someone needs to write a book on social communication because there are so many questions on how to interpret communication via text, social media.
Trying to interpret what someone means by how fast they respond, whether they take a day or two to respond, if the text is 1 word or 5 paragraphs, is quite a challenge.
honestly, if I see something and I can answer it easiy at the time and I have time, then I answer it. For example, if I'm at a stop light while driving, and I can respond yes, to a text, I will. Otherwise, it may be a whole day until I see the message again, remember I didn't respond, and reply.
If we are dating/great friends/family, I may have different rules.
If I don't know whta to say or what my plans are etc or I'm not interested, I may not reply.
In general, I may respond immediately if I'm interested, and I may wait if I'm not quite ready to answer.
There are just too many variables to be able to interpret if there isn't a relationship.
"May we live in interesting times:" Chinese proverb (wisdom).
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Personally, in my view, if a girl messages you then you should have the common courtesy to message her back instantly, especially if you don't have a legitimate reason for making her wait. I mean, we should treat others as we would want ourselves to be treated. If I was to message a girl, no matter how I was doing it and she wan't busy with something else equally important, then I'd expect her to respond, especially if she liked me and I would do the same for any girl in return. If someone doesn't message you back instantly then they either perhaps in my opinion don't like you or they feel you are not important enough to respond instantly to, or maybe they just have bad manners. End of story.
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why do women want to find a meaning in everything?
I reply quickly because if I don't, I will forget someone texted. and the fact that it is just polite. There is no reason to see you received a text, and just leave it there til later. That is asshole behavior.Not sure if you're complaining about a guy who actually responded to your text... most guys don't. I ONLY responded back in a timely manner if it's a girl I'm pursuing or if it's work related. But if I cannot get to it or deem it not that important right now, then it can definitely wait.
Generally if the girl has said something to really catch my interest I will respond instantly. Asking me questions is what makes me respond pretty quickly, because it's interesting to see that someone wants to know something about me.
He's available, interested, etc. I don't know there could be many reasons.
I mean it goes both ways, does it mean anything when a girl responds instantly?If he's responding to you instantly it means he's serious about you and has nothing else to do.
This is pretty funny, most women complain because "he doesn't message fast enough.".Um. If I have my phone on me I will respond near instantly, if I don't or get side tracked things can backlog for few days until I get back to people be it via call, text or email.
So nope. Doesn't mean anything.Yes it means a lot
It proves that the guy was waiting for ur text
Or was thinking about u
Orr was missing you
Main thing is that the guy will never neglect u
All the best!!For me, it's generally coincidence. If you happen to send something while I'm browsing stuff on my phone, I'll react immediately. Doesn't necessarily mean anything.
I sometimes respond instantly and sometimes I don't. It doesn't mean anything, it can depend on what am I doing while I receive it, how often they contact me, the intentions they have, etc.
I respond immediately to everyone. Girlfriend, friends, family, my boss, etc. If I get a message and I have my phone with me, I send a response then and there. It's disrespectful not to in my opinion
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