There's this really confident and cocky guy I like. I don't like his attitude. I want to know if there's anything I can do to him in order to make him feel small and insecure? Break his ego.
How do you break down a guy's ego?
You little dommie, you.
Your chances of breaking his ego depends on how his ego has been tempered and shaped over time. Think of toxic experiences as an infection, the body combats the infection, and over time develops an immunity by creating anti-bodies.
A smart egoist doesn't fall for it anymore. You won't break this type of guy. He breaks you.
If the guy has a false ego, as in, everyone talked him up and he thinks he's all that and his validation is built of outside opinions, then you have a chance. Pull the usual tricks. Imply his penis is small, or that you prefer other types of men, he's ugly etc. It can shake him mentally. All outward reactions are learned and not what matters. What matters is tapping into that tiny kernel at the center of his brain and smashing it with a hammer.
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You God damn savage. Anywhore, this is what you do. You find out his fears and weeeknesses and exploit them. When he gets cocky use your best sarcasm. "Oh what's that? I'm a bitch? Man, you sure right. I should talk to someone about how I got called a bitch.. Maybe I'll give mother a call. Considering she has so much experience from your father. If only your words could hurt me as much as he beats her.".*smile and walk away*
So you like him but not his attitude? You want to make him small and insecure? And you want to brack down his ego...
I'm sorry but it doesn't sound like you like him, if you like someone you wouldn't want to change them. The way you put this makes it sound like if you were in a relationship you would be abusive.
I will not help you brack someone. I hope you leave this guy alone.
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See, I like a guy and he was kinda cocky once and that was a big turn off for me and I guess it was obvious that I didn't like that and then he tried to say he wasn't trying to sound cocky and yadayada. But instead of breaking his ego and making him feel small and insecure, I got over it.
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You don't really like him if you can't accept all of him. You may as well move apart. This is just who he is. It's good he's confident, and if he's cocky, it's sort of healthy that he's a person that takes risks as well.
Unless this is just a troll question.
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So basically he's out of your league and you want to make him feel shit about himself and lower his self confidence so he likes you?
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If he is truly confident then you can't break him down. If his confidence stems purely on his ego then you have a shot. Depends entirely on his character and the context. No generic approach will work for everyone is different as an individual.
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You like him but want to make him feel small and insecure.
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why would you bother? wouldn't it be better to just find a guy you can easily have thats your type?
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You are a cruel girl :-) Try to attack him on his macho behaviour by doing better in what he does.
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tell him how small his dick is and how he can never satisfy any woman and then kick him in the balls and laugh and point at him as he is crying in pain. That should just about do it :)
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There are more than enough toxic people in the world , please don't swell their ranks. Simply keep away from this guy , there are plenty of others.
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You can try to criticize his achievements, but I don't think that'll do much. His head is already so far up in his bum.
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I'd help but you don't have a good reason, no ones going to want to help you just cuz you don't like his confidence
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well... they gave you a lot of suggestions as @Bandit74 said
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That's what you need to do.
1 - Give him a BJ.
2 - As you start, push him away disgusted.
3 - Vomit on him.
4 - Yell "YUCK! THAT'S TREMENDOUS! YOU MUST HAVE THE WORST PENIS EVER!" - 1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
If you don't like his attitude, what is there that you like about him?
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Find sometime that really bothers him and use it against him
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You like him but don't like his attitude? Doesn't make sense? Does that mean you just like him physically then?
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You like him, but you don't like his attitude. WTF, how does this make any sense?
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Wouldn't it be better to just do you?
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tell his mom he has a small penis in front of him
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Reject them and you'll break their ego
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Good luck...
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wtf? you dont like him then
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