Does he want me to get a boob job?

[Anonymous]

I have small breasts, but my fiance always said that he loves them the way they are. But a few days ago I was dressing and said something about my bra not fitting right and he said that if I wanted a boob job he would pay for it.
What the hell is that supposed to mean? It sounds like he was lying about being happy with my body all along. Or am I overreacting? Does it sound like he actually wants me to do it?

[Losalt]

Have you made any comments of your own about a boob job prior to his comment that he might be basing his comment on?
Or have you been complaining a lot about your breasts?
He might just have noticed that you're unhappy with your breasts and tried to offer you to pay for a boob job in case you actually wanted it or need one for your own self esteeme and not due to his own preferences.
At any rate talk with him about this.

[CactusJuice]

Whether not he was joking that comment sounds passive aggressive. If he has a problem with your appearance, he could at least have discussed it with you in a neutral, non-judgmental way.

It's your body. There is never any reason to change it unless the change is solely for you!

If he cannot accept you the way you are, there are plenty of men who will.

Personally, I find smaller breasts attractive. :)

[Bleh-___-]

I don't know if he was joking or not as the tone matters a lot but it seems to be an extreme comment from just "my bra isn't fitting right". Why not "I'll pay for a new bra", nomesayin?

[Anonymous]

Oh shit. That would have bothered me too. Tell him that you wouldn't mind paying for a penis enlargement surgery ^_^ ! <3

[Jxx1981]

Id have knocked that on the head right away with a wisecrack back, I'll get a boob job when you get a penis enlargement.

[reptocarl]

Fuck what he says or thinks. He got with you knowing your anatomy and just now it's a problem? You tell that shallow fucking jerk if he doesn't like them the way they are he won't be seeing or playing with them ever again. There's plenty of guys that prefer small tits. I love my gfs A cups

[Bananaman177]

It's possible he was just fucking around, trying to make a joke that just didn't work, or whatever, but that sounds weird.

Don't mention it, pretend you didn't hear it, and if he says something again, you'll know he's trying to con you.

And dump him if so, because plenty of guys out there would love you without needing to get your boobs mutilated.

[InfoBot]

Offer to pay for him to get penis enlargement surgery or to get his fucked up face fixed. See how he likes that.

[holograph]

I'm guessing he was joking but it's hard to say. If he was serious, I'd call that inappropriate, but I'm not actually going to assume that he was serious.

[pooper89]

I think you should ask him. Maybe he offered for your sake. Maybe he thinks you're unhappy with your body and wants to do what he can to help? I don't know but, just ask him

[meatballs21]

You're overreacting. He wants YOU to be happy with yourself. If he didn't like you the way you are, he wouldn't be with you.

[TripleAce]

I mean you probably know how he is... you tell us if he meant it or not?

[fortyplusguy]

Ask him, although it's mean know that women are sensitive about breast size.

[12mayanks]

I think u took it the wrong way.
what he men at mostly was that if u want it he is open for your suggestion.
he is happy how you are.

[cattertone]

Sounds like he just told a bad joke. But at the same time he may notice that you maybe aren't satisfied with your breast size.

[Skadouchebag]

You should probably just ask him about it. (in a calm and understanding tone, of course)

[Danny_dan92]

Honestly you are gonna have to ask him straight up.

[jacquesvol]

Just accept yourself: he will too.
Buy another brand of bra.

[plzlovemeplz]

well we dont know what we are seeing here. most guys unfortunately are visual with this stuff. but he was just offering because he thought that would make u happy

[GreenRocket59]

I like breasts of all sizes because it's more about the person they attached to.

[GreenRocket59]

I wouldn't ever tell a woman to get a noon job, that is totally up to her

[JustCallMeLeon]

I think its a hint. You should talk to him about it. Whats your opinion? Would you do it?

[Takewithagrainofsalt]

If he did lie to make you feel happy that should be a better compliment than that your boobs are nice. That means he cared enough about your well being that he wants to see you happy.

[givandrcv]

I say keep it real. I love small breast. I love all breast. If you wanna send me a pic of them i will show them the love he doesn't

[Prime_Sol]

Do it. Small tits are not fun. he's trying to be nice.

[Anonymous]

Boob jobs are a crime against humanity. DFC for life.