Smile. Let his friends catch me looking for where he is. Compliment his outfit and how it goes with his skin tone. Tell him he's sweet. Etc...
Those aren't very good signs. They seem friendly to me.
Really? Wow! I actually don't even talk to guys I have no interest in beyond a polite hi. Much less anything else.
Your problem is you already know how YOU think. He can't read minds. He doesn't know you do that.
He's seen me interact with others but what is your suggestion? And please don't say utter my dying love or something crazy.
Well what works for me is when girls get very touchy and flirty. Ask him if he wants to do something
Hmmm. Explain your definition of touchy flirty.
Hugs, go up to him and rub his back a little.
When you want him grab his hand
Grab his hand? Shouldn't you start with an arm first? I don't wanna freak him out.
I'm just saying things girls have done to me that led to me asking them out. If he's introverted like me you have to make it obvious.
Right and I appreciate it. I was merely asking if I shouldn't start somewhere else first. I mean going from a handshake to grabing his hand might be a little much at first right? I don't wanna give him a heart attack. So where should I start?
I don't think he will freak out like you think. Every girl I've been with has been really flirty and obvious. Which helps me know they're interested and I ask them out.
I'd say he's shy and may have a crush on you
Any particular reason you think that? What evidence from above makes you think that? Just so I can get a feel. I'm a little bad with men and don't have good luck and all.
You mentioned that
>You catch him looking at you
>He stumbles his words/talks too fast
>You locked eyes for 10 secs of silence
Sounds to me like he has an interest in you and he gets nervous when the two of you speak.
Ok thanks.
serial killer that keeps heads in his basement stay away.
Nope. I check stuff like that out before I even agree to meet someone.
you check their basement... ?
Yep. I check with family members and close friends and make sure they aren't any luntic, psychopath issues.
wow cool. little mrs detective knows her shit.