My date was 2 hours late. Am I wrong for not wanting anything to do with him now? (Page 2)

Question

So this guy who I know but not too well, asked me out on a date. At first I wasn't sure but eventually thought I'd give him a chance.

We arranged to go out at 6pm, however I rang him at 6 and he told me he was going to be 'a bit late', when I asked how late he replied he would collect me at 7 as he wanted to go to the gym first so we would have longer on our date. I was absolutely fine with this and told him to go to the gym and that I would ring him at 7:15 (which is what he asked me to do). 

I ring him at 7:15 and he doesn't answer, I try again three more times and still no answer. After waiting around until 8 I finally give up and get into pjs because I thought I'd been stood up. He then tries to ring and texts me at 8:15 saying to ring him and that he is on his way. 

I didn't reply as I think that if you respect someone you don't leave them waiting around, you'll be just as eager to see them as they are to see you. Am I wrong for this or did I do the right thing?

Water2008 · Answer

Follow your gut instincts. As long as your not emotional about those instincts. They're usually right

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like a prick. Dont give him another chance, sounds like the type of guy who was either on another date or chatting up women at the gym.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow this guy can be an Internet meme. He is so ridiculous. I think you should give up, absolutely. By the way, could you help me on my question?

Poppykate · Answer

Well... there’s only one reason why a guy blows off a girl to go to the gym... and it’s not to exercise! 😏

COCOCHANEL · Answer

no i've done that many times and it wasn't on purpose.

iFarted · Answer

If it were the first date I would've left after 1 hour. Especially if I don't really know the girl.

Jackblue · Answer

I think he got cold feet.

SunsetRose · Answer

Wow, what a jerk

WhaChaChaKing · Answer

Forget him.

mimieoa · Answer

lol that's funny

Walls_and_Doors · Answer

No, that is normal.

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