My boyfriend kissed a guy twice when he was drunk, does that mean he's actually gay?

[Anonymous]

So, he admitted that when he's drunk he's really more social and outgoing - which is totally normal, but he said that once during a party, he was dared to kiss a guy and did. But that later that night, the guy approached him and he kissed him again. So is he actually gay? He said he wasn't gay but that he had a lot to drink, but now I'm not so sure. So he is actually gay and doesn't know it/want to acknowledge it?

What should I think? Is he really gay or is it normal behaviour when drunk? My friends say that it's not normal and that I'm dating a closet gay guy. Help what should i do?

Gay

Straight

[oddwaffle]

Not really... People do crazy things when they are drunk. My great grand uncle once got drunk enough and engaged in mortal combat with a roasted suckling pig. He lost and ended up in a ditch.

It doesn't mean he liked engaging in mortal combat with roasted pigs or pretty much anything or was so bad a fighting that he lost to an unanimated pig.

[Anonymous]

He might just be nonhomophobic. I've been randomly kissed on the mouth by a gay dude. I was surprised and a little grossed out trying but not trying to be a horrible person about the forwardness.

[Asker]

I get that but if you found yourself alone with him and he wanted to kiss you - asked if it was okay would you? If it was only the dare than i would have let that slide, but the whole thing where he kissed him after the party because "why not" has me concerned. We just started going out, so should i back away now that i know, or it is a cruel thing to do?

[Opinion Owner]

He might be bi.

[Opinion Owner]

maybe if it was Patrick Stewart I would. But you might not get that reference. Let's just go with no I don't think I would do that. A dude mighta stole your dude.

[Asker]

It happened a long time ago though

[moistycakes]

I would just assume he was comfortable with his sexuality. He's not gay or bisexual unless he wants to have sex with a guy.

[Jessie1DLM]

Third option: bi
But he was drunk, so not before he's sober and does such thing again, can you say that he's gay

[evenlift]

He is somewhat sexually attracted to men, definitely.

[NickAB1]

He was drunk, for all we know he thought that the guy was you! And when he kissed the guy for the bet, that's normal, hell I would if you gave me $10. But he was just drunk, don't worry.

[Nuqood]

3 times = gay so he's still straight.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's bi or something.

[apexalpha]

Seems he liked it but for shu he isn't 100% hetro

[Anonymous]

It means your ugly and frigid and you turn men gay

[Asker]

It happened before he met me, so not actually accurate

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say gay, more like bi