@Applefan1 Well, that's a great quality because there's nothing worse than having a partner who can't comfort you to stop your tears or simply not be the reason for them in the first place...
Yeah I once held a girl when she was upset and just as I thought she was done I let my grip loose a little and I felt her pull me into her more and thought ok she needs to be held longer so I tightened my grip again and gave her longer in my arms until she was done.
Yeah, that is why I did it. I thought she needed it so I will help her out and give her a bit longer and let her pull away when she is done and that was what I did.
Yeah thank you. Actually cats can really be comforting things. It has been proven that cats are good for human health. They reduce stress and calm people down. Contact with cats I think has been said to realise something into the human body that is good but I am not sure what it was now.
That is the sort of thing I would do. I have found that girls don't always want their problems solved for them that sometimes they just want someone to hold them and reassure them that everything will be ok.
yeah i feel like just being held and told it's gonna b alright would help me more in that moment than trying to talk it out, which would make me more upset. @applefan1
Yes, I think for many girls if they want to talk they will talk later that you should just hold them and let them cry and calm themselves down a little first.
I'd probably not care unless I knew her emotionally then I'd talk to her in that nurturing voice and ask what was wrong and try to understand the situation. If it was something was actually bad that happened to her then I'd comfort her.
Very annoyed. I hate it when people cry it makes me uncomfortable.
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When I cry girls dont come help me, or comfort me so I am not going to go out of my way to comfort them. I feel nothing when I see a woman crying, everyone cries, its normal, she will get over it.
Horrible. It doesn't matter if it's my fault or not. I hate seeing a woman crying. Try listening to Joshua Kadison's "When a Woman Cries". That's good listenin'.
It is human instinct to want to rush to and protect the higher pitched cry of women and children. It sets off a safety trigger in our brains. Think of it as a survival mechanism.
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Some guys care, some don't. My ex said he can't deal with crying and doesn't know how to handle it.
Some guys are like that, they don't know how to handle a crying girl. I personally have been told I know very well how to make a girl feel better. :)
@Applefan1 Well, that's a great quality because there's nothing worse than having a partner who can't comfort you to stop your tears or simply not be the reason for them in the first place...
Yeah I once held a girl when she was upset and just as I thought she was done I let my grip loose a little and I felt her pull me into her more and thought ok she needs to be held longer so I tightened my grip again and gave her longer in my arms until she was done.
@Applefan1 Yea, I know that feeling just needing the person to embrace a little longer. It makes such a difference.
Yeah, that is why I did it. I thought she needed it so I will help her out and give her a bit longer and let her pull away when she is done and that was what I did.
@Applefan1 That's kind - it's feelings like that that make me wish I had a kitten in my life. I'll never let go!
Yeah thank you. Actually cats can really be comforting things. It has been proven that cats are good for human health. They reduce stress and calm people down. Contact with cats I think has been said to realise something into the human body that is good but I am not sure what it was now.
@Applefan1 Serotonin and dopamine :3
id hope he'd just wanna hug me or get me a tissue lol. sometimes when I'm crying i just can't speak.
That is the sort of thing I would do. I have found that girls don't always want their problems solved for them that sometimes they just want someone to hold them and reassure them that everything will be ok.
yeah i feel like just being held and told it's gonna b alright would help me more in that moment than trying to talk it out, which would make me more upset. @applefan1
Yes, I think for many girls if they want to talk they will talk later that you should just hold them and let them cry and calm themselves down a little first.
Lol😄
Would hug
Would get her a tissue
Would cuddle
awww!! 😆
*hugs back*
*grabs tissue*
*sobs into shoulder*
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I'd probably not care unless I knew her emotionally then I'd talk to her in that nurturing voice and ask what was wrong and try to understand the situation. If it was something was actually bad that happened to her then I'd comfort her.
Very annoyed.
I hate it when people cry it makes me uncomfortable.
When I cry girls dont come help me, or comfort me so I am not going to go out of my way to comfort them. I feel nothing when I see a woman crying, everyone cries, its normal, she will get over it.
I'm a pitiful sight when I cry so I try not to do it in front of people. But I'd hope that he'd at least ask if I was ok.
Horrible. It doesn't matter if it's my fault or not. I hate seeing a woman crying. Try listening to Joshua Kadison's "When a Woman Cries". That's good listenin'.
It is human instinct to want to rush to and protect the higher pitched cry of women and children. It sets off a safety trigger in our brains. Think of it as a survival mechanism.
Lol they panic, always. It's so fun!! Makes me want 2 put glycerin in my eyes just to see their expressions 😂
😂 do they actually
Yeah they do 😂
Ok hahah thxs for ur answer
I'm not sure about guys but As a girl, I would want to help her.
This is not about gender. When i see one people crying i feel weird. I trying to help them sometimes.
I'd hope they'd just keep walking and pretend like they didn't see anything.
I do my best to avoid her and the entire situation and leave the area as soon as possible.
I will show her that what she feels now is the worst she'll ever be.
they feel bad.. i think. or sad.. or maybe annoyed sometimes.. not sure..
If she isn't cute, then we treat her like any normal person. If she is cute... Super Sonic Listener Man to the rescue!
Would make me upset, and want to find out the reason why and resolve it. Don't like seeing anyone be upset.
i would feel bad about it and try to convince her not to cry... and will help her in resolving the issue if i can
They feel bad if they did some mistake otherwise they don't know what to think
U mean like to get some attention? ... that would be obvious!